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ive done f*cked up :\
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Sleeper901
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To sum up :
- you had unprotected sex but didn't release
- you talk to ur girl about this saying how much u are worried that this might lead to a kid
- she says how anxious she is about this
- she takes two pregnancy test which confirms that she is not pregnant, twice !
- she pretend to go to the doctor who supposedly says that she actually might be pregnant
- of course two days later she is supposedly once again told by her doctor that she is in fact pregnant
- she wants to handle everything on her own and passively aggressively accuse u of being an asshole
- she has a miscarriage reported to you second hand by a friend of her...
Connect the dots
- you had unprotected sex but didn't release
- you talk to ur girl about this saying how much u are worried that this might lead to a kid
- she says how anxious she is about this
- she takes two pregnancy test which confirms that she is not pregnant, twice !
- she pretend to go to the doctor who supposedly says that she actually might be pregnant
- of course two days later she is supposedly once again told by her doctor that she is in fact pregnant
- she wants to handle everything on her own and passively aggressively accuse u of being an asshole
- she has a miscarriage reported to you second hand by a friend of her...
Connect the dots
she was never pregnant and is in super bullshit mode for god knows what reason.
I'm going to partly take her side, just for a second. I've been through similar and women a fucking difficult to deal with in situations like this. Not everyone can take a potential unwanted pregnancy in their stride. You can't begin to try and understand it logically, it's too close to her, too emotional.
All you can do is be supportive, no matter how irrational she appears to be.
It's possible she blames you, maybe subconsciously for putting her in this situation. That will take time for her to get over.
All you can do is be supportive, no matter how irrational she appears to be.
It's possible she blames you, maybe subconsciously for putting her in this situation. That will take time for her to get over.
ganbareneopokekun
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this thread :lol :lol
Zoe said:
yeah, either she was knocked up by some other guy long ago or she is full of shit.
Or Shuri is full of shit.
At 2 weeks the thing is smaller than a fucking peanut. Most women don't have any idea they are pregnant for 4-6 weeks. Not one fucking week. And they don't miscarry that damn quickly and if somehow they did, the odds that they would even know it happened aren't that great. The odds of blood everywhere are even less.
She is either a liar or a psycho and either way you need to get the fuck away from her and back into the girl-age thread and ask how to find non-potential serial killers.
smokeymicpot
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ronito said:
This. I thought he was a chick the whole time. Pretty sure in some posts it even stated it.
evil solrac v3.0
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can you even find out for sure after two weeks you are pregnant?
and have a miscarriage?
either she went digging or she was already pregnant from before.....
and have a miscarriage?
either she went digging or she was already pregnant from before.....
ClovingWestbrook
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shuri said:
Dude, you're SOOOOOOOOOOO being played by this girl.
my condolences if she did have a miscarriage.
One of you is full of shit. There is no earthly way all of this can happen in 3 weeks. 3 months, maybe... but the timeline makes no sense whatsoever. And combined with the fact you're getting ALL of your information second-hand, and the fact her mood is swinging wildly... you're being played. Or your a bad, bad liar.
POWERSPHERE
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Why do I get the sinking feeling she's been cheating on you and this is a weird manifestation of that?
Seriously shuri, some really weird shit is going on in your story. It's funny because if it were any other poster, GAF would have probably already gone ahead accusing him of being a liar a long time ago. This is starting to reach impossibility levels not seen since the thread with the guy whose "girlfriend went missing" a few weeks ago. The similarity is uncanny, getting information from indirect sources and all.
Bail out while you can.
Bail out while you can.
Sounds like your chick is straight up crazy mate. I can't even wrap my head around this quick time line. Pretty much what everyone else has said - she's playing you. Drop her quick.
Even if she was straight up true about everything; the way she's treated you the past few weeks is bonkers. You don't want to be with someone like that long term.
Even if she was straight up true about everything; the way she's treated you the past few weeks is bonkers. You don't want to be with someone like that long term.
polyh3dron
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Shuri may need to go ly dow,
krypt0nian
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polyh3dron said:
That's what I was thinking.
joeblackisback
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Wow, so many red flags in this whole situation. You really need a better source of information. Second hand just does not cut it in a situation like this. Also, she's lying.
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