JayDubya said:I believe someone should be welcome to say "Fuck you, pal."
If they're saying it on my driveway after following me home, I'd be concerned for my safety and if I had a weapon I'd want it handy. The risk factors are starting to pile on.
bastionwords said:I'm sorry, but how can you not see that the aggression was initiated by the guy in the truck? Does the description in the OP and a later post not appear as if the guy in the truck is in a hostile mood? Also in your example, you would be just the same as the guy in the truck, so yes, you are the aggressive one. Nobody said the initiation of a situation is the aggressive one, but the initiation of behavior that can be or is violent. You could say that the OP was the initiator, unintentionally, of the situation but was not the one initiating the aggression.
edit: Upon reading your post again, I'm going to have to say I'm confused. Who are you saying is initiating the aggression? Also, did the dude in the truck block the car as to not let the OP out of his own driveway. If that is the case, isn't that more of a case for aggressive behavior.
Darklord said:The guy could have also ran back to his truck...and pulled out his own gun and started firing. Nothing like a shootout in your drive-way.
ItsInMyVeins said:Well, they haven't followed you home as far as they know, maybe they're just thinking that you've pulled over or whatever. Either way, even if they stood on your driveway and yelled at you (only yelling and gesturing and shit), you think it's okay for you to draw a gun? And if your response to someone yelling at you is to draw a gun, doesn't that imply that they're entitled to do that too?
JayDubya said:Of course not. Their aggressive behavior has led to you drawing your weapon.
If they then continued on to draw their own weapon, that would confirm their aggressive intent.
JayDubya said:Except for the Australia statistics that were already posted.
On the other hand: "Lies, damned lies, and statistics."
Well, this has been covered in this thread quite a bit. In this case, somebody following you to your house and parking on your property with the intent to block you in your driveway to keep you from leaving. He was in his legal right to do this action. The big key thing here is that this is Vizer's own property, and this guy was not invited and is being way to aggressive. There are multiple ways this situation could have been handled, but Vizer did nothing illegal. No matter what, the situation was diffused without anyone being hurt.ItsInMyVeins said:So, what you're saying is that drawing a gun on someone pointing a gun on you isn't okay, but drawing a gun on someone who yells at you is? WTF?
What constitutes aggressive behavior, and when is it okay to draw a gun? Someone being passive aggressive? Someone flipping you off? Someone saying "fuck you"?
aoi tsuki said:The one thing that bothers me every time i see this thread is that the OP thinks he owned some guy. This isn't a scene from a movie where we can enjoy the displays of machismo because it's fictional and well-presented. Someone could've been hurt or killed over something so trivial it's stupid. Fortunately, that wasn't the case.
bastionwords said:Well, this has been covered in this thread quite a bit. In this case, somebody following you to your house and parking on your property with the intent to block you in your driveway to keep you from leaving. He was in his legal right to do this action. The big key thing here is that this is Vizer's own property, and this guy was not invited and is being way to aggressive. There are multiple ways this situation could have been handled, but Vizer did nothing illegal. No matter what, the situation was diffused without anyone being hurt.
Blocking him in a manner that would not allow him to flee in a vehicle, or he just wanted a stylish way of jumping out of his vehicle. Reading the whole story and picturing it makes me laugh, but I can't hold anything against what Vizer did. The whole situation was one escalation after another except the gun which diffused the situation. Your escalation is a hypothetical because absolutely nothing happened after the guy saw the gun except for him fleeing the scene. We will never know what the guy would have done. nada zeroItsInMyVeins said:He intended to block him from leaving his house he just reached? Except from pulling up there behind him I'm not seeing this aggressive behavior (apart from "foaming around the mouth" earlier, then). And since the guy left as soon as he saw the gun as he was stepping out of his car we can't know for sure if he was was gonna try to pick a fight or just argue or whatever. Maybe he was gonna try and beat him up -- I don't know.
Either way, my point is that I think it sounds like a situation escalating very fast. And I'm not saying it's illegal (well, where I live it definitely would be though).
bastionwords said:The whole situation was one escalation after another except the gun which diffused the situation. Your escalation is a hypothetical because absolutely nothing happened after the guy saw the gun except for him fleeing the scene. We will never know what the guy would have done. nada zero
then he gets charged with assault with a deadly weapon,trespassing since this is happening on private property, having an unlicensed weapon (if it applies), and maybe even attempted murder. I'm sure if that was the case and the op saw the guy pull a gun of his own thats as far as it would have gone since the op already had his weapon at the ready.Darklord said:The guy could have also ran back to his truck...and pulled out his own gun and started firing. Nothing like a shootout in your drive-way.
to me the escalation started with the tailgating and flicking the brights at the op and escalated even more when the guy followed him to his own home and peaked as he tried to confront the op.ItsInMyVeins said:He fled the scene after a gun was pointed at him. That's quite the escalation, imho, and hardly hypothetical.
EDIT: I.e., I consider pointing a gun as being the most aggressive thing in the OP, even though he might not have initiated the whole thing.
I fail to see how the end of a confrontation is an escalation of the situation. If it escalated, the man would not have fled.ItsInMyVeins said:He fled the scene after a gun was pointed at him. That's quite the escalation, imho, and hardly hypothetical.
EDIT: I.e., I consider pointing a gun as being the most aggressive thing in the OP, even though he might not have initiated the whole thing.
ItsInMyVeins said:He fled the scene after a gun was pointed at him. That's quite the escalation, imho, and hardly hypothetical.
EDIT: I.e., I consider pointing a gun as being the most aggressive thing in the OP, even though he might not have initiated the whole thing.
bastionwords said:I fail to see how the end of a confrontation is an escalation of the situation. If it escalated, the man would not have fled.
I would consider Vinzer pulling out the gun as an aggressive defense, but he was not the aggressor in this situation.
ItsInMyVeins said:He fled the scene after a gun was pointed at him. That's quite the escalation, imho, and hardly hypothetical.
EDIT: I.e., I consider pointing a gun as being the most aggressive thing in the OP, even though he might not have initiated the whole thing.
Neither party knew the other had any sort of weapon at this point, or that there was even any intent to harm the other. Implied intent to harm, sure. But not known. Vinzer pulling the gun out made it known that he had a weapon, and pulling the saftey off and racking the slide made it known that he was ready to use it. This escalated the situation.bastionwords said:I fail to see how the end of a confrontation is an escalation of the situation. If it escalated, the man would not have fled.
I would consider Vinzer pulling out the gun as an aggressive defense, but he was not the aggressor in this situation.
fortified_concept said:Are you talking about serious criminals? There could be special forces that carry guns only for these kind of operations. But cops at the streets shouldn't carry guns because many of them stupid and trigger-happy.
again if that happened I seriously doubt that guy would have been able to fire off any rounds since the op already had his weapon ready not to mention if the other guy did pull out a gun and started shooting he's facing felony charges.aoi tsuki said:Neither party knew the other had any sort of weapon at this point, or that there was even any intent to harm the other. Implied intent to harm, sure. But not known. Vinzer pulling the gun out made it known that he had a weapon, and pulling the saftey off and racking the slide made it known that he was ready to use it. This escalated the situation.
This was enough of a deterrent to scare the guy off. Of course, there's the possibility the guy could've pulled out a gun of his own, there'd be a suburban shootout, someone dies, and so on. Sometimes the other party will back down, and sometimes they'll respond in kind.
JayDubya said:This logic is strange.
The possibility of him having a gun was a factor in why you drew yours in the first place.
then he gets charged with assault with a deadly weapon,trespassing since this is happening on private property, having an unlicensed weapon (if it applies), and maybe even attempted murder. I'm sure if that was the case and the op saw the guy pull a gun of his own thats as far as it would have gone since the op already had his weapon at the ready.
Nope, still looks like he diffused the situation which implies the opposite of escalate. I will never argue that multiple outcomes can occur. We can discuss all the hypothetical situations we want. How did the action of pulling the gun out, turning of the safety, and racking the slide escalate the situation if nothing occurred after this action except the guy leaving? If the confrontation continued after what Vinzer did, I would agree that it escalated what was occuring. No matter what, this situation ended with one of the better possibilities.aoi tsuki said:Neither party knew the other had any sort of weapon at this point, or that there was even any intent to harm the other. Implied intent to harm, sure. But not known. Vinzer pulling the gun out made it known that he had a weapon, and pulling the saftey off and racking the slide made it known that he was ready to use it. This escalated the situation.
This was enough of a deterrent to scare the guy off. Of course, there's the possibility the guy could've pulled out a gun of his own, there'd be a suburban shootout, someone dies, and so on. Sometimes the other party will back down, and sometimes they'll respond in kind.
so now we're back to more what if's. What if the op saw the guy taking a gun out what if the guy had to do the same thing take the saftey off and cock the weapon what if the op didn't freeze what if the op recognized the danger immediately. Doesn't matter if the guy cared about the laws or not fact of the matter is his life as he knew it is fucking over.Darklord said:No the logic is simple. The guy wanted to kick his arse, saw he had a gun and instead went for his own.
Yeah, I'm sure he'd have given a shit about the charges. Also the op didn't shoot when he ran back to the car, instead of driving off he'd have pulled it out. That's about less than a second for him to shoot and kill the guy.
This isn't a game. You don't just stand there with bullets flying around. The op would probably be stunned for a moment(like I'm sure the other guy would have been) and possibly taken(more) cover giving him no shot.
Zeke said:so now we're back to more what if's. What if the op saw the guy taking a gun out what if the guy had to do the same thing take the saftey off and cock the weapon what if the op didn't freeze what if the op recognized the danger immediately. Doesn't matter if the guy cared about the laws or not fact of the matter is his life as he knew it is fucking over.
but we don't know for sure do we? Not all people freeze up like a deer in headlights granted I'd assume a great majoirty if people would freeze up.Darklord said:Unless he's a cop or in the army. He's be stunned for a moment. Anyone would.
Zeke said:to me the escalation started with the tailgating and flicking the brights at the op and escalated even more when the guy followed him to his own home and peaked as he tried to confront the op.
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also whats with the pointing the weapon at the guy? I've tried to keep up with this thread the best I could did the op state anywhere in this thread he pointed his gun at the guy? The op says nothing like that just "safety off, rack the slide back in plain view"
bastionwords said:I fail to see how the end of a confrontation is an escalation of the situation. If it escalated, the man would not have fled.
I would consider Vinzer pulling out the gun as an aggressive defense, but he was not the aggressor in this situation.
JayDubya said:Perhaps, but you're assuming others are concerned about "escalation" or "disproportionate response."
I'm not.
I'm concerned with "Who started the conflict?" and "Who's acting justly within their rights and who is not?"
If someone intends to assault me and then leave, and I shoot him, that is a disproportionate response. And it's also totally a just one, because not only did I not know the limits of what action he was willing to take, he also had no right to assault me, while I had every right to defend myself.
JayDubya said:This sentence contradicts the meanings of the words within it.
If you did not initiate the conflict, drawing the gun is not aggressive at all.
i guess you're right. The outcome of Vinzer's actions brought the situation to a close, so the situation itself didn't escalate. Poor use of words on my part. i should've said "escalation of risk" or something like that.bastionwords said:Nope, still looks like he diffused the situation which implies the opposite of escalate. I will never argue that multiple outcomes can occur. We can discuss all the hypothetical situations we want. How did the action of pulling the gun out, turning of the safety, and racking the slide escalate the situation if nothing occurred after this action except the guy leaving? If the confrontation continued after what Vinzer did, I would agree that it escalated what was occuring. No matter what, this situation ended with one of the better possibilities.
aoi tsuki said:i guess you're right. The outcome of Vinzer's actions brought the situation to a close, so the situation itself didn't escalate. Poor use of words on my part. i should've said "escalation of risk" or something like that.
Hell, I wouldn't have the same response either. However, I wouldn't downplay the other guy's actions.ItsInMyVeins said:Well, that's pretty much my point too, and I don't think the response was in proportion to the threat -- but again, that's just my take on the OP's text.
bastionwords said:Hell, I wouldn't have the same response either. However, I wouldn't downplay the other guy's actions.
ItsInMyVeins said:Yeah, the other guy clearly did some wrong things (following him for a couple of miles, blinking at him, pulling up behind him etc), but that doesn't mean he's gonna brutally assault him, which every other post in this thread seems to assume. That's my point, and that's why I think it was out of proportion. If the guy had jumped out of his car with a weapon of some kind it'd be a totally different thing, imho.
eznark said:Pulling a gun doesn't mean he is going to shoot him, either.
TheRagnCajun said:I think America's gun culture is crazy, but if I lived there I'd have a gun too. You don't want to be the only guy without a gun! :lol
What is stopping you from doing both at the same time? Multitasking can save you time!Cocopjojo said:So if someone breaks into your house in the middle of the night, would it be right or wrong to shoot/stab them first and ask questions later?
ItsInMyVeins said:No, it doesn't, but what if that'd make the other guy fear for his life and he's also carrying one?
I wouldn't base your worldview on a NeoGAF thread. The amount of people who carry concealed weapons in the United States is trifling at best.RSTEIN said:Yeah, I'm amazed by this thread. I live in probably the second or third scariest place in Toronto, Canada's biggest city. The thought of carrying a gun, or even owning a gun, is something that has never ever crossed my mind. It's just an idea that's so foreign... I can't even really comprehend it. I feel like I live on a different planet when I read this thread.
Bumblebeetuna said:Then good thing the OP already has his gun out.
What if the OP doesn't pull his gun out and the asshole does?
What is the asshole is carrying a live grenade?
What if he is just trying to tell him he left his gas cap unscrewed and open?
All these what ifs are retarded. OP clearly made the right call and no harm came to either party because of it.
Agent Ghost said:
Yeah instead it can blow up his heart! That's always pretty cool!Darklord said:Self-defense. Not fucking jiu-jitsu or something. And yes, self-defense is...you know, for defending yourself. Although it requires a bit of work. Guns are much easier for the lazy and if someone dies because of it, well I'm sure they deserved it, right?
It was also my last comment, I also said use less lethal things like sprays, tazer or a knife. A tazer can drop a guy in a second without blowing his head off while doing it.