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So finally had sex with a woman I've been seeing, and I'm bothered by hair down there

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JKRMA

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Deal with it. Women aren't there to cater to your expectations. You think after a long term relationship including marriage they just gonna keep shaving/waxing down there just for you and your standards?

Continue watching hentai for your version of women.
 
What's supposed to be wrong with OP?

Nothing. People are being assholes. Men are allowed to prefer shaven pussies and that doesn't make them any less of an adult or whatnot, just like women can prefer men who trim their shit also. My gf asked me to do just that last week. I wasn't offended in the slightest.
 
OP probably doesn't even have an anus.

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Zaru

Member
Grow up, women have hair.

Why do you talk like it's that easy?
If all your life long you've been influenced by the surrounding culture to see certain things as attractive and others as unattractive, you can't just flip a mental switch and decide what turns you on/off despite many years of conditioning.
 

mr jones

Ethnicity is not a race!
Ask her to trim. Tempt her with more oral if she does. My girl was the same way. She doesn't shave, but she keeps things tidy. I do the same.
 

Atenhaus

Member
Are people really flipping out over having a grooming preference?

Like, damn dude, do you expect someone to go down on your dick when you have a literal fucking forest at the base of your dick?
 

Nabbis

Member
Yeah, no thanks. Not sure if it would be a deal breaker but definitely something that i would comment on.
 

Goro Majima

Kitty Genovese Member
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Bush is cool though. Girls who go bald are nice and all but it gets kinda old. Every woman I've been in a relationship with is always relieved when I tell them I don't have a preference.
 

tbm24

Member
Hair is hair, it's not going to hurt you. Women don't have the time to go and shave every day in the off chance someone is gonna go down there and scoff at the fact she's human. So long as she showers and all is clean nothing should stop you from doing what you want to do.
 

Audioboxer

Member
Sometimes I see a topic in GAF OT and I honestly think to myself that has got to be some lite trolling or aiming for a tag (you have one) or wanting to smile at 10+ pages.

Dude, private life? It's okay to have preferences but these are usually best kept between two consenting adults. I don't really get people coming online and going "guys a woman has body hair, whadda I do?!".

No offence OP, but you're going to get a ton of blowback lol. Shaving is a bitch at the best of times, if you aren't dealing with ingrown hairs and rashes. Trimming is usually better but it can still be a pain. If you wash daily then some hair isn't going to magically be a hygiene issue. People need to stop being so scared of pubic hair because of what they see in porn. As I said preferences can be preferences, but that's between you and whoever you're with.
 

brawly

Member
I don't think it's too much ask for a trim. Takes a minute, tops. A bush down there is gross.

And yeah, shave the ass(hole) if you want me to eat it.
 

Oxn

Member
Are people really flipping out over having a grooming preference?

Like, damn dude, do you expect someone to go down on your dick when you have a literal fucking forest at the base of your dick?

Grow up, its just dick cheese.
 

JKRMA

Banned
Why do you talk like it's that easy?
If all your life long you've been influenced by the surrounding culture to see certain things as attractive and others as unattractive, you can't just flip a mental switch and decide what turns you on/off despite many years of conditioning.

Do you have abs? Are you gonna go bald if not already? Are you taller then every women that you have been attracted to? Goes both ways homie...
 

DMONKUMA

Junior Member
Well it depends on how hairy it is....anyways you can talk to her about it if it bothers you.
I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
 
There's nothing wrong with hair. I recommend getting over it because there are way more important things in a relationship.

Personally I like hair, and if you can have a more open mindset then maybe you can learn to appreciate its beauty too.
 

Movement

Member
Nothing. People are being assholes. Men are allowed to prefer shaven pussies and that doesn't make them any less of an adult or whatnot, just like women can prefer men who trim their shit also. My gf asked me to do just that last week. I wasn't offended in the slightest.

The tone of the op made it sound like he expected her to be shaved,didn't say anything to her about it, and then decided to complain about it on here. I'd say that's not fair to her, she's just a person with hair.
 

Epcott

Member
Her anus is hairy? You mean the cheeks or the butthole? And how is that possible if the later?

Well, if you really feel compelled to complain to her, at least be civil and sweet about it and offer to have yourself shaved and deal with the lovely joy of razor bumps on the anus and taint. Fair is fair.

But honestly, you've made it to the promised land, why risk it so soon over details?
 
You're allowed to be attracted to what you're attracted to, and unattracted to what you're unattracted to.

There's nothing wrong with her personal grooming decisions (not that I think you were saying there was).

If it's a dealbreaker for you, then it's a dealbreaker. If it's not, then keep dating her.

Pretty straight forward.
 
Well it's certainly not a worse preference than the "circumcised only" women who apparently exist in the US.

Whose existence I know of through an episode of Nip/Tuck and various internet comments.
 

Geist-

Member
You're going to be single forever if you let hair bother you. You could always shave her yourself if it bothers you so much. A lot of girls appreciate the intimacy.
 

Five

Banned
I like to shave down there but it's a lot of work. If you feel that strongly about it then you're welcome to ask her. A relationship doesn't work if you don't tell your partner what you want from it.

Maybe pay for her laser hair removal if it so inclines you. I got my arms and legs lasered off and it's been incredible.
 

tbm24

Member
Are people really flipping out over having a grooming preference?

Like, damn dude, do you expect someone to go down on your dick when you have a literal fucking forest at the base of your dick?
If she wanted to prior to learning that, I'd reconsider why I'm allowing her there in the first place. If we're going to trust each other with our bodies at least have the decency to accept me. Otherwise will take said body elsewhere.
 
I hate body hair but I'm also fair. I shave pretty much everything below the neck, so I don't feel bad asking a partner to do the same.

If they won't it's not a dealbreaker, but they can't say I'm not being fair.
 

RDreamer

Member
Women do indeed have hair down there. They should probably groom though, as should men. I groom. Without that it gets pretty damned crazy, honestly.

If you don't groom, though, you got no right to complain.
 
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