I do want to move on. If bracing for it did anything it's the realization that I can't stay in this funk.
I don't know if course of action is even a rebound or something. My sex-drive just plummeted.
I'm lost GAF. What would you suggest I do to move on aside from focusing on my hobbies and interests and work and school and whatever.
I do want to move on. If bracing for it did anything it's the realization that I can't stay in this funk.
I don't know if course of action is even a rebound or something. My sex-drive just plummeted.
I'm lost GAF. What would you suggest I do to move on aside from focusing on my hobbies and interests and work and school and whatever.
oh man, I need to sit down now.You don't need to have sex with somebody to be completely sure of your sexuality.
I figure people posting on this website would know that.
You don't need to have sex with somebody to be completely sure of your sexuality.
I figure people posting on this website would know that.
What are her reasons for the open relationship OP?
"if she is one?" so you don't know whether or not she's a lesbian?
why couldn't she be bisexual?
You can be emotionally attached/interested in someone without the physical element.She has hinted she doesn't quite see guys in a sexual manner, which makes me wonder what she saw in me.
She said she felt constrained by the relationship. She's admittedly not had good sexual experiences (and I don't mean bad sex), so she wanted to explore.
I say if because she's confused by this realization that she doesn't know herself, but it's clear where she leans right now. She has hinted she doesn't quite see guys in a sexual manner, which makes me wonder what she saw in me.
For clarification, we just broke up within this hour. I'm trying to cope with that so responses are garbled and I'm having difficulty keeping up.
Wow, this thread is something else.
I'll just say this before I grab the popcorn and enjoy the show - If she didn't know this until recently then she is likely going through quite a lot more than you. Yes, it certainly sucks on your end but coming out is not the easiest thing for someone to go through. If you don't feel like the bridge has been burned and (presumably) you both do care for each other you should try and see if you can't help her through this. Then you can count yourself lucky for having an attractive lesbian friend.
On the other hand, if she just destroyed your heart it might be good to just count your losses, sever and move on. There's really nothing you can do to change things.
However, I'm at the epicenter right now, with the news happening within the hour. I'm trying to find ways to cope.
You can be emotionally attached/interested in someone without the physical element.
Someone tells you that they want to date other people/open relationship and you stick around like a puppy at the window waiting for them to come back and tell you if they are willing to stay with you or not?
C'mon, dude...
She said she felt constrained by the relationship. She's admittedly not had good sexual experiences (and I don't mean bad sex), so she wanted to explore.
I say if because she's confused by this realization that she doesn't know herself, but it's clear where she leans right now. She has hinted she doesn't quite see guys in a sexual manner, which makes me wonder what she saw in me.
For clarification, we just broke up within this hour. I'm trying to cope with that so responses are garbled and I'm having difficulty keeping up.
I know she's had to go through a lot. Even before we started dating, and we were just friends, I knew she had suffered more than I ever have and probably ever will.
I don't want to burn bridges. I'm choosing to remember all the good memories we have, and there are a lot. I still love her, but I guess not in the romantic sense anymore. I will support her and want to still be friends.
However, I'm at the epicenter right now, with the news happening within the hour. I'm trying to find ways to cope.
Dude you are getting friend-zoned in real time.
I'm trying to find ways to cope.
Really sorry to hear that. Still not getting one thing: She wants to explore. That doesn´t neccessarly deny the possibility of being interested into you.
That's what she said, but for now the relationship is over. That much is fact.
God I didn't expect my first thread to be this shitshow of emotions.
If she has said to you "well I'm just a full-blown lesbian now and don't like guys anymore" it probably means more that she doesn't want to be with you anymore, because I find it hard to believe that a woman could just switch from one extreme to the other so quickly.
My girlfriend took that homosexuality test that was posted on here a few weeks ago, she was labeled as a full blown lesbian.
You ended it?
Why did you jump the gun on that?
How long were you dating for?
My girlfriend took that homosexuality test that was posted on here a few weeks ago, she was labeled as a full blown lesbian.Link to this?
I've been with my wife for over 11 years. We've been through a lot together, I love her to death and her and our child together are the most important people in my life, but I told her that if she ever had doubts that she wanted to remain with me, that she shouldn't hesitate to leave. I'd be crushed, but I would never want to be with someone who isn't crazy about me, or someone who is interested in someone else, just going through the motions or see's me as expendable. I personally couldn't live like that and not saying that you don't but I'd like to think that I have too much self respect than to put up with something like that.This is the common response, to bail. But I know her and you don't, and I wasn't hesitant in saying yes because it appealed to me as well. I felt the emotional connection was strong enough. Granted, I guess I'm wrong, but it is what it is.
I've been with my wife for over 11 years. We've been through a lot together, I love her to death and her and our child together are the most important people in my life, but I told her that if she ever had doubts that she wanted to remain with me, that she shouldn't hesitate to leave. I'd be crushed, but I would never want to be with someone who isn't crazy about me, or someone who is just going through the motions or see's me as expendable. I personally couldn't live like that and not saying that you don't but I'd like to think that I have too much self respect than to put up with something like that.
Still better than that pre-rendered friendzone.Dude you are getting friend-zoned in real time.
How old are you and the gf and how long have you been together? If this was answered earlier, my bad I missed it.
If it makes you feel any better she was born that way.
Lmao fucking ice cold satchYou don't need to have sex with somebody to be completely sure of your sexuality.
I figure people posting on this website would know that.
22-23. It's hella young and I know there's a huge chunk of life left to live, but I was kinda on the wild side first few years of school so I guess I was ready to settle.
Wow, the betrayal. I would be seething in anger right now if I were you.
Twist: OP is a lady. This is a stealth brag thread.
I say if because she's confused by this realization that she doesn't know herself, but it's clear where she leans right now. She has hinted she doesn't quite see guys in a sexual manner, which makes me wonder what she saw in me.