Random Painted HIghway
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I really shouldn't have posted this. I feel like I'm getting a lot of negative reinforcement here, when I expected everyone to be calling me out on being insecure. I don't blame you guys - you're calling it as you see it - but maybe it just takes actually knowing my wife to realize how remote the possibility of her cheating on me really is. Like, regardless of the state of our relationship (we're great, besides this), she respects herself too much to be the kind of person that would cheat on her partner. I feel strongly about that.
Yes. We're both each other's first long-term partner and we've been together since high school.
THe flip side to that is that even if you don't have to worry about her, you never know what the guy is thinking particularly if you don't know him. He may be biding his time for an argument or he could eventually slip something in her drink. That may be overboard, but really, what is a single guy thinking in This situation-lady hanging out and drinking at my house, her husband isn't involved enough to come over or interven-he could see her as a target.