You do realize that few guys wear tight pants because few guys have anything resembling an idea of fashion. Baggy-ass jeans that show off nothing aren't appealing to basically anyone. Overall that's a really daft point to make because it's really just emphasizing the idea that women are encouraged to care about their looks while men aren't. :')
I mean, if you genuinely feel like mansplaining is a necessary evil maybe you should take a step back and figure out why you need to take an authoritative tone that diminishes anything the other person might have to say. It's counterproductive and doesn't serve any purpose, really. If you don't agree and you find it totally off-base--oftentimes it's probably a better idea to just not say anything at all? Maybe that's just me.
Normally I'd 100% agree. But given the tight-knit nature of GAF and the off-base assumptions she was making, it felt "personal" and wildly offensive to the kind of person I really am. So, its kind of that funny situation where part of me figures "eh, let it go
..its just a silly online miscommunication". But the stronger part of me doesn't like the idea of someone else projecting their problems with men in general onto me, which is exactly what was happening. I would have preferred to have a constructive discussion, but it was impossible to move forward when the same BS kept being repeated.
At any rate, I like your point about fashion in that it basically dovetails into my general point I originally made about "yoga pants"....
Edit: There aren't exactly too many similar options for, say, "men's leggings"...which opens up the much wider discussion about whether or not a majority of society would actually appreciate/admire/welcome more sexualized male clothing...or be repulsed by it...and why?