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So finally had sex with a woman I've been seeing, and I'm bothered by hair down there

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JKRMA

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The tone of the op made it sound like he expected her to be shaved,didn't say anything to her about it, and then decided to complain about it on here. I'd say that's not fair to her, she's just a person with hair.

Yep, that's the problem here.
 

Jackpot

Banned
There are plenty of good articles about how porn and the like has given people totally skewed expectations when it comes to shaving pubes, female ejaculation, etc. Very apt in this case.
 
Unacceptable.

Absolutely unacceptable.

Does she not understand the expectations of men these days?

Tell her to shave or else.

Remind her that if she doesn't, no true man will accept her.
 
So how many women sporting femstaches and unibrows have you been attracted to? It's natural!
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ZOONAMI

Junior Member
This can be troublesome if it's completely out of control for going down purposes. Dating a girl once and I got I peice of tp in my mouth and it wasn't the best.
 

mdubs

Banned
I like to shave down there but it's a lot of work. If you feel that strongly about it then you're welcome to ask her. A relationship doesn't work if you don't tell your partner what you want from it.

Maybe pay for her laser hair removal if it so inclines you. I got my arms and legs lasered off and it's been incredible.

^^

Surprised so many are shaming OP for having preferences, damn
 

EloquentM

aka Mannny
Why exactly is the OP immature? People have preferences. Some people expect shaved genitals while some don't, and the world goes on.
 

Staccat0

Fail out bailed
Not gonna lie, since having a kid women w/o pubic hair kinda gross. It's made porn a tricky game.

That said trimming is polite, as is going down on a lady and doing your job.
 
Don't feel bad about your preferences, but don't expect her to change overnight or at all. If you two are close enough, you can talk in general about grooming, but tread carefully.

Good luck and take some bread crumbs in case you get lost.
 

UrokeJoe

Member
Yeah get over it...

Remember when I freaked at my first pencil eraser nipples. They were 2X of normal, man if I could go back I would suck the shit out of them....

edit.. more like 3x erasers
 
Why do you talk like it's that easy?
If all your life long you've been influenced by the surrounding culture to see certain things as attractive and others as unattractive, you can't just flip a mental switch and decide what turns you on/off despite many years of conditioning.
When OP was in his teens grooming probably wasn't even in.
 

Rad-

Member
Best way to solve this "problem" is going down on her once with your best tongue game and the next time she hints at going down on her say that you would really like to but the hair is bothering a bit. Fucking guaranteed that she is shaven or at least trimmed after that.
 

Audioboxer

Member
I still don't understand why anus's even need hair.

Evolutionary reasons are probably to protect soft tissue and keep warm. Hair is often for warmth of vital organs.

I mean if the OP thinks we are hairy now, go back into the past and check early humans :p
 
My bf enjoys blowing and rimming more if I'm groomed down there. He still does it regardless, but he is noticeably more into it if I groom myself. And therefore I enjoy it more. It's not a bad thing to have that preference. If you're more into the sex when she shaves herself, then she'll enjoy it more and you both win. Of course this depends on what her sensitive skin issue is I guess.
 

Dabanton

Member
If it's only been a month then theres not much to discuss. If this turns into something more serious with her, then it maybe time to discuss this with her OP
 
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