Gun Animal
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For something that comprehensive, I've introduced partners to fetlife before. There's no real compare function like this survey would have, but there's a wide list of kinks you can choose from, and list them in varying degrees of interest (like to watch, like to give/receive etc). Last time I did that the girl basically said she had difficulty bringing these things up to me directly but didn't have a problem listing them out in her profile and talking about what we had in common.
Yeah, this is why it would be nice to just have a universal, comprehensive checklist to compare notes with. The problem with Fetlife is its presented more like a social network with groups and stuff.
I'm actually sure I've seen a much more comprehensive list on tumblr, so all I'd really have to do is reformat that... hmmm
This is a parody post right?
Well, my point was that if you're not having a conversation about how to fill out the survey and why, either before or during, your answers might be inharently flawed/incompatible. Basically you need to decide on a shared rubric or else the survey is useless.