Cow Mengde
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Look out, we got some internet nice guys over here lol
I wonder if OP wears a fedora?
Look out, we got some internet nice guys over here lol
Look out, we got some internet nice guys over here lol
Look out, we got some internet nice guys over here lol
Did she call??
I'm glad I read this thread tonight.
I'm in a somewhat similar situation, though not to the same degree as this story.
Incredibly therapeutic to read the responses.
I feel bad for the female in this situation even if she can be perceived to be egging op on a bit. My wife had a guy like that while we were dating and it was just pitiful, wrote her a long letter and emails even, just cringeworthy. Just cause a female will smile and laugh at your jokes and may meet for a random lunch with you doesn't mean that you have or will have a shot. Very unfair to the female to be on guard against creepers disguised as friends, one reason I'm glad I'm male as stupid as that sounds.
You know what to do now, right?
Thank youThis is really the best advice in the entire thread. All bullshit aside.
Good man. The road to recovery is not easy but you can do it. And if you ever find yourself feeling wayward, post and we all will be there to smack some sense into you. Oh and if you need any help on your fb settings you can message me, I'll help you out. Stay strong buddy!She's been unfollowed on facebook after figuring it out how to do it, but to be honest I really haven't used fb or insta lately. Just twitter to vent on occasion.
I figure if I keep telling myself she's the worst thing for me, eventually I have to believe it. Thanks, man. Just gotta find a hobby outside of gaming.
Ask? Kiss her? Tell her "this bullshit is driving me insane, tell me what you want or go away"? Anything besides doing nothing.How could he have known what her feelings were with those physical acts?
Ask? Kiss her? Tell her "this bullshit is driving me insane, tell me what you want or go away"? Anything besides doing nothing.
A pang in my stomach let me wish I was the one who got to smack her on the ass.
I know what you wish, but don't do it. Just move on. She clearly has.But I wish I could at least say hi.
You shouldn't have promised you'd stay anything after this. You're 22 and in school where there's a huge pool of attractive, fun and intelligent women. Chances are there's someone out there who's just as interesting, if not more so, who's genuinely into you (because she isn't and, chances are, won't be in the future).
You'll be alright, and so will she.
I know what you wish, but don't do it. Just move on. She clearly has.
But I wish I could at least say hi.
She isn't the one who was in a friendship with someone she had no desire to be a friend to. I don't even know where you start to blame her for this situation.
Jesus.
The advice and support is all and truly welcomed, guys. I know it's just another sob story of being friendzoned (without actually labelling it as such), but for all the "cut her off completely", I still feel that will never happen, even if I wanted it to.
When you are friends with a girl only because you want to get in her pants, you earn your misery.
What kills me the most is at the end you say you owe her so much. What the hell do you owe her? What the hell does she owe you? Nothing, that's what.
When you are friends with a girl only because you want to get in her pants, you earn your misery.