TekkenMaster
Banned
I've had this theory about age of virginity loss and sexual confidence/success for a while now, and I'm curious what GAF thinks.
Basically I believe that straight men who lost their virginity in high school or earlier are much more likely to be very confident in terms of their relations with the opposite sex. These are the people who easily end up sleeping with 30+ gorgeous women by the time they are 23.
Straight guys who lost it at age 13-17 will grow up to be "naturals" when it comes to women. They will never have difficulty finding a woman for casual sex, a short fling, or even a long term relationship. Their confidence and charm oozes out of every pore, and women are attracted to this like moths to flame. Women seem to sense and want guys who have had numerous previous sexual partners, as these guys are, in their eyes, desirable by other women.
I've observed guys like this walk into a party, spot a group of girls they don't even know, start gaming them, dancing, flirting, and within minutes end up making out, and certainly within a couple hours end up taking the girl back to his place.
From my experience, these naturals don't read stuff like "The Game" by Neil Strauss - they don't need it.All their "skills" have been internalized through their early experiences with sex and women. They are not intimidated by girls, they don't put the pussy on a pedestal. More importantly, sex is just a normal part of life for them, just as common as eating, exercising, or going to the bathroom. It's just so ingrained in their lives that they don't possess the fear of women and rejection and the feelings of potential inadequacy that plague guys who lose their virginity after the age of 20 or so.
On the other hand, men who lose their virginity in college or beyond (especially age 20/21 and beyond) will almost always have hangups, insecurities, shyness around women, and general cluelessness as to how to be a "player", i.e. how to almost subconsciously utilize seduction skills to bed whatever woman they want.
Personally, I grew up being indoctrinated by sexual harassment programs at school that taught that any kind of flirting or physical contact towards a girl is predatory and could get you arrested. These indoctrinations started around 4th or 5th grade. Fucked me up completely and made me think girls would lash out at being flirted with or touched in any way.
Basically, fuck those sexual harassment programs. All they do is make guys feel like shit.
Finally, I've noticed that guys who never had sex in middle or high school tend to maintain a preferred attraction towards teenage girls into their 20's and beyond. These guys missed out on the experience of having sex with girls this age and therefore become obsessed with younger women in an attempt to make up for their lost high school years.
TL;DR: Guys who lose their virginity in middle or high school end up being much better sexually adjusted and confident than those who lose it at age 20+. Also, guys who lose it at age 20+ tend to always pine for teenage girls well into their 20's and 30's.
It's true for me (lost my virginity at 20). What do y'all think?
Basically I believe that straight men who lost their virginity in high school or earlier are much more likely to be very confident in terms of their relations with the opposite sex. These are the people who easily end up sleeping with 30+ gorgeous women by the time they are 23.
Straight guys who lost it at age 13-17 will grow up to be "naturals" when it comes to women. They will never have difficulty finding a woman for casual sex, a short fling, or even a long term relationship. Their confidence and charm oozes out of every pore, and women are attracted to this like moths to flame. Women seem to sense and want guys who have had numerous previous sexual partners, as these guys are, in their eyes, desirable by other women.
I've observed guys like this walk into a party, spot a group of girls they don't even know, start gaming them, dancing, flirting, and within minutes end up making out, and certainly within a couple hours end up taking the girl back to his place.
From my experience, these naturals don't read stuff like "The Game" by Neil Strauss - they don't need it.All their "skills" have been internalized through their early experiences with sex and women. They are not intimidated by girls, they don't put the pussy on a pedestal. More importantly, sex is just a normal part of life for them, just as common as eating, exercising, or going to the bathroom. It's just so ingrained in their lives that they don't possess the fear of women and rejection and the feelings of potential inadequacy that plague guys who lose their virginity after the age of 20 or so.
On the other hand, men who lose their virginity in college or beyond (especially age 20/21 and beyond) will almost always have hangups, insecurities, shyness around women, and general cluelessness as to how to be a "player", i.e. how to almost subconsciously utilize seduction skills to bed whatever woman they want.
Personally, I grew up being indoctrinated by sexual harassment programs at school that taught that any kind of flirting or physical contact towards a girl is predatory and could get you arrested. These indoctrinations started around 4th or 5th grade. Fucked me up completely and made me think girls would lash out at being flirted with or touched in any way.
Basically, fuck those sexual harassment programs. All they do is make guys feel like shit.
Finally, I've noticed that guys who never had sex in middle or high school tend to maintain a preferred attraction towards teenage girls into their 20's and beyond. These guys missed out on the experience of having sex with girls this age and therefore become obsessed with younger women in an attempt to make up for their lost high school years.
TL;DR: Guys who lose their virginity in middle or high school end up being much better sexually adjusted and confident than those who lose it at age 20+. Also, guys who lose it at age 20+ tend to always pine for teenage girls well into their 20's and 30's.
It's true for me (lost my virginity at 20). What do y'all think?
