Don't give up. Its their loss, and not yours. You have a lot to offer, and you'll be a great boyfriend to a woman one day. Keep putting yourself out there, and you'll find someone(especially someone who doesn't have anxiety). I promise.
I honestly think the issue they are too much like me, unsure about life and having difficulty connecting with others, they are in the same place as me. Maybe all of us didn't quite understand what we should be doing on an online dating site.
These are very sweet, reverent, caring, young ladies. I certainly respect them and I believe they respect me. I feel downtrodden and in despair, yet I recognize that they did nothing wrong. I hope I can at least make their aquantice in friendship. One lady told me she will talk to me "tommorrow
".
The weird thing is that they are the ones who initiated contact with me and they both decided to stop courting due to personal discomfort and anxiety. I wonder what I have done that may have both enticed them yet also dissuaded them. I thought my conversations with one of them was going swimmingly. She laughed at my jokes, told me about herself, and seemed to genuinely take interest in my affairs.
Try to talk to more girls in your church. Building up that experience in person is very valuable as I personally find it hard to communicate with women for the first time on dating apps or social media
Maybe online companionship is not my forte. I certainly wouldn't know how to talk to ladies irl. I would also be afraid of distracting someone in Church. Though maybe I should try talking to strangers in groups I belong to.
I thank you both, and may God bless you two
CyberPanda
and
Halo is Back
. You guys have been very kind to me. Also, though not a part of the conversation, since I am showing gratitude, I would also like to thank
haxan7
for being particularly warm to me whenever I seemed down on a thread he was also on (ex. 69 thread). You are nice men.
