In general, when cheating is discussed, I often hear "maybe there's something in the relationship" as a deflection from the fact that someone did a terrible thing.What? Does this happen often?
And what criteria do you use to determine that?Depends if the significant other was at fault or not.
What? Does this happen often?
What the fuck. This is what I mean, people. This or the "You neglected her emotional or physical needs" type excuses that could have been solved by talking to your partner.This happened to my brother-in-law.
My wife's sister cheated on him and her parents blamed it on his laziness and being overweight (both of which are true, but he's otherwise a good guy).
It was ridiculous.
What? Does this happen often?
Dumb. Usually because "you weren't satisying their needs" bullshit. Sex is like #2046 on the list of important things in a relationship and it goes dowm the list as you get older.
They need to listen to more Shaggy.
it's a disease!cheaters are always in the wrong
Not sure how "missing cues" would justify cheating? And why even give "cues" instead of talking directly with your partner? And if talking doesn't work, you can just leave the relationship.Depends. Some guys missed all the other cues up to (and including) the cheating, until it's practically designed for the cheater to be caught.
Not interested in supporting their attempts at relieving cognitive dissonance with justifications and rationalizations. I don't condemn people for their mistakes, but it is highly important that they own their actions and not shrink from their responsibility in making whatever choices they do.
I know a father who was fucking his sons wife, and he totally pulled that shit. Told his son it was because he wasn't enough of a man to satisfy his wife. That is just the surface of it too. Goes far darker and more fucked up than just the sex. Pieces of shit (the wife and father).
I know a father who was fucking his sons wife, and he totally pulled that shit. Told his son it was because he wasn't enough of a man to satisfy his wife. That is just the surface of it too. Goes far darker and more fucked up than just the sex. Pieces of shit (the wife and father).
What about the wife?Seriously. I don't know how you say and do that shit to your son. I'm pretty amazed the son handled it without just fucking murdering everyone.
No way to put it into words as is happened over decades, multiple kids came of it, too. Just fucked.
What? Does this happen often?
What about the wife?
There's no reason to cheat on your SO.
it's a disease!