I found the problem right here in this thread. Obesity is not a fat person's fault. Cars go vroom vroom with their more than ever comfy seats mind you, healthy food costs more than gold (per ounce), corn subsidies increase the amount of drive-by corn attacks into your mouth, and 27 hour work days allow time only for eating, work, pooping, and work, no other activities.
We have to stop pointing the fingers on all topics at all times. There are absolutely people that get it done
You can shut down the high fructose corn industry completely, and people will still be fat. They will still pound beers, sodas, eat snacks like crazy, see who you can eat the most fast food, and refuse to exercise. It's laughable to think we remove all of the corn and then everyone starts pounding celery stalks.
Healthy food can be purchased without making you bankrupt. A head of lettuce is $1. A bag of chicken is only a few dollars. Stop buying soda and sugary drinks, drink water instead. Pass on the snacks and just stop binge eating. If you must, a bag of baby carrots is $1. My poorest friend is the healthiest, and that's after he has made lifestyle changes.
As much as I don't condone "fat shaming", it's a product of we as society not taking this epidemic seriously enough. Poor lifestyle choices are not beautiful. It should not be the new normal. You can't look at the people you love and tell them that everyone is wrong, and to just pretend everything is ok. Be respectful. Go to the gym with them. Eat healthy with them. Show them you really care.
Considering it is costing mass amounts of money in healthcare expenses, perhaps there should be some sort of financial motivation to stay healthy. Maybe you get a tax deduction/healthcare premium deduction to maintain a certain BMI. I doubt we would ever get this right as a country. However, there's no doubting that obesity are causing costs of healthcare to skyrocket.
The problem is you can't force anyone to do anything. You can't even ask anymore otherwise the freedoms are all gone. So what do you do?