Watchdogs.
For one, we're in the middle of an uproar about government surveillance, and yet, people have absolutely no issues with Joe Shmoe hacking everything in sight and finding people's personal information?
Which brings up the second point of how said game treats personal information. Gay, Lesbian, Transgender... These are for the person to disclose only, when they feel most comfortable to. The entire situation irked me to no end. Yes, its your choice to do what you want with the information. So why give a Homophobic/Transphobic person a tool to murder their hate targets?
Don't you think that's a discussion and stance that gives the game depth? I'm confused by what people are inferring with their examples of what's "morally objectionable." If you're saying the content and actions within the game are morally objectionable then that's one thing, but are you implying the game as a piece of fiction is morally objectionable? Those are two very distinct things that need to be cleared I feel like.
As for your second point, again, what's the issue? A homophobic/transphobic person is going to be a homophobic/transphobic person regardless if the game gives them the tools to act on their feelings. This is what makes games so fascinating, the player carves their own story and creates the character they inhabit in games. It doesn't make the game morally objectionable, the player is morally objectionable.