It happened naturally for me, as I kept learning things I just eventually rejected the inaccurate magical explanations for rational scientific ones, and the reasons I had for believing in religion sort of faded away. I often found myself thinking about the paradoxes in the bible and the concept of God in general, and many actions by the church (recent and not so much) further fueled my decision to dislike being associated to catholicism in general. I read about semiotics, astronomy, biology, history, logic and it all clicked without the need for belief in any form of paranormal phenomenon; I realized that if I could easily and rationally reject the existence of ghosts, OoBEs, other religions and other paranormal phenomena I was just fooling myself if I kept thinking everything about the religion that was chosen for me was right.
Also, I like to think that it would require a pretty stupid God to create a race in his image, with a brain practically designed for rationality, pattern matching and logical deduction and then pretend they have to believe and act according to a set of often paradoxical and contradictory magical facts and rules that more than once have conveniently acted in favor only of those in power in order for them to not go to hell. Many people around me seem to think God is a merciful force and full of love, but I really am convinced they haven't read the bible thru. The fact that he will sent me to hell for using rational deduction and denying it's existence through logic is enough proof for me that I wouldn't like that kind of God existing at all. A God that punishes suicide, even though it's known to be cause by mental illness? one that punishes homosexuals? masturbation? wearing fancy clothes, tattoos? Everyone is condemned anyway! No thanks.
Final edit: It must have something to do with how people here were raised, but my family is very catholic, and I was "one of them" for most of my life, having only recently confronted myself about it. It's been a gradual process, and it probably started no more than 6 years ago. Right now I'm 21. Also, because of that only my parents and my brother know.
Also, I like to think that it would require a pretty stupid God to create a race in his image, with a brain practically designed for rationality, pattern matching and logical deduction and then pretend they have to believe and act according to a set of often paradoxical and contradictory magical facts and rules that more than once have conveniently acted in favor only of those in power in order for them to not go to hell. Many people around me seem to think God is a merciful force and full of love, but I really am convinced they haven't read the bible thru. The fact that he will sent me to hell for using rational deduction and denying it's existence through logic is enough proof for me that I wouldn't like that kind of God existing at all. A God that punishes suicide, even though it's known to be cause by mental illness? one that punishes homosexuals? masturbation? wearing fancy clothes, tattoos? Everyone is condemned anyway! No thanks.
Final edit: It must have something to do with how people here were raised, but my family is very catholic, and I was "one of them" for most of my life, having only recently confronted myself about it. It's been a gradual process, and it probably started no more than 6 years ago. Right now I'm 21. Also, because of that only my parents and my brother know.