How am I slandering your character if the only things I'm criticising are the things that you posted that I am reading. Personal attacks are the last thing I want to do and if I have slandered your character I apologise.
What I take issue with, once again, is the use of anecdotal evidence to misrepresent the use of trigger warnings. That argument has no basis. Once again, I am not trying to attack you personally.
Anecdotal evidence is absolutely the best way to quantitatively measure the effect they have on
your life. It's important to make the world a better place for you and your own and everyone else, but you can only do so using the evidence you're given. Hell, people being triggered (in a PTSD sense, and not a general being upset sense) is an anecdotal experience and you can't do right by those people unless they share with you their particular experience of what triggers them. Not all survivors need be good victims, and different things can set different people off. Trying to lay a blanket over those survivors is cruelty at it's core, and censorship without government intervention. You're removing autonomy from people that need autonomy the most.
Which is the real core of the issue. Social media by and large doesn't allow for actual intellectual discourse and people genuinely aren't prepared for localisation of social issues, much less actually engaging in intellectual discourse. Educating is vital, but the tone of superiority that people take on when using Twitter in particular (which makes sense given it's character limit and the effect of being "loud" has) is genuinely offputting. There's a culture forming around being a "good ally" and using your voice to boost the voices of the marginalized--which is good when it's done for the right reasons, but a massive amount of people don't do it for those reasons. Do you think all the posts making fun of dudes for only caring about feminist issues when they're hoping to earn brownie points are invalid?
You can't phrase things with nuance on most social media platforms, and unless your message is: "Don't be a jackass," there's always going to be nuance. Thankfully we're seeing people leave Twitter in a slow trickle.
Are there base issues? Yes. LBGTQ rights and pulling away from openly racist policy are among those. But things like triggers are such a touch-and-go issue that anecdotal evidence is the only thing a person can, and should, care about.
As far as people yelling "triggered" is concerned, you always need to take into account the colloquial usage of a word. Bitching and moaning that you don't like the way a word is used is, and always has been, pointless white noise.