if anyone thinks that they can play Destiny 2 solo, you are wrong, so wrong
Funny, looking at my stats from D1, most of my time in Destiny was patrols, story, and PVP - almost all of which was done solo. So, hmmmm... and Destiny 2 is adding more to patrols and story modes? PVP might be less solo friendly this time around with the 4v4 change though.
if you don't have anyone to play with, and think the community will help you, you are also wrong, especially in Raids
Yeah, uh... about that. When my original vanilla clan fell apart, Destiny LFG and the "community" helped, a lot. I didn't even call on Destiny GAF but there were capped threads here regularly for anyone looking for help. And now Destiny 2 is adding guided games mode and in game clan stuff to make in game help easier.
but luckily there is an LFG, which really helps a lot to find players, even though sometimes they will have some annoying requirements like " you must have a certain exotic weapon to play with us"
Did you quit playing before year 2? Because this sure sounds like you did. Yeah, there was a period of time where Destiny LFG was pretty shitty about people having Gjallarhorn. But that went away in year 2. It could have come back with Touch of Malice but didn't. Even though I had a new clan by King's Fall, on Destiny LFG and the Crossroads app, I rarely saw people demanding people have Touch of Malice for future King's Fall raids or Outbreak Prime for Wrath of the Machine. Bungie learned from their mistake with Gjallarhorn and adjusted accordingly. As did the community at large.
if you love to play solo and don't want to play with a group, Destiny is not for you
Welp, sorry. My clan blew up about 8 months ago so I'm going into Destiny 2 likely playing solo most of the time. And I'll have tons of fun. Just as I had tons of fun playing WoW solo after getting tired of my hardcore raiding days. I'll eventually find a new clan and maybe even participate in DGAF this time around. Destiny is very much "for" me.
Destiny community is probably one of the worst communities i have ever dealt with
Guessing you didn't interact with it much beyond the first few months of the original game. And honestly, worst community? Yep, there's some shitty toxic people in the Destiny community but nowhere near as many as other online games. Destiny's online community is positively TAME compared to most long-running MMO communities.