Read, The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat.
Experiences aren't "just are." Our perceptions can be completely inaccurate indicators of reality.
I am under the impression that for some reason, you are eager to say that one did not have an experience if it did not connect to the "reality". I am sorry to have to burst the bubble here, but the experience happened anyway. Whether it is verifiable or whether it requires citation by someone or not is a totally different question.
I will go into "I do not want to live on this planet anymore" mode once the anti-philosophical mindset becomes the standard way of living. Not everything has to be about the consensus reality of ours. And that is not as solid as one might have been led to believe.