Corndogs are quite tasty.
What about tall people? ;_;
Ah, I know how that feels. "Large shirts are only for fat people!"
What about tall people? ;_;
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spacerumsfield
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Toothism, heightism, lookism, antisemitism, racism, and much else besides, I'm sure -- if we allow his reign of terror to continue.
I hereby request an ultimatum ban on LostVoyager: he can post a picture of himself or suffer the consequences.
I hereby request an ultimatum ban on LostVoyager: he can post a picture of himself or suffer the consequences.
Perhaps, though I don't see how a short applicant could complain to some tribunal that they feel that subconscious biases were the reason they weren't hired. It just seems comically impossible to prove.
(also hi ben)
Ken Masters
Banned
6ft 4inches it the perfect height because it's the perfect balance of being taller then then most but not freakishly tall (6ft 5in+)
if you're only 6ft 0-3inch, a tall girl with heels will be as tall or taller then you, big no no
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if you're only 6ft 0-3inch, a tall girl with heels will be as tall or taller then you, big no no
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I am 6'7" and I don't think I am freakishly tall
It is funny where I work, nearly all of my direct co workers are over 6 foot tall.
As you grow up you adjust to slowly being more concious of making sure not to bump your head on things like low lights, archways, doorways etc.
Schweinehund
Member
5'11"
Its good to be above average but not freakish tall.
Its good to be above average but not freakish tall.
flippymittens
Banned
I am not saying woe is me, I stated a explanation for why my thread was being attacked (does not necessarily make it right or wrong but it was not whining).
You are free to make a topic regarding buildism/weightism/etc. or whatever but I can not make any threads based on discrimination anymore apparently.
So those forms of discrimination should not be allowed? Also I did not make a "toothism" thread but a rebuttal of a stereotype thread that did not work out... Further more none of these threads are about me, so discussing me or insulting me in them is pointless in my view.
Yeah it is a pretty unspoken form of discrimination alongside lookism.
Deathmistress
Member
I'm 5'7" and I wish I was back to 5'2". Everything fit better, most men are that much taller and bigger than you, etc. I'm lanky with long legs too so finding pants of any kind is a nightmare. Besides, I think short women are hotter in general. I am a heightist, I apologize
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Pure threadism imo.
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Hmm, Has MBA in Healthcare Management, works in finance in healthcare, teaches healthcare online, six feet even.
I would just love you to try that to all of 5'4" of me. I mean, really? You would actually say this to a short guy at the gym? Why in the hell would you do that? Jealous that we can outlift your ass?
I'm pretty sure he was agreeing with you.
And I felt embarrassed for the guy who said he would mock someone at the gym because of their height. I can understand acting that way when you're twelve, but an adult?
Look guys,
I'm 47 years old. I knew at a very early age, probably around the age of 5 that I was going to be of short stature. I mean, some of you guys complaining that you are 5'9"? Damn, I'd kill to be 5'7". It used to bug me but I guess as I am older now I have come to accept it. And I truly believe if you don't make an issue about it (like forming a Napoleonic complex) very few people will have an issue with it either.
I do body build and have for years. Its incredible for self confidence and helps to level the playing field a bit with the taller guys. My friends still bring up my height in a joking manner and I joke back with them. But if some random guy at the gym who I didn't know came up to me and started ragging on my height. Hell yes, I would have a problem with that.
I'm 47 years old. I knew at a very early age, probably around the age of 5 that I was going to be of short stature. I mean, some of you guys complaining that you are 5'9"? Damn, I'd kill to be 5'7". It used to bug me but I guess as I am older now I have come to accept it. And I truly believe if you don't make an issue about it (like forming a Napoleonic complex) very few people will have an issue with it either.
I do body build and have for years. Its incredible for self confidence and helps to level the playing field a bit with the taller guys. My friends still bring up my height in a joking manner and I joke back with them. But if some random guy at the gym who I didn't know came up to me and started ragging on my height. Hell yes, I would have a problem with that.
Out of Working Order
Member
5' 8'' here.
Honestly makes me jealous to read of much shorter dudes than me pulling taller women. I love tall women, and would love to be with one.
Unfortunately women have no interest in me. Whatever your height, just be glad you're not me - I lead a miserable life, having never experienced what it's like to be with a woman, or have sex.
Can't imagine it has much to do with my height, going off previous comments in this thread.
Honestly makes me jealous to read of much shorter dudes than me pulling taller women. I love tall women, and would love to be with one.
Unfortunately women have no interest in me. Whatever your height, just be glad you're not me - I lead a miserable life, having never experienced what it's like to be with a woman, or have sex.
Can't imagine it has much to do with my height, going off previous comments in this thread.
Really its about self confidence and its obvious from this post that you struggle with it. If you have self esteem problems you will have problems attracting women even if you were 6'4".
I'm very confident. Have I always been? No, I struggled mightily in my 20's. And guess what? I struggled with women big time. My current girlfriend is 5'7". That may not seem tall but when she's in heels she's a lot taller than me. And you know what? I don't give a SHIT about it. In fact, she told me after we became a couple that she really only wanted to date guys taller than her but my height never was a problem for her. Why? I make her feel safe. Another side benefit of working out and putting on muscle.
Dice
Pokémon Parentage Conspiracy Theorist
You honestly think you're alone in that on GAF? Pay closer attention.
Out of Working Order
Member
Of course not.
Well, something's kept me single. Lack of confidence is possibly part of the reason. Maybe that combined with my height turns people off.
But then, perhaps if women actually bothered to smile or talk to me that'd help.
Possibly? It is a MAJOR reason why you are single. 5'8" is short but it's not THAT short. You are only a few inches shorter than the average guy. I honestly think your height isn't much of a reason why you aren't succeeding with the ladies. Actually do you smile and talk to them? You can't think they are going to approach you with a dour look on your face. Smile and approach THEM first. Negativity will get you nowhere.
CHEEZMO
Obsidian fan
Women dont like you because you dont like yourself and, more importantly, that fact is probably made very clear to anyone you meet.
opticalmace
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ZombieTimeMachine
Member
I think this is true. People seem to think I am quite a bit taller than I am.
I'm a little under 5'7" and even that seems to be too tall for most guys. Why do guys prefer short women? Is height on women intimidating?
I think it is the equivalent of the way some women - it has been mentioned in this thread - prefer men who are taller than them because it makes them feel more feminine. So presumably men tend to prefer to be taller because they feel more masculine that way.
I certainly like to be taller than my girlfriend, or if with a male taller than a bottom but shorter than a top.
Edit: That said, 5'7 or 8 on a girl is absolutely fine, far from too tall. I'm only 5'10.
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Transhuman
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I only have a thing for pretty girls, and they come in all different heights.
1.94m/51kg or 6'4"/112 pounds. This thread reminds me why I hate U.S. Units so much.
Dead Man follows the Height Rule, I see.
... Wait what?
I remember when I was 112 pounds (freshman year of college!) and that was rather ridiculously thin at 5'7".
Yeah he's gotta be kidding. Before I could put on weight I was 6'3 and 145 and I was reaaaally boney. Very thin, and I didn't like it.
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Transhuman
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I know man, I know. It's not immediately apparent how emaciated I am because I have a thin frame. I'd send you a picture but you don't want that in your head.
If that were true they'd be attracted to the tallest man the most, but according to a study on average heterosexual women are most attracted to men who are of medium height (5'9"- 5'11"). There's also evidence that maximum reproductive success is below the mean height for women. So it's evolutionary beneficial for women to be shorter, but not so for men.
If that were true they'd be attracted to the tallest man the most, but according to a study on average heterosexual women are most attracted to men who are of medium height (5'9"- 5'11"). There's also evidence that maximum reproductive success is below the mean height for women. So it's evolutionary beneficial for women to be shorter, but not so for men.
Not intimidating. At least, not to me. I dated several tall girls (one taller than me) in high school, but as I got older I found that I prefer short girls. I don't really know what it is. I like small things in general - maybe that has something to do with it?
Also, 5'7" isn't really "tall". I consider tall to be ~6' and up.
Omegasquash
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8/10.
megamerican
Member
It is kinda funny I was thinking about this today.
I'm 6 2 and am usually well above average when I'm out and about. But at work all the guys are like 6 +.
I'm 6 2 and am usually well above average when I'm out and about. But at work all the guys are like 6 +.
I'm sure you're not entirely serious, but that's a poor fallback. Success heals the wounds of... Well you're 5'9" so you're not really "short" per se.
Hmm. I don't get it.
I am always curious when I see guys using the "beta male" language whether they are actually a part of the PUA community or they're just making use of some of the lingo. Which are you?
flippymittens
Banned
Well I mean there are multiple studies showing it to be an issue in our society... I agree in not lingering on the issue and exclaiming woe is me constantly but should the topic just be ignored because you do not feel it has been detrimental to your quality of life?
Well that is not the end of the world, sure some people say the meaning of life is reproduction and ultimately from a evolutionary standpoint maybe but the human race will probably be extinct anyways. Just try to enjoy your life (that is what I try to do) even though we may get picked on for whatever reasons.
To your last point, I would not say your height is the sole reason for your experience but it is a contributing fact atleast according to studies... You and me are around average height and women typically prefer taller men. I am not saying we would get with women because we are tall but atleast statistically it would make us more preferable to women on average than if we were the same.
I really do not enjoy this discussion diverging into dating aspects but I understand it... To me it is hard to condemn someone for what they are/are not attracted to in regards to wanting to reproduce. However I deeply feel that discrimination based on height in fields and the income gap in regards to height is pretty bad.
This, myself and others lament about our lives.
Are these just the men that you were interested in or friends as well if you do not mind me asking? How large was the sample size. I can understand that a majority of men prefer shorter women atleast according to studies but there usually are some that do not care and a few that prefer the opposite.
Did they all mention they like shorter women or did you draw the implication on a few that might not care one way or the other if you do not mind my inquiry?
I am an Omega if we are going by that classification (not that it is a telling way to classify humans). Is there supposed to be shame in not being an "alpha" when a large part of it is probably genetic?
No shame in getting (on average) less pussy and less pay. Not to mention less of most everything else that people want more of.
I'm kidding. Doesn't matter to me, nor should it matter to you. You are who you are, be happy with that. Make the most of it. And yes, it does have a lot to do with genetics (when it comes to looks/build; Money can play into that as well in the form of plastic surgery or body modifications/enhancements.... heck even braces can play into it).
But yeah. Who gives a shit. I was just talking smack, didn't think anyone would respond or care.
But yeah. Who gives a shit. I was just talking smack, didn't think anyone would respond or care.
This tread gives me flashbacks. I personally think that if there's some kind of discrimination related to height, it is probably done at an unconscious level. I know many people who works on human resources department, and I have yet to see height as any kind of factor when employing a person other than a soldier or a fashion model.
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