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#Miiquality | Bringing same-sex relationships to Nintendo's Tomodachi series

Marcel

Member
You have a large number of people saying Nintendo's failure to include homosexual relationships is intentional exclusion. The worst will always be assumed.

It is not known if it was intentional or not. The developers have not said one way or the other. We can speculate based on how Nintendo handles other social responsibility issues but that's as much as we can do.
 
Yes, because every person who is progressive is also a petty rabble-rouser just looking to heap shit on anything and everything. Get over yourself and your actually petty assumptions.
What happened with making default FemShep? I remember people nicely asking Bioware/EA, with a select few flaming morons/obvious trolls :p. So the option to add homosexuality would indeed be a plus to tack on to the review. (With Nintendo holding to the belief that this bigotness will 'halp sell da 3ds!?!')
 
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Deleted member 17706

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Well, I think it'd be a progressive step. I'm not saying some wouldn't criticize it as well, but I'm just stating that from a design standpoint, I can understand why it would be completely outside the comfort zone of a conservative Japanese company that's developing games and perceiving children to be their target audience to not want prompt the question of "are you romantically interested in boys or girls?" to, say, a six-year-old. However, I also don't think it behooves us to state that the socially responsible thing to do is simply not allot for it at all, only allow heterosexual relationships and call it a day. If that's the case, then it's up to creative types to come up with creative solutions to promote inclusiveness.

They could make it a bit more organic by allowing you to express your sexuality through choices in the game and not expressly state whether you are hetero or homo or anything in between.

Of course, then they would have the challenge of deciding how it the sexuality of the NPCs are determined. It sounds like an extremely tough place to be.
 
You have a large number of people saying Nintendo's failure to include homosexual relationships is intentional exclusion. The worst will always be assumed.

To be fair, if they coded Mii matchups but also coded in a gender check to decide if those matchups can happen or not, that is, yes, a deliberate design choice and not an accident. Doesn't matter if the intention was specifically to discriminate or if it's just ignorant thoughtlessness, it doesn't make the exclusion any less real.
 

Rhained

Banned
No, dont cater to a minority. (one that is increasingly loud for being so small...). Homosexuality is allready over represented imo.
 
Glad that this is getting good press! I think a lot of us know that the activism most likely falls on def ears at Nintendo, but the amount of attention this is getting is actually pretty surprising and a positive development. That part is the real success, not some dumb game that people will forget about in a year (not that they shouldnt patch the game).

Nintendo can be responsive to protests at times, thats how NoE regions managed to get 60hz Virtual Console titles, and how Nintendo finally relented on Earthbound.

It's just a shame that Nintendo sat on Tomodachi for YEARS then while they managed to do some decent localising on the title for both region - they omitted something pretty important in a rush to get it gold, and announce it *after* the fact (something Nintendo doesn't commonly do, they normally announce a title a year in advance) If this had the normal product cycle, Nintendo could of taken the time to fix this.

#Miiquality deserves to succeed at the end of the day. I hope Nintendo reconsiders or at least looks into if patching Tomodachi is possible.
 

DECK'ARD

The Amiga Brotherhood
They could make it a bit more organic by allowing you to express your sexuality through choices in the game and not expressly state whether you are hetero or homo or anything in between.

Of course, then they would have the challenge of deciding how it the sexuality of the NPCs are determined. It sounds like an extremely tough place to be.

You don't make choices in Tomodachi Life, that's the whole point. The Mii's are autonomous, you just watch what they get up to.

Although I think in an advert it does have some sliders for personality type when you import your Mii. They could work the question in there, but it would seem out of place.

There isn't an easy solution to it, and Nintendo would either have to embrace it completely in a sequel or just continue to ignore it.
 

Sai-kun

Banned
No, dont cater to a minority. (one that is increasingly loud for being so small...). Homosexuality is allready over represented imo.

WHERE?

sorry, this is the stupidest thing i've read in this entire thread

WHERE are you that homosexuality is OVER represented?!

edit: I hope you're an alt and your main account gets banned too.
 

Marcel

Member
No, dont cater to a minority. (one that is increasingly loud for being so small...). Homosexuality is allready over represented imo.

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Amir0x

Banned
No, dont cater to a minority. (one that is increasingly loud for being so small...). Homosexuality is allready over represented imo.

Why would you even waste time making an account if you have no intention of keeping it?

Shameful behavior. Doesn't matter if it's a minority or a majority - they represent a massive amount of people who, like you, probably can't imagine being sexually attracted to anyone but whom they are attracted to. They want to be able to relate to their avatar Mii, and as a huge part of the specific appeal of Tamadachi Life is relating to your Mii and his/her life, it's only fair that people in same-sex relationships be able to express their completely viable love and relationships in game form as well.

This isn't a minority/majority issue, it's an issue of simple human decency and dignity. These individuals deserve mainstream games where their relationship isn't treated as awkward, where they don't have to pretend to be a member of the opposite sex simply to live out their e-fantasies, where they live in a progressive world that accepts who they are for who they are whether they were born like that or not.
 
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Deleted member 17706

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You don't make choices in Tomodachi Life, that's the whole point. The Mii's are autonomous, you just watch what they get up to.

Although I think in an advert it does have some sliders for personality type when you import your Mii. They could work the question in there, but it would seem out of place.

There isn't an easy solution to it, and Nintendo would either have to embrace it completely in a sequel or just continue to ignore it.

Ah, I didn't realize there wasn't any kind of active gameplay component or decision making.

Interesting.

If it just carries out based on the roll of the dice, then they'd really have to include all possibilities to not receive flak from people.
 

Gestault

Member
[borderline-ugly ideas]

An outwardly identified group of people wanting their entertainment experiences to give the impression that they're included alongside the rest of the human race isn't some minor quibble. If this were a game with a set character with set traits, I could entertain your point, but it's not. It's meant to be customized to the traits of the player. And this coming from someone who thinks it's unreasonable to expect this particular release of Tomodachi Life be changed.
 

Taker666

Member
You don't make choices in Tomodachi Life, that's the whole point. The Mii's are autonomous, you just watch what they get up to.

Although I think in an advert it does have some sliders for personality type when you import your Mii. They could work the question in there, but it would seem out of place.

There isn't an easy solution to it, and Nintendo would either have to embrace it completely in a sequel or just continue to ignore it.

Yes there is..don't bother releasing it in the west next time. Not worth the hassle.
 
Yes there is..don't bother releasing it in the west next time. Not worth the hassle.

Well, if it sells well it's worth the hassle of dealing with the concerns of progressives. If it doesn't sell well, then the conversation is largely moot anyway as there'll be no concerns to address.
 
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Deleted member 17706

Unconfirmed Member
There really is no hassle. It simply is a matter of NCL not caring.

Well that isn't fair. They could very well be taking this issue seriously and looking to implement it in future products.

Then again, like I said earlier, people like to just assume the worst.
 

Kinvara

Member
I'm still going to remain optimistic and hope that we get same-sex stuff in the future.

Nintendo can be surprisingly progressive when it comes to gender issues (Animal Crossing) so I think it's only a matter of time before we finally get same-sex relationships.
 

Gestault

Member
Yes there is..don't bother releasing it in the west next time. Not worth the hassle.

I couldn't disagree with this more. There is an audience for this game, even without having a more progressive range of player traits for romantic relationships. There is work involved in that implementation, and the staff and project leads behind it can consider that for future titles. That doesn't mean this is an all-or-nothing proposition. In spite of how it feels to the people it effects, this is a shortcoming primarily to a minority population, which means for most players, this won't feel like a shortcoming in a direct sense. That's not a value judgement, and that doesn't mean that others won't feel that it's an unfortunate omission, but it's the nature of majority and minority groups if something is designed for the mainstream.
 

Marcel

Member
Yes, things happen magically with the wave of a wand, and there's no need for time, labor, or other investment on the part of anyone. Silly us.

And what's the cost of even more bad publicity for Nintendo? They're not really in a place where they can fuck up stuff like social responsibility with impunity.

This story is tracking big-time and people are rightly shellacking them for their non-answer.
 
Yes, things happen magically with the wave of a wand, and there's no need for time, labor, or other investment on the part of anyone. Silly us.

Well, honestly, what "hassle" are we referring to here. They're not implementing the change right now requested by the movement. Is the assumption that Nintendo just won't bother with the next title out of spite because PR people they already have on staff were annoyed that they had to offer non-responses to this campaign?
 

kirblar

Member
And what's the cost of even more bad publicity for Nintendo? They're not really in a place where they can fuck up stuff like social responsibility with impunity.

This story is tracking big-time and people are rightly shellacking them for their non-answer.
That's a good question. What's the cost? It's not a mainstream title. They're already losing tons of money but can stay afloat for a while.
 
Well that isn't fair. They could very well be taking this issue seriously and looking to implement it in future products.

Then again, like I said earlier, people like to just assume the worst.

Yes, things happen magically with the wave of a wand, and there's no need for time, labor, or other investment on the part of anyone. Silly us.

If they cared about having same-sex relationships in the game, they would have been programmed in already. Changing variables to allow Miis of the same gender to form a romantic relationship really would not have been that difficult. I'll grant that adding adoption would have required much more work but again, at some point those things were judged as not feasible for whatever reasons, if they were even brought up.

You can act like they would have had to cut off fingers to make it work, but Nintendo can afford extra work.
 

Marcel

Member
That's a good question. What's the cost? It's not a mainstream title. They're already losing tons of money but can stay afloat for a while.

The bad publicity is toward Nintendo and not the game itself. Whether it's a mainstream title or not doesn't really matter. Headlines like "Nintendo’s 'whimsical' simulation erases an entire population of players, and that’s intolerable", "Nintendo Responds (Terribly) To Gay Marriage Petition", "Nintendo says no to virtual equality in life game" leave out the title of the game entirely.

Edit: I would also add that two negative stories are trending over a Pokemon announcement today. Awareness is growing, though it probably won't be more well known than quotes about Mama.

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Watching the video you made for the OP really puts into perspective how shitty it is to be excited for this game but not being able to enjoy it as others would. Nice job!
 

Cbajd5

Member
The bad publicity is toward Nintendo and not the game itself. Whether it's a mainstream title or not doesn't really matter. Headlines like "Nintendo’s 'whimsical' simulation erases an entire population of players, and that’s intolerable", "Nintendo Responds (Terribly) To Gay Marriage Petition", "Nintendo says no to virtual equality in life game" leave out the title of the game entirely.

Edit: I would also add that two negative stories are trending over a Pokemon announcement today. Awareness is growing, though it probably won't be more well known than quotes about Mama.

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Uh, those are tailored trends. Basically, somewhat popular trends personalized to match content you want to see which is why there's no location there.

This is what's actually currently trending (In the USA):

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Edit: Although I think there's some personalization with those too, since that's changed to this:

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Marcel

Member
Uh, those are tailored trends. Basically, somewhat popular trends personalized to match content you want to see which is why there's no location there.

This is what's actually currently trending (In the USA):

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In any event, the power of Mom still wins. Treat ya mother right.
 

Taker666

Member
There really is no hassle. It simply is a matter of NCL not caring.

Whichever way they go they'll get hassle ......either from the LGBT community.... or rightwing anti-gay marriage Christian and parent groups for "pushing" homosexuality on young children (a group who probably cause Nintendo way more trouble than the LGBT community would).

In Nintendo's position I'd rather not risk the negativity of either group.....so I'd just can the game in the west entirely...or remove all forms of relationship/marriage.
 
It should be the standard for all games to have, like, every single gender and sexuality and race equally represented, ok? Anyone disagree?
 
Well here is the problem, you're not playing Mario and you're not saving princess peach. You're supposed to be guiding people through life and these people may include yourself, not a predefined character set by the developer.

So when a decision comes into play that is totally different than what you envisioned for your character than yes, it becomes a problem. When playing Skyrim I was pretty shocked when the option became available to flirt with another male character. But after thinking about it, this is how it should be. The developer intentionally left out a variable in the code that limited who that player married, whether it be a freakish lizard humanoid type creature or another man. That's how a game like this is supposed to work, with that type of freedom of choice.

To say that they didn't think about gay marriage is completely wrong as they had to incorporate code into the game specifically limiting gender when courting eachother. I'm not saying Nintendo is bigoted but many developers are allowing such options when you have a game that incorporates marriage or romantic partnership. If your players want it you should just give them the option to do it, gay people exist to.
 
Whichever way they go they'll get hassle ......either from the LGBT community.... or rightwing anti-gay marriage Christian and parent groups for "pushing" homosexuality on young children (a group who probably cause Nintendo way more trouble than the LGBT community would).

In Nintendo's position I'd rather not risk the negativity of either group.....so I'd just can the game in the west entirely...or remove all forms of relationship/marriage.

That may have been what their money/marketing guys told them.

But we know that batting average
 

dacuk

Member
I'd like Nintendo sending a patch to add same-sex relationships to Tomodachi, but they are still so conservative nowadays, that they will not know how to react to this request.
 

zigg

Member
Can I just put this whole "kids won't get it" thing to bed?

Kids—at least kids old enough to manipulate a 3DS—get that people love other people. They get that women have babies through pregnancy and parents can also adopt kids. Maybe they haven't seen a man who loves another man or same with women, but they are completely capable of processing that on this level, which is all this game is really doing.

This is so not a problem except for parents who are scared to touch the subject. I can sympathize a little if those parents aren't well-equipped to do so, but in that case that they need to just step up and figure it out. It's probably one of the easiest things for a parent to do in 2014.

Source: I'm a parent.
 

mocking

Banned
Anyone else miss the good ole days when video games were just nerd hobbies and nothing to do with social commentary? I guess that's one of the prices we pay when gaming has become too realistic and "mainstream".
 

Blackthorn

"hello?" "this is vagina"
Anyone else miss the good ole days when video games were just nerd hobbies and nothing to do with social commentary? I guess that's one of the prices we pay when gaming has become too realistic and "mainstream".
Please tell me about the prices you have had to pay.
 

Thorakai

Member
Anyone else miss the good ole days when video games were just nerd hobbies and nothing to do with social commentary? I guess that's one of the prices we pay when gaming has become too realistic and "mainstream".

You must be so burdened by the weight of an internet thread asking for equal representation.
 
just tweeted in support of this. great video and very well done/put.

rational conversations start with rational and thought-out approaches to the issue, and you've absolutely nailed it Tye!
 

TopGun

Banned
I'm not against gay marriage by any means, but I don't care if the game has same sex marriage involved in it or not. It's a game marketed towards little kids, it's not a social/political commentary game.

Animal Crossing had dress options, which was fine, but now everyone wants same sex marriage in a KIDS game? C'mon. I'm sure you can do all that in the Sims games, but just let Nintendo be Nintendo. They're stubborn as a bull if you ever realized it in the first place. It's not ignorance or disrespect, they just want to appeal to all audiences. If you don't like that Nintendo isn't including the feature, then don't buy it. Or just play it without a romancing option. There's so much more to do in Tomodachi Life but people are losing sight in what the rest of the game is about. Doing stupid silly stuff with friends, playing games, etc.
 
I'm not against gay marriage by any means, but I don't care if the game has same sex marriage involved in it or not. It's a game marketed towards little kids, it's not a social/political commentary game.

Animal Crossing had dress options, which was fine, but now everyone wants same sex marriage in a KIDS game? C'mon. I'm sure you can do all that in the Sims games, but just let Nintendo be Nintendo. They're stubborn as a bull if you ever realized it in the first place. It's not ignorance or disrespect, they just want to appeal to all audiences. If you don't like that Nintendo isn't including the feature, then don't buy it. Or just play it without a romancing option. There's so much more to do in Tomodachi Life but people are losing sight in what the rest of the game is about. Doing stupid silly stuff with friends, playing games, etc.

There's opposite sex marriage in this KIDS game.
 
I'm not against gay marriage by any means, but I don't care if the game has same sex marriage involved in it or not. It's a game marketed towards little kids, it's not a social/political commentary game.

Animal Crossing had dress options, which was fine, but now everyone wants same sex marriage in a KIDS game? C'mon. I'm sure you can do all that in the Sims games, but just let Nintendo be Nintendo. They're stubborn as a bull if you ever realized it in the first place. It's not ignorance or disrespect, they just want to appeal to all audiences. If you don't like that Nintendo isn't including the feature, then don't buy it. Or just play it without a romancing option. There's so much more to do in Tomodachi Life but people are losing sight in what the rest of the game is about. Doing stupid silly stuff with friends, playing games, etc.

I trust that you can recognize that the bolded does not represent the best argument for such an omission. "Come on, they're just trying to appeal to everyone! ...Except gays!"
 
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