So yesterday afternoon, my girlfriend came over, we played a bit of Halo Reach, then she mentionned she was tired and wanted to take a nap. We go to bed, try to sleep for like 4 minutes, until she asks.. "Do you really wanna sleep?", one thing leads to another, and we're off to an epic bout of 60 minutes (wtf) of non-stop penetration, with a few 30 secs break so she can rest and catch her breath. Phone rang, it was her daughter, it was time to go pick her up. We just stopped, even if I didnt cum (..). We showered and she left. The thing is.. in the heat of the moment, I never stopped to put a condom on.
I'M A DUMBASS! How can I BE THAT GUY?! How many guys did I bash on gaf for doing the very same thing.
Thing is, yeah, I never came, but all those stories on the net and info about pre-cum being enough to get the girl pregnant are kind of freaking me out. I'm 28, she's 30. She said many many times that she didnt want any kids anymore because the first one was so painful and insane, and it even led to tensions in the past because she felt selfish because I told her I wanted tons of kids later on and she didn't want any.
The chances of her getting pregnant are very low, but still. From google searches, it seems that at the earliest, tests will only start being effective in about a week from now. She's always late for that time of the month, but she should start on oct 5th.
.. I cant believe how fucked up the situation is. We are started to freak out a bit. Ugh. A kid together was not in our plans at all. She also discarded the idea of the morning after pill because she gets sick to death from oral contraceptives. We had 'THE' discussion.. She asked me what I wanted to do if the tests were positives.. I told her it would not be a good time to have a kid, and she was like.. "you are right, but are you sure?" i said.. "yeah, 100% sure".. she then wrote back something like.. "It does hurts my heart that you are so sure, but dont worry, i dont want another kid neither"
20 minutes later, she sent me a message about 'needing some time for herself and that she will be calling me later"
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I'M A DUMBASS! How can I BE THAT GUY?! How many guys did I bash on gaf for doing the very same thing.
Thing is, yeah, I never came, but all those stories on the net and info about pre-cum being enough to get the girl pregnant are kind of freaking me out. I'm 28, she's 30. She said many many times that she didnt want any kids anymore because the first one was so painful and insane, and it even led to tensions in the past because she felt selfish because I told her I wanted tons of kids later on and she didn't want any.
The chances of her getting pregnant are very low, but still. From google searches, it seems that at the earliest, tests will only start being effective in about a week from now. She's always late for that time of the month, but she should start on oct 5th.
.. I cant believe how fucked up the situation is. We are started to freak out a bit. Ugh. A kid together was not in our plans at all. She also discarded the idea of the morning after pill because she gets sick to death from oral contraceptives. We had 'THE' discussion.. She asked me what I wanted to do if the tests were positives.. I told her it would not be a good time to have a kid, and she was like.. "you are right, but are you sure?" i said.. "yeah, 100% sure".. she then wrote back something like.. "It does hurts my heart that you are so sure, but dont worry, i dont want another kid neither"
20 minutes later, she sent me a message about 'needing some time for herself and that she will be calling me later"
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