TrainedRage
Banned
I'm in my early 30's. I have dated in the past, had relationships that have lasted for over 5 years.
However I have not dated in years. I just don't have the urge to go out and date or go online and use a dating site. I don't feel depressed about being single but recently have been thinking about my future and how my life would turn out.
Like, do I want to be living by myself into my later stages of life? When the people in my life eventually go away who will I have? Will I be lonely? Will I regret not having a family and a wife?
I don't know what to feel besides anxiety. Like, I'm ok being alone. I have been doing it for years now and become used to it. But maybe I don't know what I'm missing.
Yeah I would like to fine a person to spend my life with and share experiences. Someone to have my back and look after me.
It's just this rut now of work and not meeting people my own age. I love hanging out with my friends and family but they are all starting to seemingly venture down their own 'family' path.
Am I just thinking too much about this? Should I keep working and just hope that " I meet the right person" randomly? Why am I feeling more and more pressure to be in a relationship? Is being single 'forever' a terribly lonely exisyance or is it compatible with my personality?
Any thoughts or experiences would be great! Hope GAF is having a great week!
However I have not dated in years. I just don't have the urge to go out and date or go online and use a dating site. I don't feel depressed about being single but recently have been thinking about my future and how my life would turn out.
Like, do I want to be living by myself into my later stages of life? When the people in my life eventually go away who will I have? Will I be lonely? Will I regret not having a family and a wife?
I don't know what to feel besides anxiety. Like, I'm ok being alone. I have been doing it for years now and become used to it. But maybe I don't know what I'm missing.
Yeah I would like to fine a person to spend my life with and share experiences. Someone to have my back and look after me.
It's just this rut now of work and not meeting people my own age. I love hanging out with my friends and family but they are all starting to seemingly venture down their own 'family' path.
Am I just thinking too much about this? Should I keep working and just hope that " I meet the right person" randomly? Why am I feeling more and more pressure to be in a relationship? Is being single 'forever' a terribly lonely exisyance or is it compatible with my personality?
Any thoughts or experiences would be great! Hope GAF is having a great week!