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I want to die but can't do it

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Just do it already is a thought I sometimes get in my head as well, but you can make things better! Begin with a plan that will (realistically) bring you to where you want to be, and start acting on it.
 
I know it must feel really hard, but call one of those numbers. You took a step in the right direction to tell someone instead of doing it, so take another one and call.
 
No shame at all in feeling really low. But I'm 100% sure there are people out there that would be absolutely devastated if you took you're own life. If not for you, please consider them.
 
Do as other have said, call the number and speak to someone who is there for the soul purpose of listening and helping.

Help is there, it will get better.
 
Koojay said:
1-800-SUICIDE

Please call them. Don't make a permanent solution for a temporary problem.
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Things always get better and balance out in life. You never know what could be around the corner.

Everyone here cares about you. I know if I ever need help with my life I can come here and be supported.

We're here for you and always will be.

Please call.
 
You can get through this. Talk to someone and get help. You're still living and everyday is a new day to overcome your obstacles and lead the life you desire.

I've never mentioned this on GAF, but this is coming from someone in a pretty bad situation (legal, won't go into detail). But you keep on because things can turn around, just some people have to work harder for the life/success/relationships etc. they are seeking. Take a deep breath and remain focused/positive.
 
You have 60+ people responding within 40 minutes, so there are certainly people that care about you and your well-being.

It will get better and easier. I've worked very long hours for years, and understand the stress and frustration that can bring. Find little things you enjoy to relax (whether a hobby, a new show, a new album, etc...).
 
Divide and conquer your problems.

Call the hotline or someone you can rely on if you're feeling suicidal.

There's tons of solutions to problems in life that can make you happier, suicide robs you of the opportunity to be happy.
 
The first thing to realize you not alone in this. You have a community (GAF) and many resources that can help you make sense of what you are going through. If your in the area (Maryland) hit me up and let's get something to eat sometime.
 
Don't do it.

Please seek help.

It may seem hopeless but there's so much to live for. Call the suicide help line and stay strong. *sends you happy thoughts*
 
Yeah, my girlfriend is a pastry chef and it's a hellish job and sucks up a lot of her hours during the week. I imagine working as a cook isn't much different. Two jobs as a cook sounds horrible.

There are alternatives. Maybe try to find a cheaper place to live and cut down to one job. It's hard to say what type of situation your in but you need to find some free time for yourself to have a life too.

First and foremost though just seek help tonight.
 
cryptic, it does get better. Don't let despair win. You might think it's not worth it, but trust me it will be alright in the end. You are more than just a being come to world to work 2 shifts at restaurants.
 
Cryptic, are you still in Northampton, Ma? Look, we know you've been going through shit for some time, and I'm not gonna patronize you by repeating advice over and over again. I know you know that people care about you. Please Cryptic, I know you've taken many steps, but take a step back from this damage and just tell yourself, fuck that, say it out loud, say the truth out loud: I MATTER AND I CAN GET THROUGH THIS, AND THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO CARE AND THINK ABOUT ME.

I hope that holds some value to you, you hold value to us. We're here for you, we'll continue being here for you. PM any one of us, post in the thread, call one of us, just do what it takes to regain yourself, you can do it.
 
Crpytic, I may have never met you, but I care for you - we all do.

It always gets better, and there is still so much to see and do. The world has so much to offer, and as a young person, you have the opportunity to grow with the world.

Please stay safe and PM me if you ever want to talk. It helps to have someone there for you.
 
Try meetup.com to try and meet like minded people in your area. I met up with a coworker recently who was going through issues with depression. She's now meeting with a therapist weekly and using meetup.com to make friends and it seems to be working well for her. She's changed quite a bit since I last saw her and is excited about life again. I was very happy to see the change.
 
cryptic, would it be possible to leave the job that stresses you out? It made a huge difference in my life.

Either way, I care and hope you will eat your favorite meal tonight then start anew tomorrow. Life is previous, even when it doesn't feel like it.
 
I can really empathize Cryptic. Depression is a really heavy thing, it's a constant battle. Its hard for others to fully understand it. That said, at the very least, consider that you might not feel this way in two years, or six years down the line. People change, life changes YOU will change. I know it seems like a never ending fight RIGHT this second, but there is ways to make changes in your life. There is time for your life to change, and for you to find happiness. It's really hard, but try to step back and give yourself some time. Also, if you really need someone to talk to, people on GAF are totally willing to do so.
 
Hey bro, please listen to everyone's advice and know that even if we're thousands of miles apart we do care about your well being and would like to get to know you more. So don't ever feel that your life is insignificant and hold great value in your own life even through troubling times.

With that said, hello cryptic. It is a pleasure to meet you :)
 
Koojay said:
1-800-SUICIDE

Please call them. Don't make a permanent solution for a temporary problem.
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Do this. Don't hesitate to call, just pick up the phone and talk to them. Coming from someone who has attempted suicide before, it gets better.
 
What do you enjoy doing, OP? Because that's the only thing that keeps me going sometimes. When I start feeling that way, I think, "If I died now, I wouldn't be able to play Smash Bros. or see Guardians of the Galaxy!" It's not a cure, but it helps.

I wish I could offer better advice, but I still fight with depression every day.
 
I hear you, dude. I'm only still on this planet because I'm a stubborn asshole and there's people who need me. Sometimes, that's enough. Hang in there.
 
Usually don't speak up on these things, but man, don't do it. I speak as someone who is there more often than I'm comfortable admitting. It's tough and there are times when you truly feel like there's only one way out. It's not worth it. The outpouring here alone shows people care for you. Remember that and hold onto it when you feel alone. There's always someone, even if it's not readily apparent.
 
op if you need someone to talk to message me, I have skype, facebook, psn, xbl and many other sources of communication. Did you let anyone close to you know how you have been feeling?
 
Tell us what city you are close to, I'd love to see you, myself. I'd come out tonight and we could drive around and look at stuff.
 
Well now I know there is some Boston GAF out there who would come to see you and have a talk - speak up, Mass GAF! East coast Ghost has really shitty sports teams from Boston in his avatar - maybe you guys could do a meet up this weekend?
 
Yeah man,

think how this will hurt the people around you, and how even tough you may not think need you

so please dont be foolish and let us now your OK, your better than that

You still active?
 
TheAbsolution said:
Things will get better. Talk to someone in the cafe. Approach other people.
Join a club and meet other people with interests like yours.
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This is great advice.

It sounds like you're lonely and you want to meet someone. There are websites that facilitate meeting people. If you're not looking for a girlfriend, then seek people with interests like yours and make friends that way. It will enrich your life in ways you can't imagine.
 
Please call the number people have provided, cryptic. You have stuff to live for, if you don't feel like it you can find something after some searching, I guarantee it.
 
It will get better man, I've been through some rough times in my life and I can confidently tell you it will only get better don't throw away all the great experiences waiting to happen in your life!
 
OP may i suggest, that if you would like to provide where you live, so if any gaffer(s) are around you, you can get together when you can to take things of your mind.

Edit: looks like i was beaten to it, but i'm glad that i was :)
 
Tapiozona said:
From his post history he's somewhere in Northampton, MA. West of Boston.
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Hey OP if true I am from Boston man! I would say lets hang out but I am in Cali now =(. I miss it back east though. I have passed threw northhampton ma several times its a nice town not to far from Springfield MA.
 
Also a Mod should change the tread title to something like, "Boston Gaf, gaffer is in need of help" or "Northampton, Ma Gaf, gaffer is in need of help"
 
Go to meetings where people share the same interest like Cons, churches

Watch World Cup with others and discuss

Offer cooking lessons

Find a worthwhile social activity like soup kitchens (not necessarily cooking^^)

Look if there is a good movie running on cinema. Talk about it with the other moviegoers

Paint/draw in public



Never ever forget, we all feel alone. Absurd but true
 
AlexMogil said:
Well now I know there is some Boston GAF out there who would come to see you and have a talk - speak up, Mass GAF! East coast Ghost has really shitty sports teams from Boston in his avatar - maybe you guys could do a meet up this weekend?
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ayy shots fired! OP don'e let him disrespect our home town teams like that! Pats, Celts, Bosox, and Bruins for life! I would love to hang out with the guy and catch a redsox game or something but I now reside in Chico, CA outside of Sac.
 
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