the more it spat the more i beat but the more i beat the more it spatWell, based on my recorded data, the more I beat him, the more he spits, but for some reason, I think I need more data. I feel a breakthrough coming.
Until it spat no morethe more it spat the more i beat but the more i beat the more it spat
Don’t jump to any conclusions without knowing or just by having a gut feeling.You can really tell who isn't a parent in this thread
Because the brother in the OP definitely sounds like a regular parent dealing with children that can sometimes be unruly and not at all sounds like a caracuture that sounds like a hill billy, drunk all the time, and full of mental illness. A person that will inflict harm on their child at anything deemed potentially annoying. Slamming a kids head into a door for not opening a lock fast enough definitely sounds normal. Non-parent's wouldn't understand.You can really tell who isn't a parent in this thread
it is black and white. either you condones inflicting pain as punishment on defenseless children or you are standing up for the defenseless child. All I ask is people don't try and sugar coat it as something that is helping the child. It may help the parent stop the behavior in the moment but evidence has shown the child doesn't learn anything.I am no father, do have half a dozen of nephews whom i take care of. So my opinion might be shit, so here it goes.
You people in this thread are taking this issue Black and White. Taking care of children goes way beyond that.
I see people lambasting others one way or another.
Except adults don't do this because they know other adults are capable of defending themselves and will probably retaliate. If I do something you don't like and you come up, escalate it to physical violence, spank me with intent to harm. you have a lot more repercussions than with a. Child.Wrong. There are PLENTY of adults who could benefit from a spanking.
it is black and white. either you condones inflicting pain as punishment on defenseless children or you are standing up for the defenseless child. All I ask is people don't try and sugar coat it as something that is helping the child. It may help the parent stop the behavior in the moment but evidence has shown the child doesn't learn anything.
If pain was a good way to learn lessons education would be all about people getting answers wrong and then being beaten in order for them to learn better.
Except adults don't do this because they know other adults are capable of defending themselves and will probably retaliate. If I do something you don't like and you come up, escalate it to physical violence, spank me with intent to harm. you have a lot more repercussions than with a. Child.
With a child there is no immediate consequence to hitting them as they are severely overpowered physically by adults. If toddlers had mech suits then no kids would be getting smacked around. It would be like Fluffy in the Rick and Morty Episode.
Also earlier you suggested a law. What happens when a law is broken? oh right corporal punishment that may include jail time or being shot depending on the degree of resistance.
I think you have become my best friend)Im from Eastern Europe. If you really expect me to take advice from western cultures when their own countries are giant messes than you are a fool.
Discipline and good behaviour starts at home. We are their parents not their friends
Authoritarian Parents were more controlling, more restrictive, less inclined to explain, more punitive, detached, and less warm. To discipline they used fear, little encouragement and often corporal punishment.
Permissive Parents were markedly less controlling, minimally demanding, freely granting of the child’s demands, uninvolved with the child, and benign toward the child’s impulses and actions. To discipline they used ridicule, guilt provocation, little power and reasoning, and rarely corporal punishment.
Authoritative Parents employed a combination of firm control and positive encouragement of a child’s independence. They affirmed the child’s qualities and, yet, set a standard for future conduct. They made reasonable demands of their children and promoted respect for authority. They were more consistent with the discipline. To discipline they used reasoning, power, reinforcement to achieve objectives, and some corporal punishment.
The Authoritative parents who balanced firm control with encouragement reared the most socially responsible and assertive children, i.e. achievement orientation, friendliness toward peers, cooperativeness with adults, social dominance, nonconforming behavior and purposiveness.
- Conditional spanking was associated with better child outcomes than were 10 of 13 alternative disciplinary tactics, with no differences in outcomes compared to the other three alternatives.
- Conditional spanking and customary physical punishment were never associated with worse outcomes than any other alternative tactic.
- Physical punishment predicted more adverse child outcomes than alternative tactics only when it was used severely or predominantly.
And you're not a man because you're one of the smarmiest fucks on here.You're not a man because your daddy beat you up. What a sad misconception.
Nah, your parents just had swingers parties and did naked yoga.I wasn't. My parents were well educated and we didn't drink out of mason jars. That may have something to do with it.
That's how you parent boys to not be sissies.Just came back from a hiking trip with my brothers family. So he has 2 8 yr old boys and I noticed while on the trip whenever the kids did something to annoy him no matter how slight, his immediate response is to do something physical, like twist their earlobe, smack their head, etc. I mean nothing like outright beating them but always trying to inflict some sort of physical pain.
I mean I have no kids myself so I feel like I'm not in any position to judge or criticize his actions. But i feel a bit bad for the boys. They can be brats but what 8 yr olds aren't? I just feel like the constant physical punishments are a bit too far.
That’s pretty messed up. I have a couple kids myself but I couldn’t see myself chipping away at them like that. My son, being 5, if he is being a dick I’ll send him straight to his room and he will go and stay there until I tell him he can get out. I yell at them sometimes but only when I have to. I can honesty say the occasional hand or butt swat has only occurred maybe once or twice in his life time, but he’s generally a pretty good kid.As a lesson, but it just seems to me he does it for even the most minor things. Like I saw one time one of the boys was trying to open a locked door, he was a bit slow, so my brother kinda slammed his head into the door, at that moment I was like WTF and almost said something but I just kept quiet. I mean I know my bro 100% loves his boys and would never do anything to actually hurt them, but he is very strict and is using a lot of physical/corporal pain to make them behave.
I think you have become my best friend)
Eastern Europe will save us, this is not ironic I'm totally thinking to move on the east of europe for this reason.
Also it's clearly bothering my sister-in-law as well. At one point my brother was doing this shit so much to one of the boys he wouldn't stop crying, she had to step in and tell him to stop touching him and leave him alone.
lmao this thread is fucking hilarious. You can tell whose kids are gonna be the little pussies that cry over every little thing and grow up to get a resetera account.
Parents don't repeatedly beat your kids or they'll end up like brap . One is enough.lmao this thread is fucking hilarious. You can tell whose kids are gonna be the little pussies that cry over every little thing and grow up to get a resetera account.
And you're not a man because you're one of the smarmiest fucks on here.
Nah, your parents just had swingers parties and did naked yoga.
There is correlation between school shooters not being beaten enough and twitter usage!I got my ass whooped every time I fucked up majorly and I'm not "traumatized". Not endorsing beating your kids, but some of you are way too dramatic.
I haven’t seen many people here that believe that. The examples in the OP just seem egregiously frequent.I never once got beat. People on this site act like you either whoop your kids or you have to make them like you by letting them do whatever they want.
Dude definitely abuses his kids. Reminds me of that daddy of five youtube shit where he shoves his kid into a fucking bookcase.I haven’t seen many people here that believe that. The examples in the OP just seem egregiously frequent.
Yeah gotta laugh at people - instead of talking things out with their family they rush and talk behind their backs on gaming forums lmao. It reads like one of these posta on retardera "should i abandon my republican family? They are nice and all but oPiNIonZ THO" xDseriously tho you could try asking him about it
he's family you're supposed to be able to talk about these things without the whole foundation coming down
When I was like 12/13, I had a teacher who was an old white lady who was strict and borderline rude in her approach to teaching. I didn't like her. I told my parents that she called me a nigger. She was almost fired.
My father whooped my ass and made me apologize to her and the school for lying. He was right. I never did any shit like that ever again.
And you're not a man because you're one of the smarmiest fucks on here.