I've been reluctant to engage in this discussion since things get heated pretty easily, but I guess, remaining silent is even worse.
I don't like labeling. I don't like generalizing people. Saying things like "gamers are over" and labeling "gamers" as a group of people prone to sexism, racism and misogyny is nothing more than a form of fear mongering.
Things are getting out of hand. Lately, I've seen an escalation of negative press about gamers, specifically, male gamer.
It seems that (in certain articles) we've all been judged guilty (at least, that's the tone I personally perceive that those articles were written in - I'm not asking you to agree with me). Guilty by the very choice of our hobby and being of a male gender (guilt by the very act of being born into a certain group kinda reminds me of what Nazis were doing to the minorities like Jews, Black people, Romani, etc., and in turn what was done to Germans during and after WW2 (all Germans were considered Nazis, in spite of many opposing the regime and even those having the courage to shelter the ones being prosecuted).
This isn't feminism. Feminism isn't obsessed with demonizing men. I've always perceived feminism as a movement to bring women to equal rights as men have, and instead, this wave of articles and videos seems to have only one purpose, and that is to induce a form of "male (gamer) guilt".
I'm a gamer and I'm innocent in this matter. You will never hear a racial, sexual or misogynistic slur come out of my mouth. But you know how people uneducated in this matter will react when they hear that?
"Oh, so you are one of those spouting hateful shit over you mic when playing games"?
"Why are you so angry?"
"I read online that you guys say some nasty shit to women. Why do you have to be this way?"
And why will they say that? Because I've been labeled and people like generalizing (see how we've traveled full circle?).
There will always be assholes. One taxi driver, when I went to Thailand, tried to scam me. When I returned to my country, how do you think I reacted? Do you think I said "god, those Thai people are such fucking scammers"? Of course not, I said "god, I had this asshole taxi driver tried to scam me, but rest of the drivers were really nice and helpful". I isolated the guilt to an individual and made sure people knew that this was one guy and that it wasn't a Thai or taxi driver thing. And that's how you do things. You name names and you don't create groups.
Guilt is never a collective thing. It should always be on an individual level.
Sarkeesian wasn't attacked by the Evil League of Male Gamers. Those that attacked her have names. Those that insult, humiliate or threaten us always have names.
Name them.