Shawn128 said:but on her myspace
GAF Detectives, I smell a case. :lol
Shawn128 said:but on her myspace
Shawn128 said:Here's the kicker: Can't tell if she has a bf or not cause when I talk to her, it seems like she's all by herself, but on her myspace, there's a guy on there that posts a lot and calls her 'babe' and stuff. I guess we'll find out tonight, hmmm?
:lolLuscious LeftFoot said:Aha... now it's starting to sound like a typical GAF girl thread.
MoxManiac said:Dating sounds stressful and annoying.
MoxManiac said:Dating sounds stressful and annoying.
Boogie, you can't imagine how much I feel your pain there. The one time I've tried to go in for a kiss, I got the head-turn rejection as well. A crappy feeling indeed. Just keep on keepin' on, bro.Boogie said:Date on Friday goes well, until the end when we arrive at the subway station for her to leave, I try to kiss her good night, and she turns away!
:lol :lol :lolDating is the easiest way to make friends!
STFU,GTFO&FHUTAMemles said:Yeah, my advice right now is to avoid the whole thing altogether, but that's just my bitterness and frustrating setting through.
[Takes Thread from Boogie]
More or less, had a hot girl who I knew pretty well all of a sudden have a crush on me. This is a bizarre situation for me, since it has never happened. I get word of this, and I'm like "Shit". I really didn't want to deal with it. However, hormones took over, and when she told me about it I was like "Alright, might as well give it a shot". We had coffee, that was fine.
But then it was fucking Valentine's Day. And then I was pushed into a social construct. And then I made her these culturally insensitive Valentine's. And then she kissed me. And then we made out. Hormones? Completely taken over at this point. This is all heading into Spring Break, where we were heading our separate ways.
Now, like a month later almost, we're in two completely different places mentally. I feel as if we skipped the "Let's hang out and get to know each other stage" and that her 'crush' has made it so she's light years ahead of me. I had someone on my floor in residence tell me she had met my "girlfriend" and I'm pretty sure I stared blankly for a few minutes. Things went way too fast, and I do not have the time right now to be worrying about feeling as if I'm ignoring her or not living up to some sort of social standard.
Thus, I have to tell this girl who has a crush on me only because I'm simply a nice, non-threatening guy and she's used to dating guys who just want to sleep with her...I have to tell her that I do not have time to wrap my head around a relationship right now and I simply haven't made that leap. We're in clubs together, we run into each other; right now, I just want to avoid her and avoid the whole mess period. Fuck.
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As for the Original Poster, just be wary of entering a situation that could well blow up in your face.
Boogie said:If only there were some way to trade places, Memles.
PhoenixDark said:If you have a woman's number, I suggest you use it. Call her from a pay phone late at night, and after she answers hang up. Hearing her tired voice could give you insight into how she sounds when in bed.
PhoenixDark said:If you have a woman's number, I suggest you use it. Call her from a pay phone late at night, and after she answers hang up. Hearing her tired voice could give you insight into how she sounds when in bed.
What about girls who get your number and have no problem calling and leaving messages half an hour after getting your number? Followed by three or four days of texted gibberish that you ignore because you happen to find her myspace and discover that she's really a girl six years younger than you who prides herself on being a hick and whose biggest turn-on is "big trucks and hott guys who are into HUNTIN", despite half her myspace page cluing you in to how horny the chick is? umm, *ahem*....So obviously not every girl cares for the "wait a few days to call" rule. I imagine it just depends on the situation and how you know her.MIMIC said:Never call the next day.
Waiting a day FTW
wha? clearly that was a hypothetical situation.MoxManiac said:You should have tapped that redneck ass, demon.
PhoenixDark said:I've got my cousin on speed dial, but the problem is she's my cousin. So I suppose that doesn't count (although she is hot).
If you have a woman's number, I suggest you use it. Call her from a pay phone late at night, and after she answers hang up. Hearing her tired voice could give you insight into how she sounds when in bed.
PhoenixDark said:To be called by a woman seems like a very prestigeous honor to me. On a couple occassions I have been called by a woman. But sadly, a majority of these occurances were school related (group work, not groupie work sadly).
Does anyone have women on speed dial? This has always been one of my dreams. The idea of having a woman that close to me is a very lush proposition. I've got my cousin on speed dial, but the problem is she's my cousin. So I suppose that doesn't count (although she is hot).
If you have a woman's number, I suggest you use it. Call her from a pay phone late at night, and after she answers hang up. Hearing her tired voice could give you insight into how she sounds when in bed.
Boogie said:...
Date on Friday goes well, until the end when we arrive at the subway station for her to leave, I try to kiss her good night, and she turns away!
...
PhlegmMaster said:That used to happen to me a lot. I'd be all cocky, funny and a real badass on the first date and I'd get the feeling the girl was head-over-heels for me, but when I went for a smoochie the girl would always smile, nod, and turn away. Or something similar. Mind you, I eventually kissed and fucked some of these girls, but they would always, ALWAYS refuse to kiss me on first date! I never had the balls to ask them why later.
Anyway, one day (about 5 months ago) I decided enough was enough. After another successful first date with this really nice black-haired cutie, I drove her home, and after helping her get out of the car I just said,
"I had a lot of fun, thanks. See you next week."
She said, "Um. Aren't you going to kiss me?"
I said, "Nope." And I drove away.
It felt G-R-E-A-T.
Did it feel as g-r-e-a-t as the blowjob she was going to give you that night?PhlegmMaster said:That used to happen to me a lot. I'd be all cocky, funny and a real badass on the first date and I'd get the feeling the girl was head-over-heels for me, but when I went for a smoochie the girl would always smile, nod, and turn away. Or something similar. Mind you, I eventually kissed and fucked some of these girls, but they would always, ALWAYS refuse to kiss me on first date! I never had the balls to ask them why later.
Anyway, one day (about 5 months ago) I decided enough was enough. After another successful first date with this really nice black-haired cutie, I drove her home, and after helping her get out of the car I just said,
"I had a lot of fun, thanks. See you next week."
She said, "Um. Aren't you going to kiss me?"
I said, "Nope." And I drove away.
It felt G-R-E-A-T.
PhlegmMaster said:That used to happen to me a lot. I'd be all cocky, funny and a real badass on the first date and I'd get the feeling the girl was head-over-heels for me, but when I went for a smoochie the girl would always smile, nod, and turn away. Or something similar. Mind you, I eventually kissed and fucked some of these girls, but they would always, ALWAYS refuse to kiss me on first date! I never had the balls to ask them why later.
Anyway, one day (about 5 months ago) I decided enough was enough. After another successful first date with this really nice black-haired cutie, I drove her home, and after helping her get out of the car I just said,
"I had a lot of fun, thanks. See you next week."
She said, "Um. Aren't you going to kiss me?"
I said, "Nope." And I drove away.
It felt G-R-E-A-T.
Boogie said:Date on Friday goes well, until the end when we arrive at the subway station for her to leave, I try to kiss her good night, and she turns away
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demon said:Did it feel as g-r-e-a-t as the blowjob she was going to give you that night?
Slo said:YOU SHOWED HER!
Himuro said:Haha good job. What happened next week man?
NinSoX said:I don't call chicks..they call ME :lol
Really. The last time I've had a hot girl that I knew was interested in me was...never. Of course maybe I didn't pick up on the signals.MoxManiac said:Memles, you poor man. I sincerely hope that no more hot girls become interested in you. That would be such a tragedy.
All Hail C-Webb said:Virgin minds think alike.
She probably wanted him that much more the next time they met up. I was going to give the same advice to Boogie.
Kisses on the first date are not worth it.
If you're able to pull it off (you can't seem like you were too scared to go in for the kiss), going the first date without trying to kiss the girl is usually a good idea. Girls expect you to try and kiss them, so when you don't (and you don't seem like it's because you're pussy), the girl is going to be in the same position you are in when she turns you down. She's going to be questioning herself, wondering why you didn't go in for the kiss, maybe you just weren't feeling her. When girls get like that, they do the opposite of what an insecure guy would do. They pursue it even more. This is what you want.
Boogie said:Fucking games :-/
All Hail C-Webb said:Take it, it's yours.
I need to do this next time. I've been soooo pissed off with girls the past couple of instances.PhlegmMaster said:
YES!
Hehe, to be honest I didn't think she'd be willing to go on another date when I refused the kiss. :lol I simply acted out of accumulated annoyance.
PhlegmMaster said:That used to happen to me a lot. I'd be all cocky, funny and a real badass on the first date and I'd get the feeling the girl was head-over-heels for me, but when I went for a smoochie the girl would always smile, nod, and turn away. Or something similar. Mind you, I eventually kissed and fucked some of these girls, but they would always, ALWAYS refuse to kiss me on first date! I never had the balls to ask them why later.
Anyway, one day (about 5 months ago) I decided enough was enough. After another successful first date with this really nice black-haired cutie, I drove her home, and after helping her get out of the car I just said,
"I had a lot of fun, thanks. See you next week."
She said, "Um. Aren't you going to kiss me?"
I said, "Nope." And I drove away.
It felt G-R-E-A-T.
:lolHimuro said:...You drive her to school? Holy shit, in car bj?
What?! A girl forcing herself on you is a turnoff? The only time that should happen is if she is completely hideous.PhoenixDark said::And she's tried to force herself on me, which just came off as desperation (the ultamite turnoff imo).
Swingers is all full of funny dialogues, one of my all-time favorite movies =)TRENT
Laugh all you want, but if you call to soon you can scare off a nice baby who's ready to party.
SUE
Don't listen to him. You call whenever it feels right to you.
Benadryl Hitman said:What?! A girl forcing herself on you is a turnoff? The only time that should happen is if she is completely hideous.
PhoenixDark said:If you have a woman's number, I suggest you use it. Call her from a pay phone late at night, and after she answers hang up. Hearing her tired voice could give you insight into how she sounds when in bed.
PhoenixDark said::lol
Believe me, that thought has crossed my mind.
She looks alright, but I don't her personality
If you treat dates like games, and don't hype them into life or death situations, you're going to have alot more fun.
MoxManiac said:I don't like to play games with bill collectors