LordKasual
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OP being so passionate about how ugly he is leads me to believe that he's probably average at worst and is just suffering from some powerful depression/delusion
Hate to be a downer but this is sum fairytale bullshit. The world is packed w hot bad ppl and hideous good ppl
OP chill bout bein ugly. Look at Steve Buscemi, he's ugly af and is worshipped by ppl
To add onto everything else in this thread, I think taking good care of your skin is an important thing to do as well. Use moisturizer and try out products to clear up any acne or skin imperfections. If your skin is too dry or greasy you should be trying to take care of that. Also make sure you're washing your bedding often.
Hate to be a downer but this is sum fairytale bullshit. The world is packed w hot bad ppl and hideous good ppl
OP chill bout bein ugly. Look at Steve Buscemi, he's ugly af and is worshipped by ppl
I just want to emphasize this even more +++If you dress decently, go to a gym, style your hair, and keep a good level of tidiness and and hygiene then you can fix 85% of your ugliness.
Your not supposed to take it literally. It's basically people with bad attitudes will give off a bad vibes and people with good attitudes will give off good vibes, regardless of their appearance...unless they are a sociopath and are good at masking their intentions...
Having muscles would be an uncomfortable feeling to me , I just want to be perfectly thin.
If I can't have face that matches who I am then what's the point.
I have horrible cystic acne (which is not caused by hygiene, has no cure and lasts for months at a time, leaving scarring) and have been trying to convince myself it isnt as huge a deal as I think it is but your post has just reinforced my fears.
For real tho lifting some weights might not fix the problem in your face but it will fix the problem in your head which is more important
You should go and see a dermatologist and have them recommend Accutane or Roaccutane. Side effects may be unpleasant, but it worked wonders for my cystic acne.
What were the side effects? Isnt that the stuff that made people suicidal?
I dont want to go near that stuff, Im depressed enough as it is.
I'm sorry my post wasn't meant to come across as being critically important to what makes a person attractive or not. It was more meant as an added thought because a lot of people don't think to put any extra effort into skincare.I have horrible cystic acne (which is not caused by hygiene, has no cure and lasts for months at a time, leaving scarring) and have been trying to convince myself it isnt as huge a deal as I think it is but your post has just reinforced my fears.
ITT i learned that you can't be Fat and good looking
Isnt he close to 70 now too? Not many people are dashing at that age.It's absolutely true. Having a good attitude wont make you not ugly, but it will absolutely make you more attractive.
If Steve Buscemi was a guy who behaved as ugly as he looks, then he would just be plain ugly, and might not have ever become such a good movie star.
Steve isn't even really ugly anyway. When he wanted to look clean, he cleaned up damn nice.
But most of the recent roles i can remember him in all involve him typecasted into an "ugly" character.
(And all the others here struggling with this)I look at my face in the mirror and see person that I wish wasn't me.
It just doesn't feel right at all.
I know that I probably should just get over it but that is easier said then done.
I hate this misfortune of not being able to look away and think about something else.
I never wanted to be hideous.
I grew up being ugly.
The universe does not care how ugly you are. Warm breezes carress ugly faces, sunsets shine brilliantly for unsightly gazes, and none of the stars in the night sky will mock or scorn you for your open admiration. There is so much more in the world than what others think of how you look.
Still, if people cannot see how beautiful you are, try to see it and nurture it within yourself.
There is beauty in kindness. You are in a unique position to understand your pain, so be compassionate. Empathize with sadness, celebrate for joy. Be the sort of person you wished was there for you.
There is beauty in resilience. You have persisted through a lot, even if not everyone understands. But you haven't given up, and defiance is a quality all its own. As I get older, I find that these experiences shaped who I am as a person, and wouldn't ever trade those away.
And eventually, you can look at the mirror with pride, thinking, "Yes, the person I see before me is ugly, but there is no one I admire more, and there is no one I would rather be."
The universe does not care how ugly you are. Warm breezes carress ugly faces, sunsets shine brilliantly for unsightly gazes, and none of the stars in the night sky will mock or scorn you for your open admiration. There is so much more in the world than what others think of how you look.
Still, if people cannot see how beautiful you are, try to see it and nurture it within yourself.
There is beauty in kindness. You are in a unique position to understand your pain, so be compassionate. Empathize with sadness, celebrate for joy. Be the sort of person you wished was there for you.
There is beauty in resilience. You have persisted through a lot, even if not everyone understands. But you haven't given up, and defiance is a quality all its own. As I get older, I find that these experiences shaped who I am as a person, and wouldn't ever trade those away.
And eventually, you can look at the mirror with pride, thinking, "Yes, the person I see before me is ugly, but there is no one I admire more, and there is no one I would rather be."
I look in the mirror and think I look passable. Then I see photos of myself and just think 'yikes, is this how people see me?'.
I know I'm not attractive but I just try and deal with it. Play the hand you're dealt.
Hah, I know right? I just never take selfies or vacation shots with me in them
If I do I have to mess with the angle and lighting for 30+ mins
59Isnt he close to 70 now too? Not many people are dashing at that age.
It's because most people don't have a symmetrical face and when you look at yourself in the mirror every day you get used to your flipped image instead of your actual look. It's exact same thing with your own voice, where you hear yourself differently and if you once in a while hear a recording of yourself you're shocked.
Good way to combat this is to take daily selfies.
I have horrible cystic acne (which is not caused by hygiene, has no cure and lasts for months at a time, leaving scarring) and have been trying to convince myself it isn't as huge a deal as I think it is but your post has just reinforced my fears.
lol thats interesting
daily selfies sounds like a gateway to new problems tho lol
Cystic acne can be fixed by retinols/vitamin A, which is what Accutane contains.
Daily selfies, and making an effort to like what you see, is a good thing.