You must learn to not rely on shot web.Shit, this is a lot harder than I thought. Day 3 here, and the temptation is gnawing at me like an angry hawk. Luckily, I've been able to hold out this long because of my girlfriend.
I totally agree with this, I think exposure to thousands of pretty women, on the internet and TV have the same type of desensitizing effect on getting excited about real life women you meet on the street, bars, school, public places etc.This is a long thread, this might have been brought up before, but you know there's another issue. Cute girls.
When you go outside, how many cute girls do you see? A dozen? A hundred?
But on television and the internet you see thousands of cute girls. Cute girls are available at your fingertips. In image macros, avatars, everywhere!
Hell, even the books and magazines are not safe from cute girls!
So, I suggest this. Rid yourself of all earthly possessions and only see what women you see when walking outdoors.
I just spent 3 hours watching porn. Not even fapping. Just watching porn. I think I'm addicted and I'm quitting right now. I'm guessing this is the support group thread? Lol.
I totally agree with this, I think exposure to thousands of pretty women, on the internet and TV have the same type of desensitizing effect on getting excited about real life women you meet on the street, bars, school, public places etc.
If you do not believe me, try it for yourself, ban yourself from " hot celebrity" pages on the internet, any sort of images of hot women on the internet steer clear of, if you really have to watch your favorite TV shows like Mad Men and Game of Thrones etc. Do not focus on the women's body and face too much, if there's a sex scene, look away, I know it sounds stupid but try to just for a month to only look at women in real life.
It's basically like discovering a fifth sense, you'll notice things about them, otherwise you wouldn't. Trust me on this, and come back to this thread to thank me when you surprise the shit out of yourself when you successfully charm and woo the cute girl behind the Starbucks counter with minimum effort.
so i tried doing this and i have completely failed; is there a way to do this that doesnt rely on willpower, because i think im never gonna be able to fix this dangly thing if so
How are you handling it?That was me 5 days ago.
Welcome.
I'm sorry what were you saying?I totally agree with this, I think exposure to thousands of pretty women, on the internet and TV have the same type of desensitizing effect on getting excited about real life women you meet on the street, bars, school, public places etc.
If you do not believe me, try it for yourself, ban yourself from " hot celebrity" pages on the internet, any sort of images of hot women on the internet steer clear of, especially all those magazine covers at your local grocery store (don't get lost at Emma Stone's/Katy Perry's cleavage on the Cosmo cover while waiting in line at Wal-Mart) if you really have to watch your favorite TV shows like Mad Men and Game of Thrones etc. Do not focus on the women's body and face too much, if there's a sex scene, look away, I know it sounds stupid but try to just for a month to only look at women in real life.
It's basically like discovering a fifth sense, you'll notice things about them, otherwise you wouldn't. Trust me on this, and come back to this thread to thank me when you surprise the shit out of yourself when you successfully charm and woo the cute girl behind the Starbucks counter with minimum effort.
Sorry it's worth to mention that this goes for both sexes, not just women.
so i tried doing this and i have completely failed; is there a way to do this that doesnt rely on willpower, because i think im never gonna be able to fix this dangly thing if so
CLOSEWatching a shit-tonne of 'photography' tumblrs is really hurting my chances here
How are you handling it?
This is your make or break point, do not give in. This is the time to truly find out who you are, resist, resist, resist.Tired, stressed and want to unwind... finding it hard to resist.
At this point I'm willing to concede that there could be some psychosomatic stuff going on, but so far this has been a terrific change for the better. I really don't want to go back, so I'm going to avoid watching at all costs from here on out.
I really don't want to go back, so I'm going to avoid watching at all costs from here on out.
Not only that, but I have been having vivid dreams in the past two weeks
woke up with the biggest boner ever, idk what happens next but i somehow ended humping my bed.. i think i was still asleep.
is this real life?
I've been doing this with only one slight slip up (just nude pics though, no video) for the past 2 weeks or so. I definitely wasn't a porn fiend before, but the difference in how I actually feel is pretty incredible. I get boners when I see girls in bikinis. I get boners when I just THINK about sex. Not only that, but I have been having vivid dreams in the past two weeks, whereas I hadn't remembered my dreams in almost 2 years prior. I'm more excited about sex with my wife than ever, and my stamina has increased.
At this point I'm willing to concede that there could be some psychosomatic stuff going on, but so far this has been a terrific change for the better. I really don't want to go back, so I'm going to avoid watching at all costs from here on out.
Does this decrease in desire for real world woman go away?
It passed. Still tired and stressed though :-D.This is your make or break point, do not give in. This is the time to truly find out who you are, resist, resist, resist.
Yes.
Well it needs to hurry the hell up lol.
I mentioned it before but there is a girl at my part time job that has been flirting HARD, and yet i have no drive to push it to that point right now and Im pissed about this.
i believe ur in the flatlining phase..
If you're anything like me, it'll be a while.What is that and when does it go away?.......Will it be by Friday night lol?
If you're anything like me, it'll be a while.
Fuck
It brings me pleasure to see so many people improving their life, yes.I think certain people in this thread are getting off to the fact that people are not fapping, call me crazy but yeah...
It'll happen. Congrats on 21 days! You're further than most ever managed.Interestingly my libido skyrocketed, I haven't felt any downtime in that regard. 21 days in.
Day 10 and Sofia Veraga is nearly nude but wearing a see through shirt in GQ Magazine
Still on Day 10.
"No fuck" would be more apt, amirite?
Day 5. I've been pretty busy so it wasn't that hard this time around... Although there have definitely been quite a few urges...
Gotta keep fighting the good fight. Although I'm afraid of what the guy above me is experiencing...
Well the of news is that I was getting my haircut today by a fairly attractive girl and was getting turned on by her outfit. Which never happened.....I was also a lot more talkative than usual.
......we are allowed to have sex with real people right?? Cause if all goes right that will be my send off til I get back from a 5 day bachelor party.
It'll happen. Congrats on 21 days! You're further than most ever managed.