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The Ultimate Dating Thread (Girl Problems be gone!)

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Cubsfan23

Banned
No more "girl problem" threads! Refer to this and you will be all good. I did not write this, btw, got it from a helpful forum.

LOOKS - BODY & HEALTH
Eat natural and varied. 5-6 lesser meals pr day. Some proteins in every
meal/snack. Avoid hunger. Eat fat from meat and nuts. Reduce alcohol and drugs.
Do full body wo's 3 times a week. Lift heavy but watch out for injuries. Do big
exercises that demand balance and coordination.
Avoid stress and get lots of sleep.

LOOKS - STYLE
Always be clean and groomed. Always smell good. Dress in ways that make you
stand out from the crowd. Clothes must be on the edge. Amplify with
accessories. When buying clothes, think about your style - not the current
fashion.

***

BUILD CONFIDENCE
Always be pleased with yourself. Let nothing harm your confidence. Remember
successes and forget mistakes after you learned from them.
View improvement as an effect of your persona and as part of a pattern - not as
result of a good day. See failures as temporary effects of a bad day.
Do not over analyze in search for answers to everything. Never think about the
status in your life. Stop thinking that girls are something fundamentally
important. Realize you will be happy no matter what. Stop seeing girls as
potential girl friends. See them as a source of entertainment, fun and
excitement.

BUILD CONFIDENCE - AFFIRMATIONS
Say affirmations with lots of feeling. Say them with confident masculine voice.
Some examples:
"I'm alpha and masculine! I got deep voice and I'm perfect! I'm confident and
positive!"
"Why are all girls crazy about me? Why am I so charismatic, magnetic and
irresistible? Why am I so confident and unstoppable? Why am I a first class
lover?"
"All girls are horny, and I'm what they want and need!"
"God had a boner when he created me! Chairs orgasm when I sit in them!"

POSITIVITY
Create a clear, detailed and vivid mental picture of what you want in life.
Find the feeling that will come when you get there. See the picture and feel
the feeling as often and as intensively as possible.
Eliminate negative thoughts from your system. Eliminate sources of negativity
from your life (news, soaps, negative friends, AFC songs, negative posts etc).
Let the positive thoughts, feelings and mental pictures dominate. Choose to be
happy, confident and positive - no matter what.

***

BE THE PRIZE - SUPPLICATION
Don't do things only to make others like you.
Never be nice. Never adjust yourself.
Reward - never give (thing, help/service, attention, time). Never do anything
on the conditions of others - squeeze in your own conditions.
Never try to impress (brag, say intelligent/interesting/cool things, over act,
talk about your friends/exes/things you own etc.)

BE THE PRIZE - NEEDY
Don't show too much interest early on.
Never follow her and never wait for her without good reason. Be ok with her
leaving. Show willingness to leave.
Do not try to analyze her. Stop caring about her interest in you. Accept that
girls are unpredictable. Remain fully calm and confident when girls do bizarre
things to control their feelings.
Always look like you just had great sex - a little tired, hair a little untidy,
disinterested, arrogant, not needy, like you got better things to do.
Do not hide your sexuality in fear of rejection. Act on it when you are horny,
and never let the outcome affect your mood negatively.
Stop caring what people think of you and show it.

BE THE PRIZE - BODY LANGUAGE
Never lean in. Do not turn too much against her early on - show more back than
her. Do not face her all the time and don't give her all your attention.

BE THE PRIZE - ATTITUDE
I'm the prize - no girl are better or more valuable than me!
This is my world - others come into my world - not vice versa.
Girls are crazy after me - I need protection!
I'm a fantastic lover.
I'm 100% pleased with myself.

***

BE THE MAN - GENERAL
Be 100% masculine at all times.
Always be dominant and in control. Take charge - be the leader - the boss. Do
everything with authority. Instruct - never ask. Never seek approval.
Show that you got limited respect for her and that you are not subdued by
social norms/rules (scream in her ear, make noise, laugh and sing loudly, pull
her hair, pinch her ass, grab her and bite her neck, shout about farting and
ass fucking, laugh and admit you are a jerk etc)
Never show a soft emotional side. Don't show interest in her thoughts and
emotions.

BE THE MAN - TONALITY
Talk with a dominant tone. Speak slow, deep, rhythmic, clear and relaxed, like
you are not in a hurry and got full control. Copy the way air plane pilots talk
to their passengers. Make breaks that create anticipation before you get to the
point, and breaks where you underline the point with gestures and meaningful
eye contact.

BE THE MAN - BODY LANGUAGE
Spread yourself out and fill as much space as possible, when you stand, sit and
walk.
Move extremely slow and relaxed. Cross rooms like a king headed for his throne.
Every movement including head and eyes shall be slow and dramatic.
Move focus/attention rarely. Ignore everyone and everything that doesn't
deserve the boss' attention.

BE THE MAN - TOUCHING
Touch her confidently - never insecure, careful or testing.
Handle her like a doll - grab her and control her movements. Hold her and lead
her - change directions, speed etc so you manipulate her movement. Tell her how
to do things while you grab her and show her the movements. Lift her up and
spin around when you hug/kiss her. Help her with getting clothes off /on.
Lift/carry her over obstacles.

BE THE MAN - ATTITUDE
I'm the boss and I got full control. I own the guy who owns this place. I'm
Zeus - its my duty as god to fuck the nymphs!

BE THE MAN - 'FICTION HERO'
Male heroes in films and romantic novels share a few traits that many girls
dream of. Be these things:
Impression: Strong, muscular, tough, hard, big hands, powerful, alpha,
dominant, protective, masculine, confident, will power, determination, untamed,
rough edges, moody, dark,dangerous, mystic, raw, rough, devilish, wild.
Personality: integrity, identity, pride, honor, sense of humor, self irony,
charming, charismatic, flirty, passionate, good kisser, rough lover.
Hidden qualities: weaknesses, wounds, faults, openness to learning and growth,
caring, attentive, tender (the clue with these is that he does a everything in
his power to hide them).

***

STATE CONTROL - GET INTO FLOW
Be relaxed, laid back, unworried and comfy. Feel safe, secure and confident.
Feel happy and great about yourself. Trust yourself.
Open a few girls quickly (3 second rule) before you do anything else.
Avoid being passive. Never stand still and observe.
'Let go' and throw yourself into action. Join in, do something, be part of the
action, dig the music, move/walk around, take the lead, wave and talk to people
etc.

STATE CONTROL - AVOID DEEP THINKING
Focus on your feelings. Let your feelings get carried away by music or
something happening.
Avoid deep thinking - don't analyze - turn off inner dialogue. Forget status,
plans and agenda. Avoid mirrors, clocks and other 'thought triggers'.

***

EYE CONTACT
Eye contact must be confident, meaningful and firm - not timid, questioning,
analyzing, shy, short, begging or frustrated.

FACES
Use funny overdramatized facial expressions for underlining and vibing.
Examples: Puppy dog - overly sad face with huge eyes. Dignity - turn head
sideways and stare towards the horizon with low eye lids and straight neck.
(Look out for new ones among your friends and when watching movies and
cartoons)

TALK
Don't talk too much. Don't try too hard to keep conversation alive - don't try
to fill empty pauses. Don't be too enthusiastic and interested in what she
says. Don't remember too much what she has said. Don't answer too quickly.
Don't tell about yourself unless she asks.
Avoid thought stimulating talk like questions, problems, plans, logic,
explaining, analyzing, advice, argumentation/defense, fascinating, interesting,
intelligent, analytical, theoretical, professional.
Always pump positive emotions - never dwell on the negative.
Never talk without subcommunication - subtext/hidden messages, body language,
facial expressions and meaningful eye contact.

***

ATTRACTION - GENERAL
Be fit!
Be clean/groomed!
Be the prize!
Be the man!
Be in a strong confident state!
Be sexual!

ATTRACTION - SEXUAL STATE
Be in a sexual state. Show it by doing stuff like: Play with something in your
hands. Straighten hair/clothes. Touch your face, neck and body. Turn more and
more towards her. Move closer. Open relaxed body language. Relaxed smile. Low
relaxed eye lids. Sensual eye contact. Whisper like voice. Lick upper lip. Bite
lower lip. Look down with 'sad' eye brows. Scan her body slowly with eyes.
Stare at lips. Open mouth with long breath. Turn head sideways slightly
backwards to expose carotid artery. Short heavy breathing.

ATTRACTION - APPROACH
Attitude and body language must be 100% the man and 100% the prize.
Avoid approaching too directly - talk to her as you pass her or while facing
another direction or while in conversation with others.
NEG her if she doesn't show interest and enthusiasm.

ATTRACTION - FLIRTING
Be cocky!
Tease her about wanting you, that you can't be a couple, that you are not her
type, that she should try to seduce another guy etc.
Bust her playfully on everything she does and says.
Pretend like you are searching for a polite way to leave her.
Tell her she is seducing you and beg her to stop.
Say things with hidden sexual messages (subtext) - use a lot of symbolic words:
wet, moist, stream, pump, warm, open, grow, big, rise, stiff, hard, hidden,
secret, good, from behind, in, deeper, slide, penetrate, ecstasy, bliss, come,
suck, lick, tongue, mouth, adventure, feel, rhythm, wave, fantasy, wild,
untamed, intense.
Look at her like she said something dirty. Paraphrase stuff she says into a
sexual context and tell her she's a naughty girl.

ATTRACTION - INTRIGUE
Be mystical - don't say everything - indicate and say things indirectly. Hint
towards secrets and double meanings with body language, facial expressions and
subtext.
Ask her to guess. Give obvious bull shit answers.
Become distracted or cut yourself off or change subject just before you reach
the point.
Fractionate attention when there's a spike in her interest. Look and talk to
other girls. Turn away from her. Go toilet. Fall into deep thought. Look
around.

ATTRACTION - TOUCHING
Butt bump, spank, tackle, push, spin, tickle/prickle, pinch, pull hair,
wrestle, lift, shake.
Point somewhere and stick a finger in her belly. Pretend to kiss her hand but
kiss our own instead.

ATTRACTION - HER TESTING YOU
Focus on being the prize and the man if she does things to become the prize or
make you less dominant.
Stuff like demands, commands, complains, manipulation, negativity, logic
questions and threats must be met with attraction (cocky busting/teasing,
spanking, tickling or backturn/freezeout). Never with direct/honest answer,
frustration, neediness or rapport seeking.
If she complains about you, agree and ask if that's why you make her so horny.

***

RAPPORT
Never seek rapport. When she seeks rapport, give her a little bit, but never
enough to satisfy her. Then return to attraction.
Do not try to build trust, comfort and feeling of safety. Don't try to be kind
and considerate. Don't try to be her friend.
Avoid rapport that is feminine, friendly, careful, considerate or insecure.

RAPPORT - TOUCHING
Be the man by using an impulsive and confident caveman style.
Rub, don't squeeze or pinch. Use slow deliberate movements.
Touch her close to eregenous zones and pull back.
Touch yourself with her hands.
De-escalate kino after escalation.

RAPPORT - END OF DATE/NIGHT
Create an innocent reason why you should go together to her or your place. Then
take charge and make it happen.
If conversation dies, look her in the eyes and say nothing.
Smell her neck slowly from shoulder to hair line. "Mmmmm!" Do it again while
gradually making it more like kissing and biting. Continue up and nibble her
earlobe gently and continue along her chin towards her mouth. Pull back before
you reach her mouth. Then grab her head and kiss her cave man style. Pull back
again etc. Continue taking steps forwards and backwards until she is ready for
sex.
Let your sexual state affect everything you do. Show her you got problems
concentrating. Make it obvious what you think about.
Be the man in bed.

***

MATERIAL - ATTRACTION

1 Material suited for opening

1.1 Just say something!

Right now I wanted to talk to you - hi my name is John Doe
My evil twin told me to talk to you!
My invisible friend told me to talk to you!
Question - my shirt! I know its nice but I'm worried maybe its too sexy!
Question - you the jealous type? Ok, so if I was your BF, I could still drink
coffee with my ex once a week?

1.2 Unusual Compliment

Aww so nice hair - is it real? (pull hair) But it moved!
Wow.. beautiful eyes.. especially the right one!
Cute teeth - are they real?
Nice nails - are they real?
Wow.. I can see you work out.. now and then..
You're pretty - you could have been a model.. if you were a little taller.. and
a little thinner..
You look sexy from behind!
Nice outfit you're almost wearing!

1.3 Impression/Palm Reading

Bad girl!
Naughty girl!
Wow.. party girl!
You are trouble! I shouldn't be talking to you!
There is something mystical about you! You give me a strange feeling..
You look like you are hiding something!
I can't trust you!
Aww you look just like.. a little angel!
Aww you look just like.. a little princess!

1.4 Cocky, disqualify

Wow.. you are almost as sexy as me!
You look happy - did you just fart?
Aww... you are soooo cute! I want to adopt you!
Wow - your eyes are the same color as my porsche!
Sooo... I heard you wanted to fight me! Cool.. then we can have hot make up sex
afterwards!
Awww you are so cute from behind - I had to see the rest! (She asks what you
think) On a scale from 1 to 10.. guess!
I lost my teddy (puppy dog face).. would you sleep with me?

Aww you are soo cute.. but we could never be a couple - we are too much the
same.. we would fight and throw things and have incredible make up sex all over
the place and fight more then sex fight sex fight.. too much drama and intense
feelings!
Aww you are soo cute.. I almost forget I'm not looking for a relationship right
now!
Wow.. I could marry a girl like you.. but I'd divorce you a week later and take
all the money and let you keep the dog.
Are you rich? Aww I need a rich GF who can support me while I start a boy band
- The Whatever Boys! But hey - I need groupies too! But you don't look like
groupie material - she can be my groupie and you can be my manager! Yeah!


2.1 Cocky, disqualify, frame stealing

Aww I love you.. like a sister!
You want to kiss and hug me but I wont let you.
You want me so much but we can't risk losing this wonderful friendship!
I'm no good for you - he is cute - he suits you - you look cute together!
Let me see (grab hand) see, your good girl line is very long.. and look at this
long bad boy line - we could never be a couple!

Shit! A poisonous snake bit me in the testicles - you got to help me suck out
the poison - now!
Can I kiss your belly button from the inside?
Look! (Point and stick a finger in her belly)
(Bump her) OMG you're so drunk you can't walk!
You are trying to resist me but forget it - I'm irresistible!
Girls wait in line to be with me!
Why do you think I'm so sexy? But you look at me like a priest looking at an
alter boy!
Its hard to be a sex symbol!
Won't you get too aroused if I sit this close?
My friends are jealous because mine is bigger!
OMG I think I love me!
I'm hard - are you wet?
My bedroom has a very interesting ceiling!
You could be the president.. of my fan club!
OMG you are so nice! Wait - there is a stain on your halo (pretend to rub her
halo).. there - now you are a perfect little halo girl!

Hey - no matter how drunk you get me, you can't have my body tonight! I'm not
that cheap!
Hey - stop looking at me like a piece of meat - I'm a human being.. I have
feelings!
You can come but no sex! I'm tired of being treated like a piece of meat - I'm
a human being.. I have feelings!
Stop looking at me like a fat kid looking at a cheese burger!
You can have my number, but that doesn't automatically mean I'll sleep with
you!



2.2 Guessing

Guess!
I'm an angel - one more good deed and I'll get my wings!
I'm a traveling underwear inspector!
I'm a freelance gynecologist - how long is it since your last check?
I'm a gigolo.. but relax - friendship is free!
I'm an orgasmologist!
I'm 16 - 16 and unkissed!
You are.. 60! Hehe just kidding! Hey I was only kidding! You are.. 16 - sweet
16! 17 18 19! I refuse to believe you are older than 19!
Aww I cant bee with X year olds.. only X-1 and X+1 year olds!
Can't tell you all my secrets yet - I just met you!
Its a secret! I don't know you well enough yet!
Blabla.. OMG I said too much!


2.3 WHEN IT GETS HOT AND HEAVY

Mmmm you got so cute eyes.. no.. don't look at me! Its a bad idea! Stop giving
me these feelings!
Mmmm it feels so good.. I'm so relaxed.. No! We got to stop! This is a bad idea
- we can't have these feelings!
Stop tempting me to kiss you!
Aww that smell is so good! No! Don't let me smell that! We can't do this!
It can never work between us.. shit your skin is so soft!
Wow.. wait.. what are you doing to me!?
OMG I'm so attracted to you.. but I'm scared and shy.. I got to go now!
 

Justin Bailey

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Some good advice, some stupid advice, like:
Show that you got limited respect for her and that you are not subdued by
social norms/rules (scream in her ear, make noise, laugh and sing loudly, pull
her hair, pinch her ass, grab her and bite her neck, shout about farting and
ass fucking, laugh and admit you are a jerk etc)
Never show a soft emotional side. Don't show interest in her thoughts and
emotions.
:lol what the hell?
 
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Deleted member 1235

Unconfirmed Member
Can I kiss your belly button from the inside?


I can see this working sure.
 

Cubsfan23

Banned
Yeah there is some crazy stuff, That's how he is though and gets away with it. You don't have to do 100% of this stuff, just a reference.
 

demon

I don't mean to alarm you but you have dogs on your face
All you need to know, my friends, straight from the Cubster himself:


cubsfan2.jpg
 

Justin Bailey

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Cubsfan23 said:
Yeah there is some crazy stuff, That's how he is though and gets away with it. You don't have to do 100% of this stuff, just a reference.
Where'd this come from? BTW, if you have a woman that puts up with some of that shit then she prolly doesn't have much self-respect for herself. Just think about if someone tried to do that to YOU.

Sounds like he gets some of his dating advice from a Snoop Dogg record.

Edit: Actually after reading it all that seems to be the only "out there" part, good advice overall, though.
 

Cubsfan23

Banned
Justin Bailey said:
Where'd this come from? BTW, if you have a woman that puts up with some of that shit then she prolly doesn't have much self-respect for herself. Just think about if someone tried to do that to YOU.

Sounds like he gets some of his dating advice from a Snoop Dogg record.


Seeing/doing it in person is different from reading it on the internet, you can only go by your imagination on here.

here's the link http://fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=1086772220156985
 

NetMapel

Guilty White Male Mods Gave Me This Tag
The auther is so full of himself it's not even funny. Let me tell you, if you follow, or currently are what is said in those so called "advice", you're the most self-centre person in the world and girls hate that. Screw off, girls are human too and we don't enjoy being with a self-centred person. Simply put, the advices of that is stereotyping girls.
 

Fifty

Member
I know it was posted before....but seriously...How can you listen to a word this douche says after he writes something like:

Show that you got limited respect for her and that you are not subdued by
social norms/rules (scream in her ear, make noise, laugh and sing loudly, pull
her hair, pinch her ass, grab her and bite her neck, shout about farting and
ass fucking, laugh and admit you are a jerk etc)
Never show a soft emotional side. Don't show interest in her thoughts and
emotions.
 

Cubsfan23

Banned
You guys are taking this too literally, you need to reread the positivity paragraph again ;)

and :
Hidden qualities: weaknesses, wounds, faults, openness to learning and growth,
caring, attentive, tender (the clue with these is that he does everything in
his power to hide them).

If you don't believe this, just look at how people got emotional over Spiderman 2 ( I know 2 girls who cried, lol )

Peter had to hide the fact that he's spiderman from MJ, couldn't tell her he loved her blah blah blah. That kind of stuff captivates women.
 

psycho_snake

I went to WAGs boutique and all I got was a sniff
BoboBrazil said:
I slapped a girl on the ass and now she says she hates me.
I pinched a girls ass before and she just pinched back....so I guess nothings wrong there.
 

Lambtron

Unconfirmed Member
Cubsfan23 said:
Peter had to hide the fact that he's spiderman from MJ, couldn't tell her he loved her blah blah blah. That kind of stuff captivates women.

Yeah, but the thing about love is you shouldn't have to do that stuff.

You may have to to get pussy, though!
 

psycho_snake

I went to WAGs boutique and all I got was a sniff
Cubsfan23 said:
You guys are taking this too literally, you need to reread the positivity paragraph again ;)

and :

If you don't believe this, just look at how people got emotional over Spiderman 2 ( I know 2 girls who cried, lol )

Peter had to hide the fact that he's spiderman from MJ, couldn't tell her he loved her blah blah blah. That kind of stuff captivates women.
thats true, but the majority of men dont have hidden qualities.
 

DJ_Tet

Banned
I'm funny and cocky, but I want to fuck my ex's sister. She's interested but doesn't want to hurt her sister. Help me cubfan :)
 

way more

Member
RAPPORT
Never seek rapport. When she seeks rapport, give her a little bit, but never
enough to satisfy her. Then return to attraction.
Do not try to build trust, comfort and feeling of safety. Don't try to be kind
and considerate. Don't try to be her friend.
Avoid rapport that is feminine, friendly, careful, considerate or insecure.

What does this guy have against rapport? That's what I consider flirting.
Besides that I think this guy has some good advice, he just comes off as a little dumb.
 

Cubsfan23

Banned
DJ_Tet said:
I'm funny and cocky, but I want to fuck my ex's sister. She's interested but doesn't want to hurt her sister. Help me cubfan :)

Give me more details so I can give a better answer

I think you could do it just reading this though.
 

DJ_Tet

Banned
Hmm, the details...

Well, I broke up with my gf because I had a serious thing for her sister. This led us to getting drunk and making out before we "had a smoke." During that cigarette it was discussed that we could not "happen" because of my history with her sister (we dated for about 5 years). Since that moment, we've hung out a lot (I still live with my ex, her sister). She knows I am attracted to her still, but she has reiterated that we "will never happen, so just try and move on." I'm in love with this girl, it was the last thing that I ever wanted to happen. You don't want to fall in love with your gf's sister, it's just bad karma. But yet it happened.

I feel like I'm on the friendship ladder (the ladder theory, I'm sure you are versed in it) and jumping for the lover ladder. Our makeout session, brief as it was, says that I wasn't on the friendship ladder however. The sister has commented that she is/was attracted to me once she met me, and that she wondered if I was just an "opposites attract" type of guy. Me and the ex are pretty opposite, while the sister and I are very similar.

I don't know if a relationship with her sister could work, but I'd love to try, and I'd really like to f the s out of her :p I will be applying these tips definitely next time I see her. I wonder if you have any personalized tips or experience however. My ex is laying the cock-block even though I have her blessing to date her sister. It's beyond frustrating.
 

Justin Bailey

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After reading the first post, I was reminded of this song:
Oh, well I'm the type of guy who will never settle down.
Wherev' pretty girls are well you know that I'm around.
I kiss 'em and I love 'em 'cause to me they're all the same.
I hug 'em and I squeeze 'em
They don't even know my name.
They call me the wanderer,
Yeah the wanderer
I roam around around around around.

Oh well there's Flo on my left uh and there's Mary on my right
And Janey is the girl well that I'll be with tonight.
And when she asks me ooo which one I love the best,
I tear open my shirt and I show her Rosie on my chest.
Cause I'm a wanderer,
Yeah a wanderer
I roam around around around around mmm hmmmm

Oh well I roam-a from town to town.
I go through life without a care.
And I'm as happy as a clown.
Uh with my two fist devime,
But I'm goin nowhere.

Oh yeah I'm the type of guy that likes to roam around.
I'm never in one place
I roam from town to town
And when I find myself ummm fallin' for some girl
Ah yeah I hop right into that car of mine
I drive around the world
Yeah I'm a wanderer
Yeah the wanderer
I roam around around around around yeah... roam I said and go

Oh yeah I'm the type of guy that likes to roam around.
I'm never in one place
I roam from town to town
And when I find myself vaaa fallin' for some girl
I hop right into that car of mine
Drive around the world
Cause I'm a wanderer
Yeah a wanderer
I roam around around around around around around a
Cause I'm a wanderer
Yeah a wanderer <fade out>
I roam around around around around around around around
Cause I'm a wanderer
I'm a wanderer
I roam around
 

Cubsfan23

Banned
She doesn't want a relationship because you're still living with her sister, it just wouldn't work, plus it's her sister. But, I think she will still sleep with you. However you gotta create a situation where it "just happens" (like when you guys madeout) where if her sister finds out, it isn't "her fault" Basically she doesn't want to look like a slut, society's rules are telling her it's wrong to sleep with you because of your ties to her sister.

So the formula is Isolate + create innocent situation + get her aroused to the point where she won't resist you, and you do that by doing some of the stuff in this post.

Also, I suggest giving her a massage to get her built up, do everything this post says about "Touching"
 

DJ_Tet

Banned
Cubsfan23 said:
She doesn't want a relationship because you're still living with her sister, it just wouldn't work, plus it's her sister. But, I think she will still sleep with you. However you gotta create a situation where it "just happens" (like when you guys madeout) where if her sister finds out, it isn't "her fault" Basically she doesn't want to look like a slut, society's rules are telling her it's wrong to sleep with you because of your ties to her sister.

So the formula is Isolate + create innocent situation + get her aroused to the point where she won't resist you, and you do that by doing some of the stuff in this post.

Also, I suggest giving her a massage to get her built up, do everything this post says about "Touching"



Sounds good to me. Although I'm afraid that I missed my chance when we made out. Only time will tell I suppose. Good tips, thanks man.
 

XS+

Banned
OK smart guy, what's the best way to juggle two women at once without them knowing about each other? Help
 

demon

I don't mean to alarm you but you have dogs on your face
Cubsfan23 said:
You guys are taking this too literally, you need to reread the positivity paragraph again ;)

and :

If you don't believe this, just look at how people got emotional over Spiderman 2 ( I know 2 girls who cried, lol )

Peter had to hide the fact that he's spiderman from MJ, couldn't tell her he loved her blah blah blah. That kind of stuff captivates women.
Great. Only problem is, I don't shoot spiderwebs from my wrists, and I don't have an arch nemesis to battle in order to save the city.
 

XS+

Banned
Cubsfan23 said:
Why not just tell them?
I tried that in the past with other girls and it blew up in my face and I 'slept on the couch' that night so to speak. Since then I've been wary of being upfront about that sorta thing. "Just telling them" tends to be the quickest way to end the fun imo.
 

Cubsfan23

Banned
XS+ said:
I tried that in the past with other girls and it blew up in my face and I 'slept on the couch' that night so to speak. Since then I've been wary of being upfront about that sorta thing. "Just telling them" tends to be the quickest way to end the fun imo.

You gotta be upfront about it in the beginning. Gotta believe that as long as you are single, you are free to date as many women as you want. I'm guessing that you tend to get into relationships quickly, that's just my intuition. If you wait at least 3 months before even considering a relationship with a woman, while being upfront and honest about the whole "multiple dating" thing, they will accept it if they are attracted to you. Hell, a lot of women date multiple guys too. You have to stick to your guns and be congruent, or else it won't work.

Personally, I also tell them that once I'm in a relationship, I'm loyal. Just be honest about it.

It's hard to "go back" and fix something, so you might not be able to do this effectivly until you have new girls in your life.
 

XS+

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OK, I agree it's best to be honest and not trip up on your own words, but that's not the bind I'm in right now. So you're saying I'm screwed if I haven't talked about this to them in the beginning, right?
 

demon

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Is it weird that I find the whole concept of "seeing multiple people" unusual? I mean I guess it makes sense, but what kind of "seeing" are we talking about? I'm certainly not experienced in the dating arena, but I just couldn't imagine dating someone who's dating other people. I was always of the philosphy that if you're at a point where you get physical with someone (ie at least at the kissing stage), then it's kind of unfair to the other person to be doing the same with someone else.
 

Cubsfan23

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XS+ said:
OK, I agree it's best to be honest and not trip up on your own words, but that's not the bind I'm in right now. So you're saying I'm screwed if I haven't talked about this to them in the beginning, right?

Yes, especially if you're in the "relationship" mode.
 

XS+

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demon said:
Is it weird that I find the whole concept of "seeing multiple people" unusual? I mean I guess it makes sense, but what kind of "seeing" are we talking about? I'm certainly not experienced in the dating arena, but I just couldn't imagine dating someone who's dating other people. I was always of the philosphy that if you're at a point where you get physical with someone (ie at least at the kissing stage), then it's kind of unfair to the other person to be doing the same with someone else.
Maybe there's one girl likes to wine and dine, while the other likes to stay at home and watch TV, while the other is a barhopping party animal, while the other likes to talk politics, while the other is just HOT, while etc.

I'm having trouble finding ONE girl that embodies all that I'm looking for in a woman, so until that happens I have to date several at once. Think Voltron or The Constructicons/Devastator or something.
 

Cubsfan23

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XS+ said:
Oh yeah thanks Cubsfan. Doesn't solve my problems but it was enlightening.

You have the right attitude, it usually takes a lot of dating to find somebody that has all the qualities you want.
 

XS+

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Ooh ooh another question. My ex gf is dating some other dude. She's a friend of mine and I don't want to let that go, at the same time I'm OK with her dating someone else and I don't want to disrespect what they're doing. How am I supposed to hang with her and talk to her without coming off like a cockblock?
 

Cubsfan23

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I don't see how being friends with her is being a cock-block. She'll let you know if you're "going over the line"

or are you trying to date her again?
 

XS+

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Cubsfan23 said:
I don't see how being friends with her is being a cock-block. She'll let you know if you're "going over the line"

or are you trying to date her again?
Well 'dating' as in going places every now and then (no sex or getting involved tho), yeah I still wanna do that. I just think it would look wrong if her ex bf is driving her around town, so it might come off as a CB move.

All I know is last weekend I showed up to a BBQ I was invited to, and she acted all weird that I was there (the other guy was there too). I'm starting to wonder if I'm being too much of an intrusion, but I'll let her decide and speak up about it.
 

Greekboy

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XS+ said:
I'm starting to wonder if I'm being too much of an intrusion, but I'll let her decide and speak up about it.

She won't. We love the attention and the fact that you are still around.
 

J2 Cool

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Hmm, the details...

Well, I broke up with my gf because I had a serious thing for her sister. This led us to getting drunk and making out before we "had a smoke." During that cigarette it was discussed that we could not "happen" because of my history with her sister (we dated for about 5 years). Since that moment, we've hung out a lot (I still live with my ex, her sister). She knows I am attracted to her still, but she has reiterated that we "will never happen, so just try and move on." I'm in love with this girl, it was the last thing that I ever wanted to happen. You don't want to fall in love with your gf's sister, it's just bad karma. But yet it happened.

I feel like I'm on the friendship ladder (the ladder theory, I'm sure you are versed in it) and jumping for the lover ladder. Our makeout session, brief as it was, says that I wasn't on the friendship ladder however. The sister has commented that she is/was attracted to me once she met me, and that she wondered if I was just an "opposites attract" type of guy. Me and the ex are pretty opposite, while the sister and I are very similar.

I don't know if a relationship with her sister could work, but I'd love to try, and I'd really like to f the s out of her :p I will be applying these tips definitely next time I see her. I wonder if you have any personalized tips or experience however. My ex is laying the cock-block even though I have her blessing to date her sister. It's beyond frustrating.


Here's what I suggest, though mind that I'm no cubsfan. Run at her. Like this. If she jumps on you like Jennifer Love Hewwit does, that's usually a real plus in my book. If you run her over, bail out and use Cubfan's method. You know, offer her your hand and then take it back when she reaches and smooth through your hair. Real cocky and funny but I really think the running thing should work.
 
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