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I'm gonna get these out of the way
This isn't productive. You might have some sort of point to make if you were replying to somebody in this thread evincing gender bias, but I'm not seeing anybody like that.
I'm gonna get these out of the way
Yeah, there's a lot of the theory surrounding it that's really good - how people dismiss it/don't understand it/contribute to an environment that enables it. There are just a lot of problematic beliefs about who the rapists actually are (in both the uninformed public's eye, and among activists) as the research pointing to serial predators only came up within the past decade.I wouldn't say it's the same kind of rape culture that is typically discussed in society, but it is a type of rape culture. Lots of instances of "you liked it, though, right?" and even saying "men can't be raped" is a twisted sort of normalization.
I was starting to hallucinate that people were coming to get me. I barricaded myself in my room in the barracks because I heard a key in the lock and thought they were coming in. It was my roommate, but I was screaming, "Don't hurt me!" They took me to the hospital, and that's where I finally told the psychiatrist what had happened. It was a huge mistake. I was put into a mental ward out of One Flew over the Cuckoo's Nest. The doctor would say, "You enjoyed it, didn't you? Come on, tell me the truth."
WOWWhat the fuck.
What the fuck.
He basically wrote a post saying that men and women should realize they're in this together, and men are the perpetrators in both situations. You're... kind of a dick.
I also hope that the fact that men also get raped can create some sympathy towards female rape victims, and that it can shed a light that the so called "rape culture" is a real thing. Not considering the military or prisons, women are still by far and large the majority of victims, and a lot of them face the same problems those men from the editorial faced: not being in a position to report, feeling pressured not to tell anyone, feeling ashamed, fear of not being taken seriously, fear of stigmatization.
I also hope that the fact that women also get raped can create some sympathy towards male rape victims, and that it can shed a light that the so called "rape culture" is a real thing. When you add- n the military or prisons, men are still by far and large the majority of victims, and a lot of them face the same problems those women from the editorial faced: not being in a position to report, feeling pressured not to tell anyone, feeling ashamed, fear of not being taken seriously, fear of stigmatization.
This just reinforces my opinion that we need to take investigating and prosecuting sexual assault cases out of the hands of the military.
It's not like the civilian handling of the issue of male rape is all that much better.
The entire issue of male rape is a sad state of affairs.
If they can do that to their own "comrades". I can't even imagine what they'd do to non-combatants in a war zone.
This is Defibitely a failiure from the administration.
BRIAN LEWIS
NAVY, 19972001
No commanding officer wants to have to pick up the phone to his or her boss and say, "I've had a sexual assault aboard my command."
THOMSON
That's basically admitting that you can't control your men.
It's not like the civilian handling of the issue of male rape is all that much better.
The entire issue of male rape is a sad state of affairs.
Here's the problem right there. Right now the commanding office is clearly interested in sweeping this under the carpet so as not to damage his career.
The only way to tackle this is to make it a career-ender not to act on sexual abuse allegations.
Fair point. Still taking it out of the hands of people who have motivation to sweep it under the rug is at least a start.
Sick beyond words. Everyone who commits and enables these atrocities needs to be thrown in prison. Don't forget the disgusting pigs in the medical profession who are so morally compromised as to mentally torture rape victims. I can barely imagine the depravity of these people. Horrific.
It's troubling to think how deeply this culture of sex abuse is embedded in ponderous institutions like the US military, where everyone but rape victims seems to have incentive to sweep these crimes under the rug. The problem seems flat out unsolvable, except by some massive cultural shift or an improbable weak point somewhere in the awful cycle of social influence, abuse, and suppression. The scale of this issue just about drives me to despair.But how far does this problem go?
I've hard that in New Delhi, women have to take a separate subway train because rape and sexual assault are such a big problem over there? In Japan I heard they have some exclusive trains for women as well because sexual assault (taking snaps of womens privates) is also a massive problem.
In these countries with massive populations, to create such massive infrastructures to facilitate against these things I wonder if the term "every man is a potential rapist" has more clause than I personally used to think.
I just can't wrap my head around it. Lack of education, massive amounts of build up testosterone. And this seems to be related to so many fields from psychology to sociology, to etnology and demography, to really fnd the clinical sauce of all this, across the cultures.
Earlier I said we needed doctors with backbone but that's because I didn't have the fortitude to read all of those excerpts. Jesus. We need doctors who aren't dickheads as well.What the fuck.
What the fuck.
Here's the problem right there. Right now the commanding office is clearly interested in sweeping this under the carpet so as not to damage his career.
The only way to tackle this is to make it a career-ender not to act on sexual abuse allegations.
i can't read that article, trigger danger.. but i faced the same things.
my mother said "oh, that was so long ago, it should not be problem to see him every christmas"
or when my female neighbor (55 year old woman.) molested me "women do not molest, she was just joking around"
yeah. of course.
i can't read that article, trigger danger.. but i faced the same things.
my mother said "oh, that was so long ago, it should not be problem to see him every christmas"
or when my female neighbor (55 year old woman.) molested me "women do not molest, she was just joking around"
yeah. of course.
Traumatising.Kole Welsh Army, 2002–07
I had actually let the assault go, because I didn't want it to interfere with my career. I wanted to be an officer, and I just said, "Bad experience, won't let that happen again." But there was some residual damage. A month and a half later, I was brought into a room with about nine officers and told, "You've tested positive [for HIV]." I was removed from the military and signed out within a day. It was a complete shock.
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Just read this, feel like crying. Thanks for bringing this up, wouldn't have known.
Traumatising.
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Nope. It's specific and informative.disappointing statistics
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