Mostly feeling the same, I value thumbs symmetry (and in upper position) the most.As long as my hands remain symmetrical I'm always going to prefer the symmetrical layout. I can adjust easily enough, but I'd rather not settle.
The main reason I still enjoy PS layout is not games using dual analog (I also don't like dual analog for FPS that uses both sticks, but there's other games with dual analog, like Katamari or Unison... those would probably be better on U pro) but for games using D-pad + buttons.
And there's still a LOT of games I enjoy that doesn't use either sticks for input. Like most puzzle games, many RPGs, etc.
Colors, too (there's at least FIVE different colors sets for a diamond-shape set of ABXY buttons... Nintendo (SNES), Sega (DC), SNK (Neo-Geo CD), Bandai/Apple (Pippin), and Microsoft/Google are ALL differents arrangements for the same four colors!)And growing up primarily playing Nintendo consoles, the different placement of letters for the face buttons never fails to fuck with me when I use PC/Xbox controllers.