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So my girlfriend is being illegally surveilled......

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Slayven said:
Is stalking even something a civil court would take? Sexual Harassment i can see, but not straight up stalking.

Everyone says that, until they get a stalker and find dick residue on their pillows and freshly opened cans of coke.
 
GONZO said:
never went to civil court. You guys think that this amount was awarded by a Judge, not so. He basically paid an amount to have all charges dropped before the matter was taken to criminal court. The judge had no say in how much she was offered. This scumbags first offer was 50k!!!!! He only got up to 1.65 an houR before the case was to be transferee into a criminal one.

Settlement agreements have to be approved by a judge.

Criminal cases can't be settled with money.
 
oh dude seriously can't you and your missus take your 2.1 million bucks and make for New Zealand or some shit? with the exchange rate then you sitting on 4 million. 4 million in NZ is fucking Easy street, you could move to auckland a buy a tennis sweater and wear it around your neck while you drive your overly shiny subaru stationwagon with roofracks to the mountain on the weekends and frown on poor looking wellingtonians in cars from 1985.
 
GONZO said:
No judge would call a payout ofthat amount for a person hats worth that much unreasonable. So sure was the judge of the capability of the stalker to pay that he granted him only 30 days to do so. Which is unheard of when dealing with this amount of money usually.
You can't be jailed without a jury or plea bargain. Since there was no criminal case, there's no plea bargain either.
 
GONZO said:
you know I've Thought about this quite a lot. What would happen if you were raised entirely without need. There was literally nothing in the world you cannot obtain? What if frm birth you were raised as a golden child who could do no wrong and only obeyed the wishes of your parents. Then suddenly in your perfect life the woman that your mother deemed you should marry while on her death bed rejected you at a base level. You who are young, wealthy, very good looking and could provide her with a life that only dreams are made of. What would happen then? What kind of animosity would you hold against this woman who dared to impede on your Golden life????


I like to sum it up this way. What if prince charming were to be shot down? Wha type of person would he then be?

You have been watching too much Korean soap operas.
 
HEY GUYS SOMEONE IS HOLDING A GUN TO MY HEAD WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

Call the fucking cops man, goddamn. Don't fuckng post on NeoGAF. Get some fucking protection. Buy a gun. Shit just buy a fucking laser and shine it in his eye. Do something BESIDES POSTING ON GAF.
 
oohh what? *snkkkk* huh? .. *rubs eyes* ... oh i'm at the end of this already? ... wow.. i passed out .. cause this is a FUCKING BORING STORY..

Getting a little old hearing these stories about people running in circles just having absolutely no idea how to handle a godamn situation. Call the cops. Buy a gun. Buy a new phone. If he hasn't given you any money yet hire ANOTHER lawyer.. take him to court again .. FOR MORE CASH .. if he is as spoiled/uneducated as you make him sound it shouldn't be too hard to very slowly whittle 50 mill out of this apparent triple digit millionare..

and who tries to relax by posting on a forum ABOUT THE THING THEY ARE FREAKING OUT OVER.... you are either retarded or full of shit.


oh .. and btw.... when you get all that cash, wanna be bff?
 
catfish said:
oh dude seriously can't you and your missus take your 2.1 million bucks and make for New Zealand or some shit? with the exchange rate then you sitting on 4 million. 4 million in NZ is fucking Easy street, you could move to auckland a buy a tennis sweater and wear it around your neck while you drive your overly shiny subaru stationwagon with roofracks to the mountain on the weekends and frown on poor looking wellingtonians in cars from 1985.
First post says he hasn't paid.
 
GONZO said:
Edit: and it was never a criminal case. All this took place during the hearing to decide whether or not we had enough evidence to go to trial. They fought like crazy but we had solid proof. After the judged ruled a trial was needed we were given a few days to try and settle before it went officially to court.

so the hearing was from a civil action? Your girlfriend sued her ex?
 
mug said:
Call the FBI
actually do that, by some quirk of fate they might decide to help you

About the movie...just call it Shot Down. Simple title is good. And it gives an excuse for some cool action scenes.
 
Seriously thought the FBI should help. A friend of mine was in a situation that involved her ex-husband - he would send death threats to her and her son. I really don't know how far it escalated though, not something she really enjoys talking about.
 
GONZO said:
No judge would call a payout ofthat amount for a person hats worth that much unreasonable. So sure was the judge of the capability of the stalker to pay that he granted him only 30 days to do so. Which is unheard of when dealing with this amount of money usually.

Edit: and it was never a criminal case. All this took place during the hearing to decide whether or not we had enough evidence to go to trial. They fought like crazy but we had solid proof. After the judged ruled a trial was needed we were given a few days to try and settle before it went officially to court.


Wait... Were you there for all of that or is it just what the girl is telling you?
 
In my experience, usually guys worth $250 million don't bother sending text messages, threatening, or stalking.

They just light cigars with $50 bills and laugh.

As one of the ruling class, why bother getting involved in this kind of stupid shit with your girlfriend?

If this story turns out to be true, then the OP is seriously lacking IQ.

Dude: if the police/courts/etc. can't help you, and you're finding actual BUGS, call the FBI. And that's after you've hired two armed 24 hour personal security guards for you and your girl. Apparently, if the settlement number is true, you can afford it.

Still. Something fishy here...
 
I think the OP actually believes this is happening. I know 2 people IRL who believe this kind of stuff. One guy at school thinks he is being watched all the time, and will tell you long stories about people that have poisoned him or tried to kill him. It's paranoid delusion.
 
mug said:
Call the FBI

Actually, I was going to suggest that, assuming this OP isn't all bullshit.

If you have evidence that the person crossed state lines to commit a crime against you, your girlfriend, or someone else, the FBI can help.

Her friend was drugged and ditched 3 towns over

Did you go to the police about this? That's kidnapping. Serious business.

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usea said:
I think the OP actually believes this is happening. I know 2 people IRL who believe this kind of stuff. One guy at school thinks he is being watched all the time, and will tell you long stories about people that have poisoned him or tried to kill him. It's paranoid delusion.


Good point.

OP: Are you sure you aren't delusional? Are you on any meds or do you have any mental health issue? This story sound pretty far-fetched, honestly. You may need help.
 
I'm still waiting for the ultimate Gaf thread

GAF I'm Dying,what should i do?

GAF I'm having sex what should i do?

GAF a maniacs in my house and is stalking me with a big knife,what should i do?

That thread's first post would be FHUTA followed by that plane meme pic.
 
Micromegas said:
In my experience, usually guys worth $250 million don't bother sending text messages, threatening, or stalking.
Yeah, something about this doesn't seem right. Is he putting a hit out on her from jail? Yet it's her friend that gets beaten up? And being monitored at the doctor's office? Sounds more like an amalgam of bad TV show plots.

I knew a guy who would go off on paranoid rants like this... always about stalking, being a victim, being owed money, being in danger, etc. He was a coke-addled lunatic.
 
If what you are saying is true, here is my serious suggestion.

Ditch your phone, as that is where they are getting their information from.

I had a client not too long ago that had a form of spyware put on her phone. The spyware essentially gave total control of the device to the person who put it on there. They could turn on the mic remotely and listen to conversations, they could use the GPS feature of the phone, they would get sent text messages that you got, and they could even intercept phone calls and quietly listen in. I was made aware of this by a news article actually, and a few months later I had ran into a person that was referred to me with very similar symptoms. Told her to get a new phone, never leave it in someone else's hands, or anywhere that you don't know where it is, and the chances of you having your phone taken control of is lowered, but not nullified.

The majority of these programs are purchased from sites that sell them, so it is most likely just some script kiddie that has some cellphone snooping program. Then again, if the ex b/f is rich and loaded he could potentially hire someone with a little more know how.

Whatever the case is, don't freak out, carry your weapon of choice, and be aware of your surroundings at all times.

It shouldn't have to be said, but get the fucking law enforcement involved. If you post on GAF about this shit asking for advice, I doubt you are Liam's prodigy.
 
Doytch said:
Soft string arrangement, guy and girl walking in park over small stone bridge over a babbling brook. Fall, leaves on the ground.
Girl: "You're such a great guy! I really like being with you. But..."
White text on black background, text grows. Cut music.
Announcer: "What if prince charming were to be shot down?"
FADE TO BLACK
Announcer: "What type of person would he be?"
FADE TO BLACK
Bunch of fast cuts of action scenes, running, people on the phone, with a string arrangement over the top getting progressively tenser.
CUT MUSIC, CUT TO BLACK
Guy (using voice masker): "I killed your lawyer. I killed your friend. Now I'm gonna kill...."
Quick string sting, show title/release date/credits
I smell the next Shia Labeouf joint! The dude who plays Chuck Bass could be the eccentric, murderous millionaire!
 
The guy is in jail for not paying up, and still has enough power/money to get all this shit done to you and your girlfriend... Damn, real life Law Abiding Citizen.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMoP35u8oN0

Yeah, OP's story sounds far-fetched, but if someone were to tell me this story without all the facts, about the guy being locked away, my first response would be "What, this guy have $250 million or something?" :S

Takes money to cause trouble behind bars. Keep working your way up your local police department until you hit the top.
 
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Wait, are you posting this from a wireless connection? Joke post, joke post!!
 
Dabanton said:
I'm still waiting for the ultimate Gaf thread



That thread's first post would be FHUTA followed by that plane meme pic.

GAF: I'm having sex with a knife wielding maniac who has just stabbed me and i'm dieing... what should i do?
 
Well if the OP is making this all up, at least he acts like he knows his legal shit.

Still, also being from the north Jersey area, I'm surprised I haven't heard about this by now.
 
This is an awful situation and I really really do hope it works out in your favor, but...

I've got this awesome idea for a game:

It starts off, an average day, you're walking out of court, sort of enthralled because your girlfriend has won a HUGE settlement for a harrassment suit; then the trouble begins...
 
Dude, you need to go to the police station, now. You need to be under police protection.
 
Let 4-chan handle it for you!

or

Hire some GAF muscles, I suggest Docpan. Also based on what I remembered from AkuMifune's bar tab skipping thread, we have a quite a few ex-hitman, triad, mafia members!
 
If the crazy stalker had an intention of killing your girlfriends and had means to do it, he would already do it. He is only trying to frighten you, if he wanted you dead, he would do it long ago before leaving an even BIGGER trail behind him. Go to the police and pray that he doesn't have any connections with high ranking security officials. Best of luck.
 
GONZO said:
No judge would call a payout ofthat amount for a person hats worth that much unreasonable. So sure was the judge of the capability of the stalker to pay that he granted him only 30 days to do so. Which is unheard of when dealing with this amount of money usually.

Not what I was referring to at all - you said that the judge did not award this amount, and had no say. I dispute this, because there is no way a settlement agreement can come into effect until the judge signs the order.

Edit: and it was never a criminal case. All this took place during the hearing to decide whether or not we had enough evidence to go to trial. They fought like crazy but we had solid proof. After the judged ruled a trial was needed we were given a few days to try and settle before it went officially to court.

Uhh... you said the guy paid this amount to avoid having this case go to criminal court.

To be more specific: you can't get rid of potential criminal liability through a settlement in civil court.
 
If all this is real you basically have two options:

1. The cowards option- Ditch the girl, move away, and change your name.

2. Delaying the inevitable- Move away, bring the girl, change your names, and use the money to buy protection. Get a concealed carry license and don't ever leave the house alone. If you get lucky the douche will eventually get bored and forget about the whole thing. But it's also possible that he'll quietly have you both snuffed when the heat dies off.

Good luck.
 
DevelopmentArrested said:
http://stolemyhubcaps.com/covers/Enemy%20of%20the%20State.jpg
The thread is 3 pages already (on the superior view count). If you want to post this mindless shit, at least make sure nobody else has already?
 
Silkysm00th said:
GAF: I'm having sex with a knife wielding maniac who has just stabbed me and i'm dieing... what should i do?

Whatever it is, the obvious solution won't work. The only real treatment (and cure) is 500CCs of attention. Stat!

Anyway, I hope this is all a hoax. No one should be tormented by a millionaire from jail.
 
Cops are involved? If you guys fear for your life you talk to them and go into witness protection or something. No brainer.

All I see is you making up a story or bragging about fixing to be rich honestly.
 
Have half a mind to say that this thread is either BS or exaggerated, but...

If the cops won't do anything, go to the local media. They eat this kind of thing up.

That way, the cops will be all like "well fuck, if something does happen to this guy's GF, we'll be up shit creek."

But if they don't do anything and this ends with the guy driving off the Golden Gate bridge after chasing you around in his dark SUV, you get to shop around to have a made-for-TV movie made. It's a win/win.
 
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