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Fabricated Notch/Mojang party escort allegations; Twitter monsters spring into action

IHaveIce

Banned
im kinda surprised that so many people are ok with that.

so if your sister or mom told you she was a stripper or an escort (i think it's just another word for prostitute) you wouldnt have any problems with it, you'd be glad they finally found a line of work that suits their tastes, right ?
First of all bad analogy because everyone of course handles stuff differently with family members.

Second there is a difference between strippers to prostitutes and then to women who go to parties to break the ice and get paid for it.

Third I have a female friend who does the latter, no problem with it, she is happy with it so what?

It is quick money earned, she can use it pretty well for studying.

Advice for the 'misguided' dude, who says they don't have another job or study and use rhe money for it?
 

DirtRiver

Member
A lot of people here seem to be playing....White Knight Chronicles
sorry

It was a huge party with Skrillex and Diplo, what's the harm of having girls be there to dance? The only problem right now seems to be that this was thrown by some videogame dudes because I don't see people get upset about every other party that has paid girls dancing...which is practically every single one of them.
 
I also read a lot of tweets of people having a lot of fun at the party, people with girlfriends/boyfriends. Probably it was a dude that couldn't enter the VIP section that is making these claims.
 
Seriously? If he paid escorts to show up at a private party where's the harm? If he paid his normal female employees to dance around him then maybe we got a problem here.
 

Danielsan

Member
A woman's life shouldn't have to be about "getting by", it should be about having a DECENT good-paying and satisfying job. Most if not all of the men at that party have jobs like that. I am helping to spread awareness of this mistreatment of a gender by a company of developers that a lot of people hold dear; surely I'm not a white knight, I'm just saying.
I can't help but laugh. Who are you to judge what someone else finds to be a satisfying job. Perhaps these women love socializing/dancing at these type of parties. Or perhaps they just enjoy the fact that the job pays very well compared to the average job that you consider to be far more fulfilling. Either way, it's up to them to decide what to do with their lives and careers, not you. The very notion that you find it necessary to "protect" these women from these "vile" jobs where they get paid well ironically makes you rather sexist yourself. After all, women, like men, can make their own choices in life just fine.
 
Do you really think so little of strippers and prostitutes that can't fathom the agony of one of them being related to you?

if someone im related was exploited in such a way, yeah i would certainly try and talk them into doing something else and get them out of that situation. I obviously have nothing against these women, just against the people who support this exploitation
 

Salsa

Member
hey,this is legal to

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XbALBvRek1k

me prometi no responder jamas un post tuyo,lo siento

im not saying legal = ok, at all

im saying the topic at hand is how apparently "disgusting" it is that Mojan hired these girls and suddenly the OP goes into a completely misguided (hur) tanget about the concept of women in society and apparently him deciding what job they should have and what job they shouldnt

porque esa promesa? :s
 
A woman's life shouldn't have to be about "getting by", it should be about having a DECENT good-paying and satisfying job. Most if not all of the men at that party have jobs like that. I am helping to spread awareness of this mistreatment of a gender by a company of developers that a lot of people hold dear; surely I'm not a white knight, I'm just saying.

Look, the reality is this line of work isn't going to help your last 30's/early 40's. Then what are these people supposed to do with their lives? Just marry a rich man and perpetuate another stereotype about women? We should be helping women get better jobs and have better lives.

This isn't fucking Saudi Arabia, women can get pretty much any job they want. There are women working everywhere, in every field. You sound like you stepped out of the 1950s.
 

Kifimbo

Member
im kinda surprised that so many people are ok with that.

so if your sister or mom told you she was a stripper or an escort (i think it's just another word for prostitute) you wouldnt have any problems with it, you'd be glad they finally found a line of work that suits their tastes, right ?

1. They are not strippers.

2. 90% of the time, it's a part-time, temporary job to make money quickly. Many of these girls will have good jobs in the future because they are currently going to school. They just want to make money on the side.

3. There's not a lot of differences between this job (dancing and socializing) and being a barmaid.
 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=plCcmK1vjkc#t=238s

this explains why this evil is needed.

I know it sounds like a stretch, but what if the ratio of male-female was 100-1? wouldn't those females feel uncomfortable by the sheer amount of disparity? Keeping both genders balanced is good, unless we're talking about "just for the eyes", or having a seductive behaviour, or whatever. I agree it's not good, because it feels artificial... i don't know what their true intentions were, but I'm not just gonna think they did it for sexist purposes because it happened
 

MormaPope

Banned
This thread is getting loco.

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xenist

Member
I'm gonna give people the benefit of the doubt and assume their words are coming from a honest place. I'm also not going to quote exact posts so it doesn't become personal.

But, unless you're a woman AND you're talking about your own life you have no place saying what a "woman's life" should or shouldn't be. No place at all.
 

jerd

Member
Look, the reality is this line of work isn't going to help your last 30's/early 40's. Then what are these people supposed to do with their lives? Just marry a rich man and perpetuate another stereotype about women? We should be helping women get better jobs and have better lives.

Those poor, naive women. What ever would they do without you.
 
Look, the reality is this line of work isn't going to help your last 30's/early 40's. Then what are these people supposed to do with their lives? Just marry a rich man and perpetuate another stereotype about women? We should be helping women get better jobs and have better lives.
I don't think you realize how sexist you are being right now with this attitude. Who are you to tell a woman what to do? Why should you be an authority over what they do with their lives? I have a few friends who do this kind of thing as a side gig, one of whom just graduated law school and another who works in online marketing. It's just something they do on the side. They get paid to go to parties. If I were to show this thread to them they would laugh their asses off. They don't need this white knighting and they're not being exploited like some Russian prostitutes whose pimps are holding their passports hostage or anything.
 

Madness

Member
Wait, they were having sex with people at the party? Are they prostitutes or dancers?

No, they were attractive women hired as hostesses to serve and socialize with the guests. Sort of like how a popular nightclub has attractive servers and bartenders. Apparently a few people feel it was sexist and have now started to spam twitter.

Unlike the IGDA which represent an advocacy group and collect dues, this was a private party by a studio.
 

Hrothgar

Member
Look, the reality is this line of work isn't going to help your last 30's/early 40's. Then what are these people supposed to do with their lives? Just marry a rich man and perpetuate another stereotype about women? We should be helping women get better jobs and have better lives.

That's their own choice, why are you seemingly trying to force your worldview on them?

EDIT: polyh3dron said it better.
 

Fox_Mulder

Rockefellers. Skull and Bones. Microsoft. Al Qaeda. A Cabal of Bankers. The melting point of steel. What do these things have in common? Wake up sheeple, the landfill wasn't even REAL!
im kinda surprised that so many people are ok with that.

so if your sister or mom told you she was a stripper or an escort (i think it's just another word for prostitute) you wouldnt have any problems with it, you'd be glad they finally found a line of work that suits their tastes, right ?

My sister or mom are not that type of women. But the world is plenty of women who would have paid 300$/h for chatting at a party (or more)...

Have you been shocked if they were men (instead women)?
 
Yes i'm sure that there were 7 girls among 210 people on electronics faculty i were in my university because other girls passionate about electronics were being scared of party culture in the industry.

And 80-90% of girls in my high school having serious troubles with mathematics was obviously just a result of sexism and not choices of what they like learning.

And its not like a big part of STEM is for nerds and lets face it people don't want to really be nerds, especially girls. But things are changing with all those campaigns going on with how people need to learn how to code or use a computer. Things will change but these things they take time.(butchered gaben quote)
 
im not saying legal = ok, at all

im saying the topic at hand is how apparently "disgusting" it is that Mojan hired these girls and suddenly the OP goes into a completely misguided (hur) tanget about the concept of women in society and apparently him deciding what job they should have and what job they shouldnt

porque esa promesa? :s


im hardly a white knight,and a i know really well how this world runs,i still find a bit stupid that mojang did this,on the actual climate of the development comunity,and all the talk about women on this medium you got and pay scorts on you party? i know he is european (the whole thing is different there) but its still stupid
 

Village

Member
My concern is the non dancer ladies there if there were any. That has to be abit unconfortable I suppouse.

Though the more I read the less it seems like these ladies were dancers at all.
 
No, they were attractive women hired as hostesses to serve and socialize with the guests. Sort of like how a popular nightclub has attractive servers and bartenders. Apparently a few people feel it was sexist and have now started to spam twitter.

Unlike the IGDA which represent an advocacy group and collect dues, this was a private party by a studio.
Ohhhhh that makes sense, seemed like a strange thing for them to do!
 

Salsa

Member
I don't think you realize how sexist you are being right now with this attitude.

it really is mindblowing to see these kinds of opinions where people are unwillingly being sexist by trying to express what they consider to be sexist

it's just fucking weird. It's like a completely wrong grasp of the subject.

im hardly a white knight,and a i know really well how this world runs,i still find a bit stupid that mojang did this,on the actual climate on the development comunity,and all the talk about women on this medium you got and pay scorts on you party? i know he is european (the whole thing is different there) but its still stupid

that's totally fine. Im simply debating the argument OP is giving.
 
First of all bad analogy because everyone of course handles stuff differently with family members.

Second there is a difference between strippers to prostitutes and then to women who go to parties to break the ice and get paid for it.

Third I have a female friend who does the latter, no problem with it, she is happy with it so what?

It is quick money earned, she can use it pretty well for studying.


Advice for the 'misguided' dude, who says they don't have another job or study and use rhe money for it?

people whose job is to get paid for sex and are totally fine with it are a minority
so selling your body is just "quick money earned", i think that's a really fucked up way of thinking
 
Look, the reality is this line of work isn't going to help your last 30's/early 40's. Then what are these people supposed to do with their lives? Just marry a rich man and perpetuate another stereotype about women? We should be helping women get better jobs and have better lives.

So do you spend your days at strip clubs handing out flyers that say "You can do better!"?
 

Emerson

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Welp, here goes:

This way of making money is not intellectually stimulating for a person. These women could be getting a degree/making a real career out of their lives; instead they have given in to society's vision of them in order to pay the bills. It makes that person come off as slutty and stupid, and that something as artificial as money can pay for her attention. It perpetuates stereotypes about an entire gender of people that have historically been mistreated by men. It makes women who aren't there to make money feel uncomfortable, and creates a hostile environment towards women in the games/tech industry. I'm against the notion of people being paid for their sexual attractiveness, yes.

Your posts are, hilariously, the most sexist ones in this thread. Many women who choose that profession would disagree vehemently with your assessment of it, and your attitude towards the women is insanely paternal and condescending.
 

duckroll

Member
im hardly a white knight,and a i know really well how this world runs,i still find a bit stupid that mojang did this,on the actual climate on the development comunity,and all the talk about women on this medium you got and pay scorts on you party? i know he is european (the whole thing is different there) but its still stupid

Sure I think there can be a lot of discussion about whether this was the best way to go about it, the timing involved (especially with the other scandal! lol!), and how the game development community is perceived. I don't feel we have enough context and details to really say anything about it right now though.

At the same time, I have no idea why the OP is expressing some of the comments he did, like there should be some sort of crusade to remove these jobs from existence and to help women get better jobs. There might not be full gender equality in society yet, but those comments are fucking lol-worthy. :)
 

Madness

Member

Holy shit, all you people up in arms. Look at the fucking party. It's no different than any other nightclub or dance party. This isn't an advocacy group that collects member dues. This was a private party thrown by Mojang. No different than in any other industry, ie. Music, Film etc.

Have you folks never been to a large dance party before? It's even more hectic than I thought. Of course they are going to hire attractive bartenders, servers and hostesses to socialize. No different than if you went to a club downtown.
 

Superflat

Member
im kinda surprised that so many people are ok with that.

so if your sister or mom told you she was a stripper or an escort (i think it's just another word for prostitute) you wouldnt have any problems with it, you'd be glad they finally found a line of work that suits their tastes, right ?

people whose job is to get paid for sex and are totally fine with it are a minority
so selling your body is just "quick money earned", i think that's a really fucked up way of thinking

Not even close to talking about the same thing.
 

Celine

Member
I don't think the whining is out of white knighting for the women being paid to be there. I'm sure they had a good time and love that work.

I think it's more about industry women attending these parties, and how it feels for them when as a minority, they see other women hired in as decorative baubles to provide eye candy for the men.

I think people are a bit more sensitive about this stuff now given the debates going on about it.
Wait what?
I thought women were only helpful as 3DS carrier

 
Holy shit, all you people up in arms. Look at the fucking party. It's no different than any other nightclub or dance party. This isn't an advocacy group that collects member dues. This was a private party thrown by Mojang. No different than in any other industry, ie. Music, Film etc.

Have you folks never been to a large dance party before? It's even more hectic than I thought. Of course they are going to hire attractive bartenders, servers and hostesses to socialize. No different than if you went to a club downtown.
The problem in this thread is that people who don't move in those circles think its some outlandish nefarious practice, and being a gaming forum it tends to attract people who don't see this kind of thing often if at all.

These women know they're being hired as eye candy. They're cool with it.
 

MNC

Member
what?

it's a private party by a company. It's people hiring women who do this thing for a living, and paying them, for what they do and know how to do

they are working, the women are getting paid for what they decided to do and the people at the party are getting the other end of the service, as it happens in any other context

why is it suddenly just wrong in videogames?

were these booth babes or just regular girls that were being paid? I can't make that out from the tweets
 

Antagon

Member
Stop acting like it's some VG specific thing. I once crashed a party that a bank was throwing with a few friends and they had hookers walking around. Acting like a celebrity.

Personally I think it's stupid, but it's par for the course.
 

Astery

Member
Is this thread going to discuss about what should society be like? This is going deep.

Also, every larger parties have high chances of this stuff happening, not just this industry.
 

one_kill

Member
The people complaining are likely to be people who aren't used to that kind of setting.

"Why are women here? I don't think these women play Minecraft..."
"Maybe Notch paid them to be here so it wouldn't be mostly males?"
"Yeah... I think we should tweet about this! Wait, what stance should I take: good or bad?"
"Go with bad since you'll get more attention"
"Wait til NeoGAF sees this!"
"Wait til Kotaku sees NeoGaf!"
 
They were the entertainment. Last year at Pax Prime I went to the Dishonored mansion party, open bar and lots of alcohol. They had women in maid outfits and men in butler outfits for entertainment.

While these women are not dancing, they're there to entertain the guests. If you chose your profession as a go-go dancer or an actor then you're gonna look for jobs within those professions. These women found a gig and one that paid well so how can you blame someone for providing these people with a job they already wanted?

You don't know what these women want and they were not forced to do anything (that we know of) so I don't see what the problem is here.
 
Is this thread going to discuss about what should society be like? This is going deep.

Also, every larger parties have high chances of this stuff happening, not just this industry.
OP is presumably a male who wants to tell women how to run their lives in the name of equality.

OP's username is also quite fitting in regards to this thread that he made.
 

Joni

Member
A woman's life shouldn't have to be about "getting by", it should be about having a DECENT good-paying and satisfying job. Most if not all of the men at that party have jobs like that. I am helping to spread awareness of this mistreatment of a gender by a company of developers that a lot of people hold dear; surely I'm not a white knight, I'm just saying.
Have you asked those women what they want to do? Maybe they actually like doing stuff like this to make a few extra bucks.
 

IrishNinja

Member
This way of making money is not intellectually stimulating for a person. These women could be getting a degree/making a real career out of their lives; instead they have given in to society's vision of them in order to pay the bills. It makes that person come off as slutty and stupid, and that something as artificial as money can pay for her attention. It perpetuates stereotypes about an entire gender of people that have historically been mistreated by men. It makes women who aren't there to make money feel uncomfortable, and creates a hostile environment towards women in the games/tech industry. I'm against the notion of people being paid for their sexual attractiveness, yes.

How does it being "the norm" make it okay? Are you people not fucking human beings?

A woman's life shouldn't have to be about "getting by", it should be about having a DECENT good-paying and satisfying job. Most if not all of the men at that party have jobs like that. I am helping to spread awareness of this mistreatment of a gender by a company of developers that a lot of people hold dear; surely I'm not a white knight, I'm just saying.

Look, the reality is this line of work isn't going to help your last 30's/early 40's. Then what are these people supposed to do with their lives? Just marry a rich man and perpetuate another stereotype about women? We should be helping women get better jobs and have better lives.


ahahahahaha are you for real?

some dated-ass 2nd wave feminism up in here, let's tell these women what they can and cant do for a living, based on social perceptions and intellectual stimulation, oh god i cant even say that in my head without laughing

miguided is right - this isn't white knighting, he's sunbro status
 
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