To be fair, I agree with you but I can understand them too. Because I do think it's good to get more people interested in the genre. And I think it is a really snobby/snotty attitude to bitch about the casuals and how they are ruining mah games!
At the same time some of us who really like the genre also like more complication in the game (RPG fans in general don't care for their game to be simple but want to have to balance a lot of stuff. Part of the fun is all the preperation and logistics in the game). So it's nice to get more people interested but at the same time it sux when it feels a game you like is getting simplified.
I think in the end people need to realize Bethesda cannot take this long making a game and perfecting it and make it this big and not have it appeal to a lot of people. It's just not feasable to spend this much effort on a game for a more niche crowd. Enjoy it for what it is. And support smaller RPGs that are going to be aimed more at the niche crowd (like Wasteland 2). It is what it is and honestly, so far even when more aiming a more general audience Bethesda still makes a fun game (though flawed
).