Why is everytime someone complains about an element of the game, the first response is don't play it? It's perfectly normal to bitch about specific elements of a game you find faulty, especially when the rest looks so good. I didn't like the covenant system in Dark Souls, doesn't mean the game wasn't fantastic. I think the combat is garbage in Skyrim, still fun entertainment though.
I don't need a game to be realistic or PC, not at all. However, there is a big difference when talking about violence in video games between games like Manhunt vs Arkham Asylum. Just like there is a difference between making the female characters attractive, vs having their super attack being shooting milk. Yes, it may be all a spectrum of the same thing, but just because I complain when someone is setting the dial to 10, doesn't mean I'm not allowed to play the game or that I'm not allowed to not complain if a game has the dial set at 6.
Look, all I'm asking for is that if someone walks by me playing a game. I don't want to be ashamed socially, morally, or ethically about what's on the screen. If the character art for the Sorceress is up on my big screen, I would be. If I was fighting Rathalos in Monster Hunter, I wouldn't be. It's not because I'm some white knight or anything like that. I'm ashamed of it intellectually, it insults my intelligence and my dignity that someone thinks "this is what appeals to the gamer demographic". I'm not some champion of Feminism or Peace, I just want to have a hobby I can play in the living room and not be ashamed of.