Wow, what a bunch of D's in the comments here. I think it's a good conversation point and there is value in both sides.
DS3 is the first Souls game I got really into and finished. But it took some time.
I really don't like doing stuff over and over again so it turned me off at first until it kinda clicked.
After that the game became less difficult and I started to enjoy the difficulty and challenge.
The difficulty made it into a project and taking that away would detract a lot from the experience.
But on the other hand:
Imagine if you're only allowed to see Akira or some other foreign classic in it's native language. No subtitles or dubs (easymode).
"Lol noob, just git gud in Japanese. OP is a crybaby because he's not willing to put in months of work to learn a new language."
Or imagine Guitar Hero, but you have to start from Expert mode. You can't learn or just casually enjoy yourself with the game and music on Easy mode.
I loved DS3 but watched DS1 and DS2 playthroughs because I didn't want to battle through the jank and fully relearn how to play the game again.
There is so much cool environments and lore to discover, but some people can't experience that and that's a shame.
I would be happy and understand both decisions.