Its not really that ridiculous. Some people may notice the framerate drops more than you do. People have different sensitivity to these sorts of things. And equally, people can have different tolerances for it.Ya, it's a bit ridiculous to me. The framerate drops are nearly imperceptible, but the resolution difference will be staring you in the face almost 100% of the time that you're playing.
Console wars will be console wars.
Same goes with resolution. And on top of that, if you're sitting from a certain distance away(depends on the size of your screen and your own sensitivity), the difference in resolution may be negligible or even imperceptible.
I think this is what a lot of people struggle with - understanding that we all have different sensitivities, tolerances, preferences and even viewing conditions.