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High School Teacher Found Naked Atop Naked 16 Year Old Boy (Pic)

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BladeoftheImmortal said:
Not if he was in Alabama, or 32 other states that have 16 as the age of consent.

Most of those states have different rules for teachers (or anyone in a position of authority over the "victim").
 

Borgnine

MBA in pussy licensing and rights management
Krauser Kat said:
My best friend is trying to be a high school art teacher. He has girls hit on him all the time. While talking to a girl about her day and the project she was working on. She randomly asked if he wanted to see her underwear. He just turned around and went to the other side of the room and talk to those kids.

A couple girls, would often sit spread eagle under the desk facing him, but he cant mention it to anybody at school for risk of being a perv even if the girls are being disrespectful.

to clarify, he subs at the school now 3-4 days a week.

Post more stories.
 
If the genders would have been reversed, GAF would be all:

"ZOMG MONSTER MONSTER!"

"BURN AT HIM AT THE STAKE!"

"RAPIST!"

"OFF WITH HIS HEAD!"
 

Suairyu

Banned
timetokill said:
This sounds suspiciously like "well, it's not rape rape."

The point is, it's rape when you have sex with somebody who does not or cannot consent. Legally speaking, this person could not consent, therefore it is rape. Furthermore, the term "statutory rape" isn't even used in the language of most criminal statutes.
"It's not rape rape" is the 'excuse' people use when 30 year old men sleep with 11 year old girls. That is rape rape. I know plenty of girls who lost their virginity that young, but they sure as shit didn't know what they were doing when they did.

Just because the law says they cannot consent does not mean they cannot consent. Statutory rape and rape do not go hand in hand automatically. By your definition, if a 16 year old has sex with his 17 year old girlfriend, he just raped her and she him because neither could consent. Paradox!

I'm not defending sex with people who aren't old enough to consent here. I'm saying 16 is plenty old enough to consent. This is a case of 'sex with willing individual under the age of legally defined consent', not a case of 'sex with individual who does not consent or cannot consent'.

Thus, no matter what some backwards law says, it isn't rape.

Flying_Phoenix said:
If the genders would have been reversed, GAF would be all:

"ZOMG MONSTER MONSTER!"

"BURN AT HIM AT THE STAKE!"

"RAPIST!"

"OFF WITH HIS HEAD!"
Not really. An adult sleeping with a 16 year old, whilst more than a bit creepy, isn't a monstrous act.
 

.GqueB.

Banned
stupei said:
Which is exactly why age of consent laws exist.
See, this doesnt make sense to me.

At the age of 16, I think most boys are completely aware of their actions and completely willing/able to consent to sex with someone that is an adult. The law is strange. It somehow suggest that in the next TWO YEARS this boy will suddenly gain the right mind to consent to sex with an older woman. What life altering events will this boy experience in the next two years that will suddenly make him able to do this?

Its a dumb archaic law that cant be changed. Changing it would be like saying "ok NOW you can sex with 16 yr olds... not 14 though."

At the same time if my daughter walked in my house hand in hand with a 30 yr old Id kill him. So I think the law is technically stupid but I can see why the law exist. Many are saying that he knows what hes doing but the woman is still taking advantage of his uncontrollable horniness.
 

Lost Fragment

Obsessed with 4chan
.GqueB. said:
At the age of 16, I think most boys are completely aware of their actions and completely willing/able to consent to sex with someone that is an adult. The law is strange. It somehow suggest that in the next TWO YEARS this boy will suddenly gain the right mind to consent to sex with an older woman. What life altering events will this boy experience in the next two years that will suddenly make him able to do this?

There has to be a line drawn somewhere, because you can apply this logic to pretty much any age.
 
Krauser Kat said:
My best friend is trying to be a high school art teacher. He has girls hit on him all the time. While talking to a girl about her day and the project she was working on. She randomly asked if he wanted to see her underwear. He just turned around and went to the other side of the room and talk to those kids.

A couple girls, would often sit spread eagle under the desk facing him, but he cant mention it to anybody at school for risk of being a perv even if the girls are being disrespectful.

to clarify, he subs at the school now 3-4 days a week.

Dave Inc. said:
When I was 23 and worked at a restaurant you would not believe the hassle that was dealing with the 16 year old girls.

See, turns out teenage girls are fucking idiots and as soon as you tell them "No, you're too young" they revert to this "Oh, he won't have sex with me so it's totally okay if I flirt with him all the time and grab his junk because he's totally okay with not wanting to fuck me." Like they figure you're "safe" so they can play at being sexy or something.

Changing my career--teacher by day, waiter by night, prison by morning.
 
Many girls in my school started having sex in the 7th grade - that's around 12/13 years old.

The guys were still into Magic The Gathering, AD&D, sports, etc...maybe one out of the entire class wasn't a virgin at that age. But there were many girls who would brag outright about giving blowjobs, fucking guys at parties, and even using chocolate and whipped cream for sexual purposes (lol).

One girl even bragged about giving her first blowjob at the age of 10.
 

.GqueB.

Banned
Lost Fragment said:
There has to be a line drawn somewhere, because you can apply this logic to pretty much any age.
I would say 14. 4 years of "maturing" makes more sense to me. 16 is just an odd age to suggest that someone is 2 yrs away from being able to consent to sex with an older person. 2 yrs is nothing. And its technically 1 yr since 17 is considered the age of consent in many states. How is that logical?

In the case of driving I feel its more justified. You get your learners permit at 16, you spend 2 yrs practicing with a parent in the car and you get your license at 18. You're actively completing tasks in those two years in order to further prepare yourself to drive on the road solo. What is that same person doing in those same two years to prepare themselves for consensual sex with an adult? Reading books on how to fuck consensually? Maturing at a rapid rate?

I guess its the whole "ok nooooooooooooooooow youre ready" aspect that doesnt make sense to me. But as I said, the law is pretty much there protect vulnerable horny teenagers. But its still stupid and bizarre.
 

Carlisle

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timetokill said:
And it's like 14 or something in Japan. what's your point?
Just to set the record straight since no one said anything... 13 is age of consent in Japan at the federal level. However, each of the prefectures have made laws setting the age of consent much higher, most of them at 18.
 
.GqueB. said:
I would say 14. 4 years of "maturing" makes more sense to me. 16 is just an odd age to suggest that someone is 2 yrs away from being able to consent to sex with an older person. 2 yrs is nothing. And its technically 1 yr since 17 is considered the age of consent in many states. How is that logical?

In the case of driving I feel its more justified. You get your learners permit at 16, you spend 2 yrs practicing with a parent in the car and you get your license at 18. You're actively completing tasks in those two years in order to further prepare yourself to drive on the road solo. What is that same person doing in those same two years to prepare themselves for consensual sex with an adult? Reading books on how to fuck consensually? Maturing at a rapid rate?

I guess its the whole "ok nooooooooooooooooow youre ready" aspect that doesnt make sense to me. But as I said, the law is pretty much there protect vulnerable horny teenagers. But its still stupid and bizarre.
Just because you have that opinion doesn't mean squat. Unless you frequently propose new law. Others could argue against 14 down to 13 or 12. After all in Jewish communities a bar or bat mitzvah is held at that age...so why not?[/sarcasm] His point is still valid. The government has drawn a line and if you cross it, it's considered rape. If she wanted to have sex with a child without going to prison she should have transferred to another state.

edit: Well, not that I always agree with the government. But in this case she messed up big time.
 
Bowles faces up to 10 years in prison if convicted of charges relating to the sexual assault of a child.

The dude is 16. He is NOT a child by any means and knew exactly what he was getting into. Gotta' feel sorry for the husband.
 

Lost Fragment

Obsessed with 4chan
.GqueB. said:
I would say 14. 4 years of "maturing" makes more sense to me. 16 is just an odd age to suggest that someone is 2 yrs away from being able to consent to sex with an older person. 2 yrs is nothing. And its technically 1 yr since 17 is considered the age of consent in many states. How is that logical?

In the case of driving I feel its more justified. You get your learners permit at 16, you spend 2 yrs practicing with a parent in the car and you get your license at 18. You're actively completing tasks in those two years in order to further prepare yourself to drive on the road solo. What is that same person doing in those same two years to prepare themselves for consensual sex with an adult? Reading books on how to fuck consensually? Maturing at a rapid rate?

I guess its the whole "ok nooooooooooooooooow youre ready" aspect that doesnt make sense to me. But as I said, the law is pretty much there protect vulnerable horny teenagers. But its still stupid and bizarre.

Well, there are other factors to consider here.

Like, how well-prepared is a 14 year old gonna be to take care of a kid if they don't use protection and get knocked up? Not like a 16 year old is gonna be much better off, but at least you can legally work at 16 in most (all?) of the country. Most places let you drop out of school at this age too. And you can drive, etc. 16 makes sense in a lot of ways.
 

JayDubya

Banned
Suairyu said:
I'm not defending sex with people who aren't old enough to consent here. I'm saying 16 is plenty old enough to consent. This is a case of 'sex with willing individual under the age of legally defined consent', not a case of 'sex with individual who does not consent or cannot consent'.

Thus, no matter what some backwards law says, it isn't rape.

That law defines the age of consent. If you're younger than it, by definition, you cannot consent.

If you're saying you think the age of majority should be younger - say, 16, maybe? -then say that and I might agree with you... I think we should be consistent in our application of the age of majority, though.

But what you just said is just wrong.
 

Sp3eD

0G M3mbeR
Ashes1396 said:

Reading through some of these, but this one is complete bullshit.

Amy McElhenney, 25: Charged with having a sexual relationship with an 18-year-old male student, the 25-year-old Hebron High School Spanish teacher and former Miss Texas contestant will not be serving any jail time after a Denton County, Texas, grand jury refused to issue an indictment in September 2006. While the age of consent in Texas is 17 years, a state law bans sexual relationships between educators and students even if the student is of legal age and the relationship is consensual. She could have faced 20 years in prison if indicted and convicted.

That shit needs to change. You are 18. You know what you are doing.
 
Suairyu said:
"It's not rape rape" is the 'excuse' people use when 30 year old men sleep with 11 year old girls. That is rape rape. I know plenty of girls who lost their virginity that young, but they sure as shit didn't know what they were doing when they did.

Which is the exact argument the government makes with their law that says that adults having sex with 16-year old's are raping them because they are not mature enough to make that decision for themselves. Not to mention it's a teacher, a person in a position of authority. But you want to be the arbiter of whatever the age of consent is and say it's lower than 18? Okay, fine. What age is it then?

Just because the law says they cannot consent does not mean they cannot consent.
Actually, by law, that's exactly what it means.

Statutory rape and rape do not go hand in hand automatically. By your definition, if a 16 year old has sex with his 17 year old girlfriend, he just raped her and she him because neither could consent. Paradox!

By your presumed definition of the age of consent at... say, 15, two 13 year olds could fuck each other and both be raping each other too. Or are you including a clause that says that kids can fuck each other as much as they want?


edit: JayDubya got to the last part so I won't comment on it.
 

X26

Banned
So why's people getting it n in cars the cops business in the first place anyways? Do public indecency laws apply no matter where you're parked?
 
Jason's Ultimatum said:
Dude's alright looking.......unless he has a tiny penis.
I'm sure the 16 year old kid was packing a pencil dick for sure. That 31 year old beat up pussy of two kids felt nothing of his slim jim. Heck, she probably used the vodka bottle on herself.

At least her husband has a man cock.
 

Suairyu

Banned
JayDubya said:
That law defines the age of consent. If you're younger than it, by definition, you cannot consent [...] But what you just said is just wrong.
What the law says and what the truth of the matter is are two completely different things in this case. By definition, you can consent whenever you like. By psychological/sociological definition, something in 14-16 age range is probably when you can safely say someone has a grasp on what sex is and make their own choices about it. Some even younger than that, though laws should always err on the side of caution. By legal definition, in the USA you cannot unless you're 18. Which is stupidly high. If by 16 you are not actually able to consent or not consent to sex then you have learning difficulties to the degree you will never be able to consent to sex/trauma that will take years of therapy to work through.

Hence why I will never call a consenting 16 year old having sex with someone older than them rape, no matter what the law of the land says. It's factually untrue. Just because the law has the ability to disregard the facts doesn't mean the law is right.
Actually, by law, that's exactly what it means.
No, it means the law does not give them the authority to consent, not that they can't consent. You would have to strip an individual of their own personal free-will (I mean literally, not legally) to say they are not in a position to consent when their mind is is mature enough to evaluate the situation. The law says you cannot murder people, yet murderers are able to commit murder. Do you see my point here. A 16 year old can absolutely consent. The legal status of that consenting is another matter entirely.
 
I don't have any particular comment about whats right or wrong in terms of consent but I will say that I feel that this country hands down lengthy jail sentences far too quickly. I understand the use of such strictness as a deterrent to future crimes, but in this instance a ruling of 10 years...it's absolutely devastating.

I for one actually question at what point sentences of such a length start to actually bring the eight amendment into question. I think we as a society fail to realize just how long these sentences are and what they mean. 10 years. Think about that for a moment. Especially under the circumstances of this particular event.
 

Suairyu

Banned
XiaNaphryz said:
It depends on your definition of "right."
Right as in factually accurate. I'm not talking in moral terms here.
By your presumed definition of the age of consent at... say, 15, two 13 year olds could fuck each other and both be raping each other too. Or are you including a clause that says that kids can fuck each other as much as they want?
Not my definition, yours. You are the one claiming that anyone having sex under the legally defined age of consent is being raped. So under your definition, two 13 year olds having consensual sex are raping each other.

That is the issue of calling consensual underage sex 'rape', a definition I abhor as much as I abhor the adults taking advantage of vulnerable kids who the the laws of consent are meant to protect.
 
hsin said:
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Looks like hubby still forgives her.
hubby is a punk bitch.
 
Suairyu said:
The legal status of that consenting is another matter entirely.

No, the legal status of consenting is the matter at hand. Your comments about "well he could totally say yes" are irrelevant to the fact that she is facing jail time.

Suairyu said:
Not my definition, yours. You are the one claiming that anyone having sex under the legally defined age of consent is being raped. So under your definition, two 13 year olds having consensual sex are raping each other.
Okay, I'll bite. Let's hear your definition, then? And is it totally cool in your opinion for two 13-year olds to fuck?
 

JayDubya

Banned
18 isn't that unreasonable. It's the age one graduates from high school, leaves home, is able to vote, is able to work or join the military. At 18 you are wholly responsible for what you do on so many other topics...

Sex is an adult activity with adult consequences. Unless you're willing and able to deal with those eventualities like a responsible adult, you shouldn't be partaking in the activity.

It's going to be arbitrary whenever it is set, but one thing I find worse than being arbitrary is being inconsistent. Either one is responsible enough to be considered able to make one's own decisions w/ regards to school, labor, sexual activity, drinking (and other such vices), voting, criminal punishments etc, or they are not.

I could see lowering the age of majority, but I do not think the age of consent and age of majority should differ.

Suairyu said:
So under your definition, two 13 year olds having consensual sex are raping each other.

No, because neither is able to consent. This is a case of utter parent failure. There is no aggression to prosecute, but there is possible / arguable negligence.
 

Suairyu

Banned
timetokill said:
Okay, I'll bite. Let's hear your definition, then? And is it totally cool in your opinion for two 13-year olds to fuck?
The age of consent is there to protect underage people from being taken advantage of by of much older adults. If you tried to take a 13 year old boy and his 14 year old girlfriend to court and charge them with underaged sex you wouldn't get very far. They consented the sex, even if many would argue they didn't understand what they were doing (in my personal experience, most people know what they're doing by the age of 12. Intellectually, at least).

In the UK, where the age of consent is 16, you couldn't even take a 16 year old boy to court for having consensual sex with his 15 year old girlfriend. Nobody would think of it as rape. Consent had been given. They probably wouldn't even actually consider it 'statutory rape', despite the letter of the law. Laws are forever context-based like that.

Would you call that case rape?

In fact, there are cases of look-20-but-actually-around-14 girls who go out to seek the older male partner and have consensual sex with them. One such case reached court, the 14 year old girl in question was deemed emotionally mature enough to have made the consensual decision so that - even though the man had engaged in sexual contact with her - it would never come under the definition of rape, especially given she physically had the body of someone around the age of 20 - certainly the guy was not guilty of searching out underage girls.

Would you call that case rape?

Don't use legal logic. Think carefully about what 'rape' means - to force someone to have sex.

A 30 year old with a learning disability has sex. Is the partner guilty of rape?
A 15 year old with an emotional and intellectual maturity greater than that 30 year old has sex. Is the partner guilty of rape?

And to answer your question - two 13 year olds engaging in sex. Yes. That's totally fine, so long as it's all consensual. Maybe they're not actually ready for sex and there will be emotional fall out, but that's part of growing up. They don't know much better, but it is their call to make, not anyone else's.

To extend the question to where I believe you'd next take it - a 13 year old and an 18 year old engaging in sex. Broadly speaking, no. The 18 year old does know better. They are in the position of responsibility to say no. In many cases, despite the 13 year old giving their consent, they are not mature enough to fully comprehend giving that consent. The 18 year old should realise this and say no. That doesn't make it rape if he doesn't act responsibly, it's the term 'statutory rape' - technical rape due to the individual not being able to give consent.

Goddamn I'm reading the last paragraph back and some of the phrases out of context sound like excuses for actual rape. I'm being extremely trusting of everyone on GAF (perhaps foolishly) to fully comprehend the context to everything I'm writing and not to cherry pick single sentences out and jump on me for being a rape apologist.
JayDubya said:
18 isn't that unreasonable. It's the age one graduates from high school, leaves home, is able to vote, is able to work or join the military. At 18 you are wholly responsible for what you do on so many other topics...

Sex is an adult activity with adult consequences. Unless you're willing and able to deal with those eventualities like a responsible adult, you shouldn't be partaking in the activity.
See that's a difference of viewpoint there. In Europe, sex is culturally accepted as something you begin once your body lets you in some cases. It's about whenever you as the individual feel ready, whether that is age 11 or age 23. The age of consent is there to prevent adults preying on younger ones uncertain about what they want to do, taking advantage etc., not to prevent teenagers fumbling around and figuring it all out for themselves.

Yet you're putting joining the military and learning to kill people on the same level as sex. It's like all American gaming websites showing Kratos ripping some dude's head off, blood and bits everywhere, then blurring out the tits. It's ridiculous.
 

.GqueB.

Banned
Lost Fragment said:
Well, there are other factors to consider here.

Like, how well-prepared is a 14 year old gonna be to take care of a kid if they don't use protection and get knocked up? Not like a 16 year old is gonna be much better off, but at least you can legally work at 16 in most (all?) of the country. Most places let you drop out of school at this age too. And you can drive, etc. 16 makes sense in a lot of ways.
I may be mistaken but i'm not 100% sure we're disagreeing here.

I know i'm being a bit wordy here but the basic idea is this:

I think it's ludicrous to suggest that at the age of 16 a boy is not ready/prepared to consent to sexual intercourse with an adult but in one or two years time he suddenly will be. The separation needs to be more substantial to make any sense.

For instance, when I was 17 years old, my 25 year old neighbor gave me head and i had sex with a 30ish year old co worker. Now to suggest that if this had happened a year or so earlier these women would have been considered criminals and could've faced some jail time is just a bit off to me.

I'm gonna stop arguing this now though because i'm starting to sound like a pedo.
 

Blackace

if you see me in a fight with a bear, don't help me fool, help the bear!
Carlisle said:
Just to set the record straight since no one said anything... 13 is age of consent in Japan at the federal level. However, each of the prefectures have made laws setting the age of consent much higher, most of them at 18.

bingo..

Kanagawa is 18
 

Blackace

if you see me in a fight with a bear, don't help me fool, help the bear!
Epic Tales of Penis said:
I'm sure the 16 year old kid was packing a pencil dick for sure. That 31 year old beat up pussy of two kids felt nothing of his slim jim. Heck, she probably used the vodka bottle on herself.

At least her husband has a man cock.

This is an Epic Tales of Penis(tm) post!
 
Suairyu said:
In fact, there are cases of look-20-but-actually-around-14 girls who go out to seek the older male partner and have consensual sex with them. One such case reached court, the 14 year old girl in question was deemed emotionally mature enough to have made the consensual decision so that - even though the man had engaged in sexual contact with her - it would never come under the definition of rape, especially given she physically had the body of someone around the age of 20 - certainly the guy was not guilty of searching out underage girls.
You mean society actually looked at the context of the situation and the maturity level of the minor instead of immediately labeling the guy a pedophile child rapist? Brilliant!

Good post.
 

JayDubya

Banned
Suairyu said:
If you tried to take a 13 year old boy and his 14 year old girlfriend to court and charge them with underaged sex you wouldn't get very far. They consented the sex.
If they're not adults, responsible for their actions, then no, they didn't consent because by definition they couldn't.

In the UK, where the age of consent is 16, you couldn't even take a 16 year old boy to court for having consensual sex with his 15 year old girlfriend.

Would you call that case rape?

If you don't, then the age of consent is meaningless.

In fact, there are cases of look-20-but-actually-around-14 girls who go out to seek the older male partner and have consensual sex with them. One such case reached court, the 14 year old girl in question was deemed emotionally mature enough to have made the consensual decision so that - even though the man had engaged in sexual contact with her - it would never come under the definition of rape, especially given she physically had the body of someone around the age of 20 - certainly the guy was not guilty of searching out underage girls.

Would you call that case rape?

This is more situational. Not because the 14 year old is "mature enough to make a consensual decision" (and if the court uses this reasoning, then the court is wholly ignoring the law which sets the age of consent at 16), but because there is deception involved. If the defendant can demonstrate that he or she was not acting in aggression in violation of the rights of the minor, then leniency is warranted. Of course, demonstrating that may prove quite difficult...

To extend the question to where I believe you'd next take it - a 13 year old and an 18 year old engaging in sex. Broadly speaking, no. The 18 year old does know better. They are in the position of responsibility to say no. In many cases, despite the 13 year old giving their consent, they are not mature enough to fully comprehend giving that consent. The 18 year old should realise this and say no. That doesn't make it rape if he doesn't act responsibly, it's the term 'statutory rape' - technical rape due to the individual not being able to give consent.

She can't consent to sex, so if he has sex with her, he has had sex without consent. That is rape, no ifs, ands, buts, or technicalities. Just rape.
 

Suairyu

Banned
Brian Griffin said:
You mean society actually looked at the context of the situation and the maturity level of the minor instead of immediately labeling the guy a pedophile child rapist? Brilliant!

Good post.
A certain tabloid and a rather hardline feminist group had a field day and with comments such as "man allowed to get away with rape" or similar, but pretty much every other comment, even from rival rags and groups, saw it as a victory for common sense.
 

mavs

Member
Just to lay out a baseline for this thread (though outside the US this map is sketchy)



Sp3eD said:
That shit needs to change. You are 18. You know what you are doing.

That is not about consent, it's about the conduct of your teachers. The point isn't to protect 18-year olds, it's to enforce acceptable behavior of teachers.
 

JayDubya

Banned
FlightOfHeaven said:
She has children.

How could she do that to them? That's terrible. : (

Indeed. Now she can't even help support said children.

All of her work experience is useless now; somehow I don't expect she'll ever get another gig working in helping teachers set professional boundaries.
 

Suairyu

Banned
JayDubya said:
If they're not adults, responsible for their actions, then no, they didn't consent because by definition they couldn't.



If you don't, then the age of consent is meaningless.

[...]

She can't consent to sex, so if he has sex with her, he has had sex without consent. That is rape, no ifs, ands, buts, or technicalities. Just rape.
Have you read nothing I have said? She can consent, she just isn't legally allowed. Can you not understand the difference? A person isn't a allowed to steal, that doesn't mean they can't. Do you get me? Rape is sex without consent, not sex without legally approved consent. That latter category is statutory rape - rape due to technical breach of statutory laws and rights.

You seem to throw around 'by definition' a lot, when you mean 'as defined by the law', another two terms that are very different.

And courts never ignore laws, they choose to add context and common sense. Any legal system that applies the letter of the law alone is a failed legal system. Is that what US courts are like? Ignore context, intelligence and apply the law to the letter even in cases where the law is demonstrably wrong? It isn't rendering a law pointless, it's merely using it for its intended purpose - the protection of the populace.
 
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