Gibbs
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Hey! I was going to say that! 😂.
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LGBTQIA+ |OT9| The Return of the Queen
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Hey! I was going to say that! 😂.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Via Purifico
Banned
aw *hugs* i'm in the same boat honestly, I gave up totally as it's not worth it to me.
But I think you should just refresh take some time and try again.
You two arent alone.
Im pretty much with yall, as I just cant ever work up the nerve or I get to scared to meet people for fear of rejection due to being Trans.
I cant decide if I even want to keep trying because when I work up the courage then talk myself it of it Im even more depressed for like weeks ugh.
Via Purifico
Banned
You're a beautiful woman, that look you posted was shitting on these other girls.
I could never truly understand what it's like for the trans experience but I dated a transman who had similar fears as you did. Only reason we didn't work out was because I had to move at the time.
I am sure there's someone out there who will fully accept you.
Thequietone
Member
I just keep meeting weird people. Pretty much have given up.
Via Purifico
Banned
Weird in what sense? I have a watersports story to sell you.
Thequietone
Member
Sexual stuff is normal outside of some roleplay. I mean weird personality wise.
Via Purifico
Banned
I get those too, and sexual stuff is fine but how it was applied for me was less than ideal lol. I get either flakes or people who just weirdly act different for no real reason.
What's going on with you? if you don't mind.
What on earth is this? It's like a cat-bat with a proclivity for cheetos.
Mystic Theurge
Member
I have given up on dating as well.
Welcome to the club, fellow anti-socialites. I gave up on dating five years ago. I've never been in a relationship in my entire life. I get anxiety in clubs, bars, events, places where you'd meet other gay people, form connections, make friends, and eventually find someone to do stuffs with.
It's not fun.
ABORT ABORT ABORT
It's not fun.
ABORT ABORT ABORT
Gibbs
Member
I'm joining you crazy kids with the no dating club. I've been single for two years and I've had literally no luck. I honestly don't know what's wrong with me.
The guy I've been hanging out with continuous to down me and always finds ways to pick on my weight. Last night he called me a fatty for buying my parents doughnuts. Like fucking seriously. Tonight he shows me a picture is to this guy who he "loves"
I'm officially giving up. What's angering is everyone here is incredible and deserves the best.
The guy I've been hanging out with continuous to down me and always finds ways to pick on my weight. Last night he called me a fatty for buying my parents doughnuts. Like fucking seriously. Tonight he shows me a picture is to this guy who he "loves"
I'm officially giving up. What's angering is everyone here is incredible and deserves the best.
Via Purifico
Banned
This is one of those cases where you can drop being nice and straight up tell that piece of shit to fuck off.
I was in a relationship for 3 years but it got really difficult by the end and he has selective memory and never really brings up his own faults but talked about mine all the time.
I was single for a long time before that.
Sometimes I think being single is way better than being in a relationship if it means dealing with shit like that again.
lol that would be interesting.
Alcoremortis
Member
Does it still count as giving up if you never started?
Via Purifico
Banned
lol join us.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
WomBat
Gibbs
Member
Let's do Gaf speed dating.
I'm torn between being sad and wanting to beat the living hell out of him. I shouldn't feel this low about myself. I was happy for once. Was is the word.
Brawly Likes to Brawl
Member
I'm still chatting with a guy and he seems interested in finally meeting. School has kept us both busy lately.
Alcoremortis
Member
This is reminding me that I've just had Mr. Sandman stuck in my head for the last few weeks.
Seems moderately relevant. It's slightly reassuring to me to remember that people had a hard time finding partners back in the 50s too. Even it's just straight women.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VNUgsbKisp8
Seems moderately relevant. It's slightly reassuring to me to remember that people had a hard time finding partners back in the 50s too. Even it's just straight women.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VNUgsbKisp8
Prototype Viktor
Member
Via Purifico
Banned
Gaffers dating other gaffers, it's unheard of.
/s
"I stuck my finger in a light socket what do I do gaf?" imagine those kinds of people dating each other lol.
How would that even work.
That's great, I hope it goes well.
Gibbs
Member
Simple really. Conference call on Skype hosted by DOWN since he's unfortunately taken
no seriously I'm extremely happy for you ❤️
Or we just somehow do a GAF meet up and do it in person. Regardless I expect someone to find Crayons and have him there making out with everyone.
Via Purifico
Banned
Yeah but at least they didn't have to get "you're cute for a black guy" and other micro aggressive shit. I just get annoyed by people in general at this point so maybe I make it harder for myself.
RedHoodedOwl
Member
Seasonal sinus congestion is a pain.
Oh damn it's clearly been forever since I've seen one in pictures.
You are far, far to kind. I very much appreciate it Via, more so then I can say.
I got lucky when I came to LBGT and Trans Gaf, I got to know a few different people and I won't say names as that isn't my place, and they know who they are and each and everyone has said kind things about how I look.
I hope one day I can see what some of you see, and even if I don't I want them and everyone here know, the word you said to me over the last few days, they truly have meant more than I can ever express and just thank you all for being who you are and apart of LBGT Gaf, im so lucky to get to speak with you beautiful souls.
Gibbs
Member
Story of my life. Sinuses are the worst.
RedHoodedOwl
Member
Mucinex usually help me out with the problem.
Sweet goddess above this!
I've had seasonal allergies all my life and they are the bane of my freaking existence.
Honestly, If I could not be Trans or not have seasonal Allergies I would gladly Take Trans every day with no allergies ugh.
Gibbs
Member
I take flonase daily to combat allergies. Without it I'm a miserable asshole. I use to never suffer until two years ago.
Alcoremortis
Member
They probably got other microaggressive shit, like "you're smart for a woman".
RedHoodedOwl
Member
Seasonal allergies really messed me up as a kid.
Yes, those kinds of people deserve love too!
I like this idea.
Btw, what kind of donuts are those you posted in the previous page and where can I find them?
Gibbs
Member
The ones with the graham cracker on top is s'mores, and the other is glazed. A local doughnut shop named Krumpes do-nuts makes them here in Maryland. Though I live in West Virginia.
My ex loved their doughnuts and I'd mail him a dozen ever so often.
You are not ugly! No one here is ugly except me.
Via Purifico
Banned
touche. The 50s was an interesting time but that kind of thing is still relevant which is sad.
Well of course but I mean the stories from those two coming together lol.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Via Purifico
Banned
To clarify, it's a photoshop of a wombat and a bat.
SHould've trusted my first instinct
Thequietone
Member
Nothing lately, just every time I try to date they act weird for no real reason or are paranoid because they're still in the closet. Which I understand but just because two guys are in public doesn't mean everyone thinks you're gay.
I think none of Letters GAF live near me, so that's out. lol
Gibbs
Member
Bad.
That's gonna be us one day. 😂😂😂
Via Purifico
Banned
I mean everyone has their time to come out but letting it get to them to that degree makes it difficult for sure.
I'll have a newspaper ready whenever you're feeling that way lol.
Wow I feel like the only one actively dating here lol.
It really sucks still, but I have found that the more I date, the more i learn about what I really want, and the things I will or won't tolerate in a guy.
Still, I've never had a bf, but I'm sure some guy will recognize how awesome I am soon enough.
It really sucks still, but I have found that the more I date, the more i learn about what I really want, and the things I will or won't tolerate in a guy.
Still, I've never had a bf, but I'm sure some guy will recognize how awesome I am soon enough.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Idk if this is the intended reaction but... it's kinda cute >_>
Aarglefarg
Member
I will use this webzone for venting about unrelated things.
Incomplete list of things customers have done:
Cough repearedly with no effort to cover their mouths: see also holding a scrunched up tissue in the hand they are holding their coins in, or putting their notes they're giving me in their mouth.
Leave meat and milk they decided against buying somewhere they will go off: see also trying to return these things for 'change of mind' reasons but they are warm from spending a day in their car.
Claim a prepaid voucher they bought 5 minutes ago didn't work so they want a refund but also they threw it out and it's too deep in the bin to get out.
Be nasty since a credit card app saying they spent money here isn't a receipt we can refund something on (shock: the nastiness makes it less likely we'll bend the rules).
Abruptly shove their credit card close to my forehead and ask if the card reader is there like this is funny.
When I hand them the change and receipt in the same hand and they move their hand away without saying anything and it is since they dislike receipts that much that they will do that.
Bring their own bags that flop all about the place and don't help me bag these awful bags: see also people not bringing out these bags until I'm half done bagging them the normal way, or putting everything in these bags when they're shopping and not take the items out and so I need to debag them in the scanning process.
Have more than 12 items in the express lane when other lanes are open AND try to act all mighty about 'only being two over' WHEN they were many more than two over since splitting their purchase into multiple transactions isn't actually a loophole.
Assault other customers.
Walk in the exit and tell off people going the right way.
Spit at workers.
Throw items at workers.
Have a lit cigarette they try to hide and say they aren't smoking when I call them on it and tell me it is legal after a recent law change that doesn't exist. Or defiantly start smoking indoors as some kind of rebellion.
Steal.
Be rude.
Incomplete list of things customers have done:
Cough repearedly with no effort to cover their mouths: see also holding a scrunched up tissue in the hand they are holding their coins in, or putting their notes they're giving me in their mouth.
Leave meat and milk they decided against buying somewhere they will go off: see also trying to return these things for 'change of mind' reasons but they are warm from spending a day in their car.
Claim a prepaid voucher they bought 5 minutes ago didn't work so they want a refund but also they threw it out and it's too deep in the bin to get out.
Be nasty since a credit card app saying they spent money here isn't a receipt we can refund something on (shock: the nastiness makes it less likely we'll bend the rules).
Abruptly shove their credit card close to my forehead and ask if the card reader is there like this is funny.
When I hand them the change and receipt in the same hand and they move their hand away without saying anything and it is since they dislike receipts that much that they will do that.
Bring their own bags that flop all about the place and don't help me bag these awful bags: see also people not bringing out these bags until I'm half done bagging them the normal way, or putting everything in these bags when they're shopping and not take the items out and so I need to debag them in the scanning process.
Have more than 12 items in the express lane when other lanes are open AND try to act all mighty about 'only being two over' WHEN they were many more than two over since splitting their purchase into multiple transactions isn't actually a loophole.
Assault other customers.
Walk in the exit and tell off people going the right way.
Spit at workers.
Throw items at workers.
Have a lit cigarette they try to hide and say they aren't smoking when I call them on it and tell me it is legal after a recent law change that doesn't exist. Or defiantly start smoking indoors as some kind of rebellion.
Steal.
Be rude.
The fact that Ive dealt with most of that shit and more. I feel ya man.
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