You need to provide more context to your issues, these issues you wrote are extremely shallow imo, yes the controls are clunky and that can be annoying and the game is slow paced.
Those two things cannot be changed so it looks like it not your type of game, this game is for people who like to immerse themselves in the shoes of some character and watch how he develops and how the story goes, so basically you play it for the open world and for the story, similar to Witcher 3 but it leans more to sandbox and less to rpg.
I think its a very good game but there are some things i didnt like, for example the outdated mission design that they still do since vice city, and the linearity of it, and also i dont like how gameplay barely evolves in all your game time, it helps that you can do some sandbox stuff but they get boring after a while, and most of them are tedious chores so for me i played it for the story and when i finished it i never touched it again, since Q1 2019 and till this day. But my sister still plays it because she loves the open world sandbox and messing around doing hunting, bounty, etc etc..
Also this is not that controversial, plenty of people on the forums criticize RDR2, if you want to stick out, criticize Bloodborne.