Bobby Roberts
Banned
And there are those that have done a lot worse and have come back to do the same thing they were doing. Sometimes as better people. Sometimes as not.
How is this helping your argument any? I don't get it. You essentially just made the case that it doesn't matter which job he goes back to. And I'm arguing that maybe it does. So if I think it's probably a bad call he gets to re-enter the film writing community (in fact, he never left it) and you think it doesn't even matter at all, I don't... I don't get your stance here, basically.
I see it more of a friend seeing a friend go through something bad. Something the friend is responsible for, but who accepts that responsibility, and learns and grows from it. So he gives him small jobs to do. Enough to keep his life together. I'd expect my friends to do the same.
So this is less about what's actually happening, and more about you entertaining a fictional scenario in which you'd like to believe that if you were a sexual offender and a serial dickhead to something like half the people you ever came in contact with, your friends would still hook you up like nothing had happened.
Why is that lack of personal responsibility on the part of either your friends or yourself a positive step on the road to forgiveness in this what-if that you're entertaining?
Why is it that the possibility of keeping your life together means there are no other means of doing so outside the single avenue that provided you all the opportunities you fucked up in the first place?
Why would you not want to try a new road at that point? Why should everyone be obligated to just... let you back into your lane like that?