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Well I have a morality question about my girlfriend....
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Break up over text and post results
K
kittens
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That's incredibly shitty of her. I'd try talking with her more and further clarifying your feelings and concerns. If she continues to not care, I'd end it.
(Edit : That's in response to the OP. I haven't read through the whole thread.)
(Edit : That's in response to the OP. I haven't read through the whole thread.)
Hero_of_the_Day
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sonikokaruto
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Sorry i am not you?
I'd dump her ass in an instant!
I'd dump her ass in an instant!
is this thread still a thing? OP, u single yet?
aka;
she could only get her and her ex boyfriend/friend signed in @ spagos?
OOoohhhh nice. Stay strong.
aka;
she could only get her and her ex boyfriend/friend signed in @ spagos?
OOoohhhh nice. Stay strong.
im glad you are better. i have anxiety and depression problems as well, shit sucks, its fucking horrible. its like being trapped in a cage, it feels like drowning constantly. i have no energy and am afraid of everyone. i hate people, and i hate myself. i dont wish this state of mind and emotional distress on anyone, its a nightmare.
i attract sociopaths, i befriended a bunch of them and i grew up with 2 of them, and im still trying to fix it all. i just started thinking, how much abuse can i take, i cant do this anymore, i need to be away from these idiots, and im still trying to get away from them.
how much bullshit are you gonna take, how much more time will pass before something is done.
dude, your putting this off, i think your brother would have understood.
i wouldnt be surprised if your still with her a month down the road.
im learning what codependency is, and what abuse is, and its scary, its all confusing and scary. but im tired of being afraid, and im trying desperately to fix it and sort all my emotional garbage out.
i just see a whipping boy that is miserable but thinks that he deserves what hes getting, and you dont, and its frustrating to see it happen.
the longer this goes on, the worse things will get.
davepoobond
you can't put a price on sparks
Excuses, that's all you ever have. Should we really continue to care if you'll never listen to our suggestions?
Break up over text, she doesn't deserve anything better tbh
Sounds to me more like you're just putting this off. Stop making excuses for yourself and talk to her.
This.
Thanks for the reply.
SquiddyCracker
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Just break up over texts, and don't back down if she contacts you to tell you that you're unfair and should ask to be forgiven by her.
davepoobond
you can't put a price on sparks
you might as well cheat on her. she's cheating on you, almost assuredly.
Dr_Boris_Goltz
Banned
This is absolutely going to sound like a joke post now, but she actually broke up with me through a text at one point in our relationship. I cried and begged her to take me back...
I don't particularly like myself...
I don't particularly like myself...
out0v0rder
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what in the shit.
Go away.
You got some money?
Hooker. Seriously.
Double benefit of letting you realise this harpy isn't the sole form of sex you can experience in this life, and letting you hit rock-bottom so you can begin your recovery.
BigEvilTurtle
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Fernando Fernandez
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What was her reasoning for wanting to break up previously?
Baraka in the White House
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Yep. She'd probably just laugh at a text at this point.
Aw man. Dude. I'm on your side.
You don't even need to see her. Just go into the kitchen, grab a china plate, smash it to the floor, and consider the relationship broken.
I read the first three pages and seemed to be agreeing mostly with what Opiate was saying.
I'm not really sure the revelations that have occurred in the following 9 pages, but to me this does not seem like a relationship worth continuing.
EDIT: Read far more of the thread. What a fucking mess. Break up immediately.
I'm not really sure the revelations that have occurred in the following 9 pages, but to me this does not seem like a relationship worth continuing.
EDIT: Read far more of the thread. What a fucking mess. Break up immediately.
It isn't worth continuing. OP is content to be a doormat.
You can still fix this, man. She knows she can get away with anything so prove her wrong.
He doesn't need to fix shit, he just needs to GTFO.
Oh, I don't mean fix the relationship. That's fucked. I mean he can still fix this doormat cycle he's found himself in.
Dr_Boris_Goltz
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She said I didn't trust her when I brought up concerns about her best friend being the ex and the like... Said I was not trusting in general.
I mean almost all of her guy friends she slept with at some point, and she would still cut their hair and have one on one meetings. She actually cooled off on this considerably after talking to her parents about this and them actually saying I have a point.
I mean almost all of her guy friends she slept with at some point, and she would still cut their hair and have one on one meetings. She actually cooled off on this considerably after talking to her parents about this and them actually saying I have a point.
Stop rationalizing and dump the dead weight. She isn't worth another moment of your time.
DualShadow
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What the fuck dude.
Break up with her already, clearly isn't a healthy relationship for you.
Lumination
'enry 'ollins
I've been quietly following this thread (and your last one), and I think we've reached a breaking point.
There's almost no doubt in my mind the kind of person she is. Drop her. You can do much better, and you'll be much better off.
There's almost no doubt in my mind the kind of person she is. Drop her. You can do much better, and you'll be much better off.
OJdaKiller
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Screw this!! You are being realistic with your concerns. You know what Chris Rock said about women having male friends...Something to the effect of there are no friends, just some dicks behind glass..Break in case of emergency. She's just keeping them on hold as "friends." It's true and any woman that tells you differently is lying or too dense to know the intentions of her "friends." Or she's just so starved for attention and needs to keep all potential avenues for attention open, that when your mom came down with health problems that's a threat to her and her ability to have your full attention. She'd rather have her own attention needs met than be supportive of you and help you feel comfortable at a difficult time.
You gotta kick her to the curb!
dude....
you need therapy, like, a lot of it.
so... shes a whore, and you tattled on her to her parents, and even her parents agree shes a terrible person.
are you guys in middle school? this sounds like the behavior of 14 year olds.
i dont know what else to say, you need a life coach, this shit is ridiculous.
Surface of Me
I'm not an NPC. And neither are we.
You need to break up with her. Pick up the phone, text her "Dropped." Never reply or acknowledge any attempts she makes to contact you after that.
This post is unsettling in its own way.
Devolution
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As someone with male friends, no. Also it's funny how heterocentric that all is.
Is it?
If a woman is keeping previous sexual partners around, there's a reason for it, and that reason probably isn't one you'll like.
Surface of Me
I'm not an NPC. And neither are we.
Wasn't so much disagreeing with that as I was with the presumption that all women keep male friends for that purpose.
Recent posts suggest she is actually digging in her Dick:The Greatest Hits collection.
That happened a long time ago.
I know, and I'm saying it's crazy to think that isn't the case. Not "all" in the literal sense, but I'd assume that of the vast majority.
Though the presumption was that a woman keeping around previous sexual partners was keeping them around for that purpose, not all male friends.
Doctor West
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I almost want to cheat on the OP based on what a doormat he is. I'm starting to think that this is a joke thread.
Maybe if you're really good, she'll let you watch as she fucks her new boyfriend.
Maybe if you're really good, she'll let you watch as she fucks her new boyfriend.
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