FullMetalx117
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UPDATE: Guys it's been already done. I'm already moved into her house and will see her when she returns from vacation tomorrow.
Background: I've known this girl for about 4 years now and have a very complicated relationship with her. We have acknowledged feelings for each other in the past, but due to to her expecting herself to become more religious in the future (she's catholic, I'm muslim) and the implications that has on existing family/future family, she effectively rejected me and is adamant that she won't change her mind. I don't want to get super detailed on the aftermath but basically it's been a toxic relationship of lots of fights, drunk texts/snaps of wanting each other, cycles of ignoring then nonstop talking, etc etc etc. The beginning of this summer we did take a break from communication for about a month but now we're in nonstop talking mode again. At this point we just consider each other best friends because, lets face it, she likes the attention I give her and I like the attention she gives me.
Now: So I was recently hired for a company that is pretty close to her house. Due to my apartment lease not beginning until later this month, she offered to let me stay at her house with her family. Her mom is out of the house most of the time (spends the night at her BF's) and her brother is about to move to college this week so it'd be mostly just me, her, and her dogs in the house. I thought about it for a few weeks and concluded it'd be worth to save the couple of thousands of dollars and live with her.
Have any of ya'll been in a similar situation? Let me be clear that my intention is to not get with her or anything these next 2 weeks. I just want to spend some quality time with her/not make anything awkward, perhaps become better friends. I'm already going to be at work majority of the day so it's really only a couple of hours everyday I'm anxious about. Any DOs/DONTs do ya'll have to offer?
Background: I've known this girl for about 4 years now and have a very complicated relationship with her. We have acknowledged feelings for each other in the past, but due to to her expecting herself to become more religious in the future (she's catholic, I'm muslim) and the implications that has on existing family/future family, she effectively rejected me and is adamant that she won't change her mind. I don't want to get super detailed on the aftermath but basically it's been a toxic relationship of lots of fights, drunk texts/snaps of wanting each other, cycles of ignoring then nonstop talking, etc etc etc. The beginning of this summer we did take a break from communication for about a month but now we're in nonstop talking mode again. At this point we just consider each other best friends because, lets face it, she likes the attention I give her and I like the attention she gives me.
Now: So I was recently hired for a company that is pretty close to her house. Due to my apartment lease not beginning until later this month, she offered to let me stay at her house with her family. Her mom is out of the house most of the time (spends the night at her BF's) and her brother is about to move to college this week so it'd be mostly just me, her, and her dogs in the house. I thought about it for a few weeks and concluded it'd be worth to save the couple of thousands of dollars and live with her.
Have any of ya'll been in a similar situation? Let me be clear that my intention is to not get with her or anything these next 2 weeks. I just want to spend some quality time with her/not make anything awkward, perhaps become better friends. I'm already going to be at work majority of the day so it's really only a couple of hours everyday I'm anxious about. Any DOs/DONTs do ya'll have to offer?