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[Riposte]

If over four years, that's 5 guys a year. That's not a lot for anyone without a long term boyfriend (or even with one). If it was 200, I'll probably get a little bothered, even if I know I shouldn't.

EDIT: Actually after 20 years I'm pretty sure it would have to be like 5000 guys to bother me.

 

[royalan]

You give her a high-five, congratulate a playa, and keep it moving.

It's 2013, let's get over this idea that a woman has to be virginal (until she was with you, of course), in order to be on the right side of things.

 

[bro1]

yep

that's gross

Divorce? Great marriage. Pretty sure my wife and I around that number of partners in college. Been together for 15 years since college.

 

[Mercury Fred]

wtf?

Don't be a prude.

 

[bill0527]

Actually the statement was ..."approximately 20, I really lost count".

So it could be 20, or it could be 100.

 

[Hero_of_the_Day]

 

[bud]

Probably give a huge high five

and then ask her about the funniest ones

and then be happy that I was 21

really? a high five? that seems odd.

 

[Wazzim]

:lol

I bet most girls that went to college slept with at least 20 guys.

I'd dump/divorce them, unless we had kids - in which case I'd probably try to get over it.

20 is a lot in a relatively short period, I wouldn't really want to be with a girl who devalues herself like that - especially when I tend not to get serious with anyone until I know it's going to be a long term relationship. I wouldn't flat out say it's wrong, it's not a crime and nobody was hurt (hopefully!) but it'd clash too much with my own moral code and you can't spend your life with somebody you feel is morally inferior to you.

Oh come on, don't use the morals excuse. Every guy would fuck 20+ girls in 4 years of college if he could.

 

[JCizzle]

I've been dating my fiance while she was in college, so pretty fucking pissed.

 

[ZaCH3000]

Pry and laugh, OP.

 

[Mercury Fred]

Actually the statement was ..."approximately 20, I really lost count".

So it could be 20, or it could be 100.

Actually, you know what? Maybe you should end it. She can do better than you.

 

[wenis]

Actually the statement was ..."approximately 20, I really lost count".

So it could be 20, or it could be 100.

Chide her playfully, then ask her what she wants for lunch.

 

[Sobriquet]

I'd dump/divorce them, unless we had kids - in which case I'd probably try to get over it.

20 is a lot in a relatively short period, I wouldn't really want to be with a girl who devalues herself like that - especially when I tend not to get serious with anyone until I know it's going to be a long term relationship. I wouldn't flat out say it's wrong, it's not a crime and nobody was hurt (hopefully!) but it'd clash too much with my own moral code and you can't spend your life with somebody you feel is morally inferior to you.

What does sex have to do with morality?

 

[whytemyke]

if you do the math it ain't that crazy. like say she's there for five years. averages out to four guys a year. not TOO crazy.

 

[kehs]

Twenty in college, or like twenty at once?

 

[bill0527]

Actually, you know what? Maybe you should end it. She can do better than you.

Haha, its not my wife.

 

[Escape Goat]

Is this another of your family drama threads, OP?

 

[lethial]

Oh my god people have sex.

 

[that1dude24]

I'd dump/divorce them, unless we had kids - in which case I'd probably try to get over it.

20 is a lot in a relatively short period, I wouldn't really want to be with a girl who devalues herself like that - especially when I tend not to get serious with anyone until I know it's going to be a long term relationship. I wouldn't flat out say it's wrong, it's not a crime and nobody was hurt (hopefully!) but it'd clash too much with my own moral code and you can't spend your life with somebody you feel is morally inferior to you.

your "moral code" is a bit skewed towards your own situation, i'd wager?

what would be a crazy number?

-1

 

[bud]

what would be a crazy number?

 

[Glorified G]

Sometimes ignorance is bliss.

 

[DominoKid]

"oh well. i wifed a former jump. wonder what's on tv tonight."

 

[Nemesis121]

An eye for an eye, go bang 20 women..

 

[entremet]

Wouldn't care at all. People are horny in their late teens and twenties. This is nothing new.

 

[DietRob]

You're King of the Dicks! Congrats?

 

[Jackben]

your morals are a bit skewed towards your own situation, i'd wager?

His virginity must make him a saint according to his system.

 

[Riposte]

You know what? This question is boring.

What if after 20 years, your wife revealed to you she once had sex with a dog? You can add multiple dogs if one dog isn't enough. You can also change the animal to any medium size mammal.

 

[BGBW]

Oh my god people have sex.

Yeah. The problem nowadays is if you hadn't had sex.

Not my fault online communities were so much fun.

 

[adamsappel]

Who cares? I feel bad for the girls who were labeled "sluts" in high school, who probably slept with 2-3 guys at most, and they were probably their boyfriends anyway.

 

[grumble]

After twenty years, it's kind of far in the past. You know them pretty well by then and have better info to judge her by.

Personally I'd be kind of grossed out but I'd get over it pretty quickly. I mean, 20 years of marriage later!

 

[brianjones]

An eye for an eye, go bang 20 women..

go bang 19 so you have that 1 to hold over her

 

[zoukka]

Eh that's not all that far from the average. Who cares?

 

[bud]

Eh that's not all that far from the average. Who cares?

what's the average number?

 

[RumblingRosco]

Redacted.

 

[Barbacoatl]

I wouldn't need to know those details about her life prior to me. Why would she tell you? You asked?

 

[Gemüsepizza]

:lol

I bet most girls that went to college slept with at least 20 guys.

Reality =/= some fake college girl porn vids

 

[Face it Tiger..]

"Your wife slept with over 20 Black (bbc) guys in college, she tells you 20 years later"

how about now?

 

[Certinty]

I would care, but I wouldn't care too much to actually do something about it I suppose.

But my fiancee has already told me how many guys she's slept with, so on that note I won't have to ever experience such thing.

 

[RBH]

But your dick won.

.

 

[Mercury Fred]

Haha, its not my wife.

Oh god, so you're a complete prude and it's about a situation that doesn't even affect you? lol

 

[Kwixotik]

At the same time?

Edit: Honestly, like has already been said 5 different people per year during college isn't exactly unusual at a lot of schools

 

[Tacitus_]

20 sex partners over what, 3 or 4 years doesn't sound too much if you're an outgoing person.

 

[Bulbo Urethral Baggins]

"Your wife slept with over 20 Black (bbc) guys in college, she tells you 20 years later"

how about now?

That explains why giving birth has been so easy for her.

 

[royalan]

I'm always more amazed by people actually keeping a count of this sort of thing.

I mean, I suppose if I sat down and actually thought about it I could come up with a number...but who could really be bothered about that sort of thing?

 

[Deified Data]

Were they bigger than me?

 

[fuzzyreactor]

20 dicks/4 years is only 5 dicks a year

that's not bad at all given the environment and age

 

[Sorian]

All this thread makes me think about is that I'm engaged and I feel I haven't had sex with enough people in my life

Spoiler

only 3 and one of them was terrible

 

[Jackben]

Oh god, so you're a complete prude and it's about a situation that doesn't even affect you? lol

Anyone who doesn't answer along the lines of "who gives a shit?" fits into that category.

WTB: maturity

 

[jon bones]

who cares? women have sex, men have sex.

you two are (presumably) happily married, and that's all that matters.

20 dicks/4 years is only 5 dicks a year

that's not bad at all given the environment and age

that's true - if she's been single the whole time, she's probably going out every weekend and meeting new people. if she's only having sex with one new person every 2+ months, that's downright reasonable.

 

[paparazzo]

Not a problem. Sure, it'd make me a little uncomfortable at first but I'd let the past be the past, which no one is capable of changing. Unless she shows signs of continuing or wanting to continue that lifestyle, what's the issue? As a Christian, the bible often says not to judge others but to love thy neighbor as thyself, emphasizes forgiveness, etc., and I find this is the best philosophy to have in such cases and in everyday life. And beyond that, she chose me, so whatever.