It's not, it really isn't. Sorry if I came off otherwise. My parents both sacrificed and put themselves last during the best years of their lives to secure funds for college. At the same time however, both my parents are not college educated.. showed up early, stayed late and volunteered to get ahead in their careers. My mom worked for the county and my dad was an inside pipe salesman, now both retired comfortably. What they built wasn't luck, it was blood, sweat and tears. It was something lost to time, but something I'm not blind to so I won't pretend it was anything else included.
I do recognize not every family has the same opportunities as mine, hard work or not. That needs to, has to, must change at all costs. Every family, every child should have the same opportunity to be happy, successful and thrive. There is no question, but the big focus for me personally it opportunity. Success is earned, and this is something I struggled with my entire adult life. Both my parents grew up poor as dirt but built a life, modest at best but it was calculated every step of the way. Sound, calculated decisions at every fork.
I do everything in my life to provide better for my own children. I want this for everyone, but at the end of a 70 hour work week I'm out of gas. My parents saved for my college, and I feel incredibly accomplished when I can do the same. A few years ago my wife and I were broke, living 50ft from a train track wondering how life had dealt us a bad hand and then I decided that was my existence, my children's existence .. or I could climb a mountain.
I keep climbing for them. One day I'll die, I hope they keep climbing.