I didn't claim I was being bullied, but felt views like from the posts of soundahfekz:
to be unjustified uses of the race card and just overall bullying people to "shut up" before they get essentially called racists by other people.
Since, the discussion of the OP is basically over, I'll continue to respond:
Except for some parts of the Deep South, people would rarely ever get denied for a job because of being black (putting a "white non-hispanic male" on a job application might or not filling that section out, which basically says one is a "white non-hispanic male"). If some people here believe they were denied a job because of their race (or ethnicity), I'd honestly like to hear of the experience and the company that did so.
The reality is that a higher ("disproportionate" implies that there should be some set proportion) percentage of minorities are in jail in the US is because a higher percentage of minorities are illegal acts according to US laws. Now, a higher percentage of minorities are in low income brackets, which with the exception of say Japan, the poorer someone is the more likely it is for that person to commit a crime. Not that being poor justifies committing crimes, unless one/one's family is starving or in imminent danger (unlike the woman in the OP, who after obtaining a gun and the children moving beside the husband, was not).
Now, should all of the crimes that minorities...and majorities actually be crimes? That's much very up to debate, particularly when it comes to minor things like marijuana selling or using. I've identified what I think the problems of the African American communities are and their solutions before, and I can search/re-post them (in another thread) if you'd like. But, racism is closer the tenth biggest problem for African American communities than the first.