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[SquiddyCracker]

So much of GAF seems so insecure. Dancing is just dancing. If you don't think you can hold onto a woman after she's danced with another dude, you don't deserve her.

Also "cuckhold" is a really ugly word. It seems designed to be insulting. It's funny that there isn't a similar word for women who are okay with their man banging other girls.

Dancing isn't dancing isn't dancing.
It really is up to each and everyone of us to define what kind of dance we find acceptable to dance with others outside of ones relationship, and find a partner that agrees with that. If you think that grinding is an acceptable part of a dance with ones non-partner, than that is your prerogative.

I do agree with you though on the word "cuckold", when you put it like that it does seem pretty sexist and enforces a bunch of antiquated ideals regarding what a man should and shouldn't do (and in extension, what a woman can do).

 

[Alligatorjandro]

Let her watch you dance with other men.

 

[rvy]

so we go out clubbing.
she dances with other dudes. and she grinds on them like a virgin on a blowup doll.
the thing is i enjoy watching other dudes grinding on her.
and sometimes, 2 or 3 dudes dancing with her.
is this ok?

So, there's no problem then.

 

[leadbelly]

Let her watch you dance with other men.

Let her watch you dance with a man dressed like a woman pretending to be a man.

 

[jaypah]

Throw your hands in the air. And wave them like you just don't care. Because apparently you don't.

lmao, thanks Wolf I needed that.

OP: you have to take it to the next level. You know. YOU KNOW. Nah, you know!

 

[Mr. B Natural]

I just learned I'm getting too old for these type of threads...despite being younger than the OP.

 

[Az]

This thread went from dancing to swallowing in record time.

Thanks, NeoGAF.

I used to date a girl that could tell if you ate healthy from your cum. That's a pro.

 

[Poindexter]

Man, so many uptight people on GAF. If it turns you on then just explore it. Start by making it dirty talk in bed and see how it goes from there

 

[Mangotron]

Let her watch you dance with a man dressed like a woman pretending to be a man.

 

[bob page]

My gf used to dance with other guys at the club too (when we first started dating) and I definitely wasn't ok with it.

I talked to her about it and she hasn't done it since (but we haven't been clubbing since we've grown closer- not really a "couples thing"). If she respects you, she'll have no problem stopping.

 

[JzeroT1437]

Dear GAF, I doubt my girlfriend's love for me while hanging out with 280 strangers in the dark and drinking overpriced, bottom shelf vodka. Sometimes she butt-grinds on other men, but I thought clubbing was supposed to be a personal, intimate experience. What's wrong?

 

[McLovin]

My friends girlfriend was dancing with me once. I felt weird since he was right there. I kept trying to back off but she kept pulling me back. Lol it was so awkward :/

 

[edornob]

WOULD

 

[Wilbur]

So who here hasn't eaten semen?

 

[marrec]

Here are my two cents:


I've danced with many girls who have had boyfriends that would just stand there and watch. . . I also had sex with these girls on the same night and their boyfriends would never know.


Hope that helps!

Did you ever find that one girl you were creepin' on in that St. Pattys Day video?

So who here hasn't eaten semen?

What if you're not sure?

 

[Hieberrr]

So who here hasn't eaten semen?

Define "semen"

 

[DY_nasty]

I can't help but feel partially responsible for this.

 

[marrec]

I can't help but feel partially responsible for this.

DY, stop grinding on dudes GFs man. You're making them feel homoerotic feelings.

 

[ClovingWestbrook]

I have to point out that this is a 30 year old dating an 18 year old. That is quite odd. I can't imagine the father being too happy to learn that when his baby girl was only 4 years old, Kado was 16.

 

[andycapps]

So who here hasn't eaten semen?

 

[levious]

i gurgled.

.

 

[José Mourinho]

 

[dojokun]

My friends girlfriend was dancing with me once. I felt weird since he was right there. I kept trying to back off but she kept pulling me back. Lol it was so awkward :/

Go on.

 

[CherryWoodFuton]

I have to point out that this is a 30 year old dating an 18 year old. That is quite odd. I can't imagine the father being too happy to learn that when his baby girl was only 4 years old, Kado was 16.

Kado you dirty old man you. Btw did someone already posted that we need pics???

 

[BladeoftheImmortal]

What? I just swallow it quickly and move on to other stuff. Do you get up and go the bathroom? I don't get spitting.

I enjoy reading your posts.


Has any other dude tried their own or is that just me?

 

[tc farks]

I enjoy reading your posts.


Has any other dude tried their own or is that just me?

No. No. No. No.

 

[Rhaegar]

Has any other dude tried their own or is that just me?

Yeah, no. Nope. Not even a little.

 

[Apoc87]

Youre both perfect for each other

 

[bud]

What? I just swallow it quickly and move on to other stuff. Do you get up and go the bathroom? I don't get spitting.

I bet my cum tastes so good after eating a bunch of pepperoni.

jesus christ.

 

[Atramental]

ugh...

the club scene is so not me.

 

[iamvin22]

You answered your own question OP

 

[CherryWoodFuton]

I bet my cum tastes so good after eating a bunch of pineapples.

Fixed. It's scientifically proven.

 

[this guy]

jesus christ.

Nah bro, I doubt his cum tastes much better after drinking all that wine.

 

[Mitama]

That's not cool to me. Actual dancing? Sure that's fine, but rubbing your ass against some dudes crotch in front of me? Not cool. My girl would not appreciate me getting grinded on by some other woman either and that's perfectly understandable.

I fully agree. Man, I'd be hella pissed at my gf if she'd pull that shit. I think it's very slutty when you have a partner.

 

[DY_nasty]

I don't see the point in fucking with under-20 ppl anymore.

Other than over the top enthusiasm and drama, they don't bring much to the table.

 

[samus i am]

OP acts like he hasn't had much experience with women.

 

[ClovingWestbrook]

I don't see the point in fucking with under-20 ppl anymore.

Other than over the top enthusiasm and drama, they don't bring much to the table.

Agreed man. Agreed. Older women are where it is at. If you're 18, early to mid 30s. If you're in your 20s, older 30s, early 40s.

 

[Head of Vengarl]

I am so bewildered by this thread.

So much of GAF seems so insecure. Dancing is just dancing. If you don't think you can hold onto a woman after she's danced with another dude, you don't deserve her.

Dancing is not just dancing. At least not since grinding became the dance of choice in clubs.

It may be different for some people, I don't know. If the OP's gf sees absolutely no sexual aspect in grinding, then I guess it isn't as big of a deal. Still, this whole situation strikes me as weird though.

 

[DY_nasty]

Some people are like that...

That's why I don't dance. I boogie.

 

[Seep]

OP is under the thumb to a teenage girl. Haha, I feel sorry for you bro, man the fuck up and sort this shit out.

 

[Not a Jellyfish]

but i dont think its healthy to like it, imo.

Well if that is your opinion then the problem is you, not her...

With that being the case there is not much to tell ya man, if you don't like your own behavior then change it.

 

[Seep]

BTW cinnamon and tomato juice are nibbles to sweeten your dribbles. Y'all can thank me later.

 

[ThisWreckage]

I have to point out that this is a 30 year old dating an 18 year old. That is quite odd. I can't imagine the father being too happy to learn that when his baby girl was only 4 years old, Kado was 16.

Who cares what the father thinks? I'm almost 30 and I would date an 18 year old, but I'd have reservations.

If people are dating they should stay the fuck away from clubs. That's the big issue here. People aren't happy unless they're inviting temptation into their house.

 

[ClovingWestbrook]

Who cares what the father thinks? I'm almost 30 and I would date an 18 year old, but I'd have reservations.

That's just creepy. I too am a father of a daughter and if she brought home a 30 year old at 18 I'd have deep reservations.

 

[akira28]

I have to point out that this is a 30 year old dating an 18 year old. That is quite odd. I can't imagine the father being too happy to learn that when his baby girl was only 4 years old, Kado was 16.

That changes literally every damn thang. Shit dude. Hell yeah I wanna see you bang some dudes. And some other girls too. And I have a snake. And a talking parrot. Let me get my camera.

 

[DY_nasty]

I'm not sure Sharp is gonna be cool with kado putting all this out in the open though...

 

[Mengy]

Dancing is not just dancing. At least not since grinding became the dance of choice in clubs. My gf and I get very horny from grinding on each other in the club, and almost always end up having sex when we get home. That's why I'd be pissed if I saw her grinding on another guy -- because I strongly associate dancing with sex.

It may be different for some people, I don't know. If the OP's gf sees absolutely no sexual aspect in grinding, then I guess it isn't as big of a deal. Still, this whole situation strikes me as weird though.

Of course she sees it as sexual. Dancing / grinding is simply a vertical expression of horizontal desire. This 18yo has even asked the OP, during sex with him, about her fucking other guys while he watches. So yes she is very much thinking about it.

OP, if it was me in your shoes, I would not put up with it. But then I'm not into meaningless relationships either. I prefer long term relationships with girlfriends who will treat me with the respect and trust I show them. And grinding on strange guys in front of me at clubs is not respectful. Either she would stop doing that or I would walk away, no middle ground.

But you aren't me, so you have to decide for yourself whether or not it's what you want. Because you've got a young spitfire on your hands and she wants to experiment and live a little, sowing some wild oats so to speak. Are you okay with that? If yes, then have fun and prepare for a "swinging" good time, knowing that she desires more than just you. If you aren't okay with that, then either confront her on it face to face or walk away. Just be realistic on where this is headed.

 

[Jason's Ultimatum]

It's a Cole world out there.

 

[ThisWreckage]

That's just creepy. I too am a father of a daughter and if she brought home a 30 year old at 18 I'd have deep reservations.

It's not creepy at all. You're look at biology at play. Men are attracted to younger women for many reasons.

 

[BladeoftheImmortal]

Yeah, no. Nope. Not even a little.

You aren't curious at all?