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Well I have a morality question about my girlfriend....
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SquiddyCracker
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You're pointing out her flaws (exagerating them in the process and leaving out mitigating factors) in order to gain cookie-points with your GAF-pals, or she is genuinely a total bitch.
So either you're a douche, or on the recipent end of a whip.
Devolution
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This should be marketed as a pill. New Dick Plus now with flavor enhancers.
So you... restart the creation of your dick but with all the previous knowledge, equipment and experience of your previous runthrough?
Graffgored
A term which suggests that a male is completely and utterly taken advantage of by a deviant woman. The subject may be denied fornication repeatedly, subsequently forced to masturbate while his partner sleeps. Furthermore, he lacks the necessary testicular fortitude to leave her - realizing ultimately that is he simply a pawn in her game of sexual chess.
Chris: "Yo, did you hear they that didn't invite Sarah's boyfriend to Disney with us?"
David: "Yeah, I heard it's because she's banging the guy that dresses up as Donald Duck".
Chris: "No shit? Man, her boyfriend is getting graffgored hard LOL"
Submitted to UD. We'll see it it goes through some day.
A term which suggests that a male is completely and utterly taken advantage of by a deviant woman. The subject may be denied fornication repeatedly, subsequently forced to masturbate while his partner sleeps. Furthermore, he lacks the necessary testicular fortitude to leave her - realizing ultimately that is he simply a pawn in her game of sexual chess.
Chris: "Yo, did you hear they that didn't invite Sarah's boyfriend to Disney with us?"
David: "Yeah, I heard it's because she's banging the guy that dresses up as Donald Duck".
Chris: "No shit? Man, her boyfriend is getting graffgored hard LOL"
Submitted to UD. We'll see it it goes through some day.
BigEvilTurtle
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Essentially yeah. Graffgor's girl has moved on to a dude that has already mastered his dick.
Graffgor you've got your work cut out for ya.
Alebrije
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Its hard to give you an advice with the information you provide, We are talking about just a moment of an overall relationship. If you have maneged to be with her 1.5 years you should know why she had little empaty, you sure is your girlfriend and not an extreme case of friendzone?
I think the "natural" response of a girlfirend in these cases is somehting like : - I am so sorry for your mom , of course I will go with you to the hospital. Do not want to sound rude just is so extrange she does want but maybe she has a valid point; maybe she hate hospitals, maybe she hates your mom but again after 1.5 years you should know that.
The best you can do is talk with her , is the only way you can know.
I think the "natural" response of a girlfirend in these cases is somehting like : - I am so sorry for your mom , of course I will go with you to the hospital. Do not want to sound rude just is so extrange she does want but maybe she has a valid point; maybe she hate hospitals, maybe she hates your mom but again after 1.5 years you should know that.
The best you can do is talk with her , is the only way you can know.
Read between the lines hombre.
Lol. There is definetly someone else, she will continue to drag this relationship out until she has had enough of it. Break up with her, break any contact and concentrate on your mom. You will find another spouse but you will never have another mother, spend time with her.
Oh man, that's just slightly harsh.
Sometimes we need to see to believe...
Heheheeheheheeeeee....
OT: Dump this mess, and take a break...then go find a new mess.
It sounds like you two have a completely different personality/mindset when it comes to these kinds of issues. I'd re-evaluate your relationship and see if you two actually meet each other in the emotional part of it because if that's not the case then maybe it's time to break up and find someone that's more compatible with you. /expert armchair analyst
Dr_Boris_Goltz
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I'm not a character... I'm just new to a lot of things, especially for my age.
I'm seeing her tomorrow, so we'll see what happens.
I'm seeing her tomorrow, so we'll see what happens.
Finn of Ooo
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I wouldn't break up with her over not come over, that apology shit would get her ass thrown to the curb though. You don't treat someone you care about that way.
Bro, I'm sorry this is going to sound harsh. Grow some balls and have some self respect. If you can't respect yourself, no else will. i.e. tell this chick to take a walk.
ok i'm back. and I have some ideas.
Graffigor, why don't you do something amazing and just totally disappear from this woman's life, without notice and without a trace?
Like a magic trick. You never answer the phone, make it all but impossible for her to see you. When she breaks down and knocks on your door, you're not home.
Why don't you make breaking up interesting? Fun even?
I'm not saying you fake your death, but if you can make her believe that you're dead, and amazingly so...that would be cool too.
for some reason that "I can only sign in 3 people" line...haha did you want to go?
Graffigor, why don't you do something amazing and just totally disappear from this woman's life, without notice and without a trace?
Like a magic trick. You never answer the phone, make it all but impossible for her to see you. When she breaks down and knocks on your door, you're not home.
Why don't you make breaking up interesting? Fun even?
I'm not saying you fake your death, but if you can make her believe that you're dead, and amazingly so...that would be cool too.
for some reason that "I can only sign in 3 people" line...haha did you want to go?
ThoseDeafMutes
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Or not. That's how I got dumped and it was absolutely awful. If he's going to break up then just break up, don't make this some "revenge" thing.
hrm. I don't agree. Not so much a revenge thing. More like the Avengers.
But I'm assuming you weren't puppy dogging your caring SO at the time. She's playing it crooked, so I think making things interesting could be called for.
deafmutes i am not a bad person.
haha being passive aggressive is so fun and mature!
Dude...she's up to no good.
it's not passive aggressive, I was expecting someone to bring out that ole saw. :jnc Passive aggressive would be talking about it, getting into an argument, fighting, breaking up, and never talking to her again.
Active Aggressive would be calling her up and giving her the words and never speaking to her again.
This is something else.
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self containment.
I remembered the post you made about her friend and clicked on your old thread from a link someone posted here.
I mean just reread all you have said about her and think what it all means.
I mean just reread all you have said about her and think what it all means.
Amibguous Cad
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"You should have known" is always, always, always a terrible thing to think in a relationship.
While she's oblivious, if you had needed her to come over, you should have said so! Communication is always key. And if you purposefully didn't in order to test whether or not she would come over on her own initiative, you fail at relationships.
While she's oblivious, if you had needed her to come over, you should have said so! Communication is always key. And if you purposefully didn't in order to test whether or not she would come over on her own initiative, you fail at relationships.
Joe Shlabotnik
Banned
Also, OP--lots of people have nice qualities. Almost everyone, in fact. People with nice qualities can still treat other people like shit sometimes, and be an awful girlfriend or boyfriend.
A person's worst says more about them than their best.
A person's worst says more about them than their best.
Yeah, ThoseDeafMutes, Graffgor's situation calls for more dire stakes. He should be like "sorry girl but I can't be seeing you tonight, I'm at Five Guys and they would only let me sign in 3 people" and then never speak to her again. I wouldn't say The Avengers, I'd say something more like Catch Me If You Can.
im beginning to think you really are George Costanza.
WordAssassin
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She was at DisneyLand? Graffgor you live in LA? I live in Burbank, if you need a cool friend to hang out with after you dump your completely awful lazy shitty girlfriend I am down.
"Sorry I'm not you" in response to ANY of my family being in the hospital and my girl not giving a fuck would result in an IMMEDIATE end of the relationship. Even close friends in the hospital. Hell "sorry I'm not you" as a response to anything she did to upset me is game over. Fuck that.
"Sorry I'm not you" in response to ANY of my family being in the hospital and my girl not giving a fuck would result in an IMMEDIATE end of the relationship. Even close friends in the hospital. Hell "sorry I'm not you" as a response to anything she did to upset me is game over. Fuck that.
This is the same man who had to ask GAF how to find a job. How to declare for a major in school. AND how to utilize his free time effectively. I'm not a rocket scientist, but clearly friends are out of the fucking equation here....
Vigilant Walrus
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But is this really true?
Because when it really comes down to it, you are never going to have a relationship that is sure to last? Even those relationships that are on the best odds might fail at the blink of an eye, just like either(or both) persons might lose feelings for the other.
It's what I have been going through right now. I can relate with the OP. I told my GF that I didn't feel she was affectious enough and I was unsure about our future, but she made me realize that her approach was just that she takes-one-day at a time. I was basically asking for reassurances and guarantees. I didn't wanted to waste my time with a "maybe".
But like OP, I too am addicted to the pussy even if its not on a constant tap like early in the relationship. It's clear we suffer from the same thing. Being unable to find other suitable womens in their place.
I think it's like with children. If you don't set limits to yourself, they will walk over you and become insane. Instinctively and without and conscious thought they will take over and control. Sometimes for the worse. Sometimes it will make them unhappy because you're not a man who takes charge. And sometimes both men and kids look up to you, the man to lead the way.
Dr_Boris_Goltz
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Whats she doing tonight?
This pretty much cements the trolling for me.
Dr_Boris_Goltz
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