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Perhaps if you read the rest of my post you'd see that I already addressed this, but perhaps I was not clear enough.

The rest of your post contained nothing that explained why saying "there is a real world out there" is incredibly insensitive.

You completely disregarded her concerns with a trite blanket statement that the real-world has what she wants. Which is particularly amusing considering we're on GAF specifically because we play video games that allow us to experience things that we never will in reality, which makes it doubly disconcerting how many people are so dismissive and judgemental within this very thread.

But the real world has the things the poster in question wanted to experience, this is what i posted and its what you blew up to be "insensitive". Dont start making arguments up that nobody made, you literally took a sentence and made a mountain out of it.

As for your argument, all the things such as "being cute", dancing, meeting new people, you can already do that. Its called real life. What is wrong with it? Well reading your post and your prior posts do show a resentment and even fear towards people.

Explain how that is insensitive.

If you cannot address your own reply to me and substantiate it, then just give up. You started it, you end it, get it? If you cant i can end it for you by putting you on my ignore list and not wasting my time replying to you.
 
There's no risk of failure.

It will simply allow people already incapable of functioning in society to cocoon themselves further within some sort of fantasy. Can you imagine what would happen to someone like that if something negative happens to them within their own make-believe world? It would destroy them.
 
I'm not telling others not to respond. Like I said before, people have looked at things form their perspective, I'm asking instead if people have considered OPs perspective.



I haven't been able to he through the whole thread but this is what I was wondering. Most of what I'm reading is people dismissing OPs idea because they couldn't imagine doing it themselves or arguing that society would be worse of, but I'll continue reading.
If you haven't gotten through the thread, then go do so and stop derailing. If you've got a beef with posts, address them. People are specifically considering the OPs perspective here.
 
In OP's case, wanting to have a permanent VR world seems counterproductive:

- these issues seem very deep (and obviously painful) and there's no guarantee VR would all of a sudden cure their root cause(s). This requires professional help. I'm absolutely unqualified to even form an opinion on OP's condition and most people pushing one way or the other ITT probably are.

- there's no reason to believe VR won't mirror behaviors and tropes from the real world. Hell, that's the underlying idea of discussing social issues in media: one echoes the other and if you want to fix things, you could start by trying to fix the media.


I'm baffled by the people saying OP is trolling. They should take one minute to think about the situation:
- either OP has been acting a character for some time and I don't see what the net benefit would be to calling her out on it.
- or OP is genuine in everything she wrote. In that case, given everything she's written here, calling her a troll is probably very hurtful.
Given the low probability of the first proposition and the negative impact of the second, it's an asshole thing to do to say she's trolling.

(Edited to replace my use of "they", I had missed OP addressing how she identifies, sorry!)
 
But the real world has the things the poster in question wanted to experience
Cripes, this is exactly what I was trying to address. You are just blindly asserting this without actually considering or even explaining how plausible this is, and you're still doing it.
[...] this is what i posted and its what you blew up to be "insensitive". Dont start making arguments up that nobody made, you literally took a sentence and made a mountain out of it.

If you cannot address your own reply to me and substantiate it, then just give up. You started it, you end it, get it?
I just did.

And let me just take a moment to point out the irony of publically declaring your intention to blacklist me if my reply isn't up to your (incredibly ill-defined) standards.
 
I don't think living in a virtual world = escapism. Also "real" and "virtual" are very ambivalent terms.

We all live in virtual worlds depending on how you look at it, be it digital or organic or whatever you might call it.
 
Cripes, this is exactly what I was trying to address. You are just blindly asserting this without actually considering or even explaining how plausible this is, and you're still doing it.

I just did.


No you did not.

This is the post you replied to originally:

As for your argument, all the things such as "being cute", dancing, meeting new people, you can already do that. Its called real life. What is wrong with it? Well reading your post and your prior posts do show a resentment and even fear towards people.
 
Please read and respond to individual posts you believe are failing to do that, or stop derailing conversation.

I'm not talking about an individual poster, I'm asking others to consider a different outcome than a negative one in which the OP would be better of by wanting to live in a virtual world. I'm trying to expand the conversation not derail it.
 
Can you please call me a girl, instead? I identify as a girl. Please?

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OP, I was born with several crippling congenital heart and lung defects. My left diaphragm is paralyzed. My vascular system is all fucked up. As a result, I have spent a significant portion of my life in hospitals, fighting for my life. Once, I was pronounced dead only to start breathing again a few seconds later. To this day, my doctors haven't been able to figure out why I didn't sustain crippling brain damage. I have spent birthdays and christmases not in joyous celebration surrounded by my loved ones, but in a hospital bed, fighting for each and every breath.

Today, I still require a wheelchair when I leave the house and I'm hooked up to a ventilator, without which, I would surely die. But I'm alive. I have amazing friends and a wonderful family. I date women, I go to the movies, I eat out at restaurants and I have experiences. I met Bryan Cranston once! I talked to him for over half an hour! I have a great job as a reporter for a large magazine. The words I write are read by hundreds of thousands of people. I wouldn't trade any of this for anything.

I don't say this to brag or to invalidate your problems. You have body dysphoria. I don't know what that's like. I can't imagine. And I think everyone has their own problems that are significant to them. On some level, the option of living a VR life with no hardships or pain is understandable. But it would be incredibly unwise, if you ask me.

I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't have those struggles. I'm proud to have fought through those experiences. If today, a doctor came to me and said I could be perfectly normal and not have to use a wheelchair or a ventilator anymore and he could cure me 100% (and wasn't lying), I would probably not accept. Same with VR. Certainly VR, in the future, would allow me to escape my reality. But it would still be an escape. It would be running away. And it would invalidate my experiences and my struggles. Everything I've gone through would suddenly be for naught. Which isn't to say I wouldn't use VR. I'm psyched for the Oculus Rift, but only as a means to play different kinds of videogames. I'm not interested in a permanent VR life.

I used to think my medical defects were a curse and there was a time in my life where I became overcome with great and deep depression. But as I said before, the hardships I've gone through have molded me into the person I am today. I truly believe pain and struggle is a necessary evil.

I only just read this post and I have to say - thank you for sharing this, Zane. Your attitude is extremely inspirational, in a good sense.
 
No you did not.

This is the post you replied to originally:
You are doing a very poor job of communicating your intent. Not sure what you want from me here.

You qualifying your statement by saying that her problem with real-life stems from a "resentment and even fear towards people" does not change my response at all. You are still entirely dismissing the point that real-life does not adequately provide solutions to her problems and replacing it with your armchair analysis.
Gross.
 
I'm not talking about an individual poster, I'm asking others to consider a different outcome than a negative one in which the OP would be better of by wanting to live in a virtual world. I'm trying to expand the conversation not derail it.
I don't see how you're expanding the conversation. If you see a way in which OP is better off living in a virtual world, say it yourself and propose your idea. Many of us don't agree. You're free to actually add to the conversation if you want.
 
I'm not talking about an individual poster, I'm asking others to consider a different outcome than a negative one in which the OP would be better of by wanting to live in a virtual world. I'm trying to expand the conversation not derail it.

Those responding have tended to consider what you're asking for. They've arrived at the conclusions they have, and are conveying them through the thread as OP desired. You can tell how much or little they have, based on the content of their posts. Which you're seeming to insist on not taking into account.

You're saying "I'm asking others to consider a different outcome than a negative one in which the OP would be better of by wanting to live in a virtual world." Would you mind explaining why do you think it would be a good thing? In effect, answering the primary question of the original topic with your point of view.
 
You are doing a very poor job of communicating your intent. Not sure what you want from me here.

Intent with you? I have no intent with you, you started talking to me. I have no interest in talking to you at all.

You are still entirely dismissing the point that real-life does not adequately provide solutions to her problems and replacing it with your armchair analysis.

Who said they would "provide solutions to her problems"? How can i dismiss something i never claimed? I never told the person in question to just go out there and be with people. Because there is a real possibility that the poster cannot do that for wide variety of reasons. I remarked on how the things the poster wanted to experience in the virtual world were things the poster could experience in the real world. Which told me, in my EXPERT ANALYSIS that the person wanted to be social but needed a shield of sorts. At no point have i told this person what they should do.

Read the post you reply to, and stop making shit up. Made up arguments and stances in your head do not qualify in real life.
 
I'd like to live in a virtual world. I have too much social anxiety to function like a normal human being.

I obviously can't know what you mean as too much, but as someone struggling with social anxiety for years I can tell you one thing for sure: it is not a permanent state. It can be fought and if not entirely beaten, then at least controlled to allow you to function normally.

And believe me, the satisfaction of looking back at how you functioned a year ago, comparing it with today, and realizing you've made enormous progress with yourself - there's no virtual experience that can measure up.

So don't just give up on yourself like this.
 
Living in a virtual world would mean living in an artificial reality created by mere humans.


Which is much more inferior to living in actual reality created by the terrifying neutrality of cosmic chaos (or god).
 
I don't see how you're expanding the conversation. If you see a way in which OP is better off living in a virtual world, say it yourself and propose your idea. Many of us don't agree. You're free to actually add to the conversation if you want.

Like I said, I was trying. I'm not as good at expressing myself as others here so asking them to atleast consider a different outcome was my way of trying. I think we could all agree that some people would be better of in a virtual world, simply based on how different we all are. So entertaning the idea that OP could be one of those people shouldn't be that hard.
 
You qualifying your statement by saying that her problem with real-life stems from a "resentment and even fear towards people" does not change my response at all. You are still entirely dismissing the point that real-life does not adequately provide solutions to her problems and replacing it with your armchair analysis.

How can you say that when HolyBakai, by her own admission, refuses to seek these solutions to her problems because they happen to fall under the aegis of "real life?"
 
Intent with you? I have no intent with you, you started talking to me. I have no interest in talking to you at all.
Well, that's a nice way to continue a conversation...

Who said they would "provide solutions to her problems"? How can i dismiss something i never claimed? I never told the person in question to just go out there and be with people. Because there is a real possibility that the poster cannot do that for wide variety of reasons. I remarked on how the things the poster wanted to experience in the virtual world were things the poster could experience in the real world. Which told me, in my EXPERT ANALYSIS that the person wanted to be social but needed a shield of sorts. At no point have i told this person what they should do.

Read the post you reply to, and stop making shit up. Made up arguments and stances in your head do not qualify in real life.
And I was saying that, at the very least, the transexual component is not something she could necessarily experience in the real world (aside from the very implausible scenario that she is either wealthy or has wealthy backers), and that asserting as such is a failure on your part to recognize that fact.

But it is clear you did not intend to make a strong statement that she should do one thing or the other, so I will apologize for drawing your ire like this, and I will note that I shouldn't be shocked or surprised that anyone who doesn't suffer from body dysphoria themselves likely doesn't understand the full extent of how paralyzing it can be. Hence, I will retract my statement that it is 'appalling' and instead say that it is somewhat disconcerting.
How can you say that when HolyBakai, by her own admission, refuses to seek these solutions to her problems because they happen to fall under the aegis of "real life?"
I need to clarify that I am speaking specifically of the transexual component, not the social component, though the two often go hand-in-hand with one another. You should not be surprised at all if someone who suffers from body dysphoria (mild or otherwise) has their confidence shoot up dramatically when they are in a body closer to what they are comfortable with.
 
I don't think there's a substitute for the touch of another human. Unless you like animals or weird hentai shit that I guess could work in virtual reality.
 
OP, I was born with several crippling congenital heart and lung defects. My left diaphragm is paralyzed. My vascular system is all fucked up. As a result, I have spent a significant portion of my life in hospitals, fighting for my life. Once, I was pronounced dead only to start breathing again a few seconds later. To this day, my doctors haven't been able to figure out why I didn't sustain crippling brain damage. I have spent birthdays and christmases not in joyous celebration surrounded by my loved ones, but in a hospital bed, fighting for each and every breath.

Today, I still require a wheelchair when I leave the house and I'm hooked up to a ventilator, without which, I would surely die. But I'm alive. I have amazing friends and a wonderful family. I date women, I go to the movies, I eat out at restaurants and I have experiences. I met Bryan Cranston once! I talked to him for over half an hour! I have a great job as a reporter for a large magazine. The words I write are read by hundreds of thousands of people. I wouldn't trade any of this for anything.

I don't say this to brag or to invalidate your problems. You have body dysphoria. I don't know what that's like. I can't imagine. And I think everyone has their own problems that are significant to them. On some level, the option of living a VR life with no hardships or pain is understandable. But it would be incredibly unwise, if you ask me.

I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't have those struggles. I'm proud to have fought through those experiences. If today, a doctor came to me and said I could be perfectly normal and not have to use a wheelchair or a ventilator anymore and he could cure me 100% (and wasn't lying), I would probably not accept. Same with VR. Certainly VR, in the future, would allow me to escape my reality. But it would still be an escape. It would be running away. And it would invalidate my experiences and my struggles. Everything I've gone through would suddenly be for naught. Which isn't to say I wouldn't use VR. I'm psyched for the Oculus Rift, but only as a means to play different kinds of videogames. I'm not interested in a permanent VR life.

I used to think my medical defects were a curse and there was a time in my life where I became overcome with great and deep depression. But as I said before, the hardships I've gone through have molded me into the person I am today. I truly believe pain and struggle is a necessary evil.

I just wanted to chime in and say this is an amazing post. Thank you for that little bit of inspiration we all need every now and then, Zane.
 
Okay. I probably shouldn't do this because it's so tangential to the topic of the thread but at the same time I am unwilling to simply let it go, so here goes:

On the flipside, it's extremely easy to argue for the status quo as you don't have to do anything at all to work to change it. It's also the most small-minded route to take as you don't have to even consider answering those difficult questions about fixing the problems of our world.

Needless to say, I refuse to accept that.

You're acting like the world has been stagnant under capitalism. Wanna know what's happened lately? Okay, here's some factage for you: Renewable power sources comprise 22% of the world's energy, the number of people in developing countries living in extreme poverty has halved in the last twenty-five years, worldwide gender inequality is shrinking remarkably quick even in less-developed countries, crime per capita has been dropping steadily for the last two decades, and child mortality in third world countries has dropped down to half what it was in less than three decades.

How's that for a status quo?

Obviously I am NOT arguing that it would happen all at once. Obviously there would have to be a transition period as we work towards the goal of making the world a better place to live for everyone instead of just those who are fortunate enough to be born in the right place at the right time, with the right circumstances to enable their success.

Allowing people the basic right to have shelter, electricity, food, and water (which, I should remind you, are essentially required if one is to continue their 'pursuit of happiness') would go a looooooong way to helping with this, and it's something we can do today.

Which we're doing as a collective society. See above. Throwing capitalism out with the bad practices of society is throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

False premise. We already have technology that enables us to harvest food with a minimum of manpower, hence there is absolutely no need for people to volunteer themselves to help with that.

And before you (inevitably) bring it up, the same goes for construction and manufacturing. We can build houses out of prefabricated parts and assemble them on-site. A large part of the reason we don't do this is because those construction jobs are so important to the people who hold them, because without them they have no livelihood. That manual labour also drives up the price of the housing, which is of course desirable when your motive is profit.

I can tell you've never worked construction. I have. Even triple-checked, the parts which arrive on-site are never a perfect match for what needs to be done to install the manufactured parts.

Also, you're arguing about giving people jobs they need to support themselves as means of maximizing profit. That is a contradictory statement.

I don't even need to go specifically into scientists as a collective. Just in society as a whole, money does a very poor job of motivating anyone.

I should also note that this is the same line of argument global warming liars (calling them "denialists" gives them too much credit) use when they try to argue that scientists are somehow being bribed into creating a global warming conspiracy. It's false. No way around it.
You're completely fixated on the concept of a utopia above all else, and ignore my underlying arguments.

When your arguments begin with "In a perfect world" or a statement close to that, it's why I'm fixating on it. You're talking about the end goal while glossing over the long, painful, and perhaps even impossible road which leads society from where it is from where we'd all like it to be.

Quite frankly, I am beginning to wonder if I have anything to gain from engaging with you, given that you are so far being rather disingenuous in your argumentation.

But let's try this again. We already know that money is a very poor motivator and only really works to get people to perform uninteresting tasks that they would otherwise have no interest in. Those same uninteresting tasks can be performed with automated machinery in place of people (which we already do for a lot of manufacturing tasks), which displaces a lot of long-standing jobs that people used to depend on for their livelihoods.

You can't just automate menial tasks. It is nowhere near that simple. You're saying "When this is automated" like it's a given that a task CAN be automated. Businesses aren't deciding not to automate because they want the poor huddled masses to have their minimum wage jobs, they're deciding not to automate because it's not worth the cost of automation.

As technology advances, outdated jobs are replaced. This isn't a new development. This has been happening for centuries.

These jobs will continue to disappear over the long-haul due to technological unemployment. This creates a paradox wherein we are more capable of productivity than ever before within human history, yet, for whatever reason, we can't quite seem to work out how to distribute these goods in an equitable manner because we lack the jobs to pay people to buy these goods.

How do you plan to address this in the confines of the monetary system?

New jobs will appear. They always have and always will. Just as one example, because it's a growing industry I'm involved in, electronics recycling has been booming in the last decade and a half. There's no way to automate the process: There's too many electronics on the market and too many ways to dismantle them to recycle them. You need manpower to do the job.

I work at a job for which the concept would have been laughed at two decades ago. The company I work at takes apart electronics and recycles 98% of the weight we take in, reducing the electronics which wind up in landfill. This is an industry which didn't exist in any noticeable form fifteen years ago, and is but one example of how new menial jobs appear to replace old ones as society advances.

Yes, money worked for a long time. Its time is over. It has long since outlived its usefulness. About the time we started instating the use of planned obsolescence and creating an artificial consumer culture that breeds a desire for more, more, more when it was completely unnecessary to do so is about when money began to become a net negative for society instead of a net positive.

The funny thing is, after the industrial revolution, we could very easily have remodeled our society into something far more reasonable by, say, for example, cutting work hours in half across the board and accepting a new status quo where constant growth is not the norm. But instead we created the consumer culture, and look where it's got us now. Hardly something we can be proud of if we ever have to explain all of this to extraterrestrial visitors.

We've advanced our science and our technology by leaps and bounds. I'm damned proud of my society because the consumer culture fuels advancement, and advancement fuels the eventual utopia you claim to want.

We'd just be getting there far more slowly if scientific advancement were retarded by a socialist society.

Now this is a laughable statement. Part of the reason why our economic system is so complex is because we've created this artificial need for more, more, more, and part of it is because we keep applying bandaids to it in an attempt to keep things running smoothly.

Inflation is dead simple, and the fact you don't understand that tells me you have very little idea what you're talking about outside of the pony farts and pixie dreams I mentioned last post: Inflation is the result of existing resources gaining value over time, no more and no less.

Truly finite resources, even ones with pure utility, gain value every second. Every gram of iron, copper, or platinum is more valuable than a gram mined yesterday because there's less of it in the world available for use. This applies to every resource.

Our society is nowhere near being close to running on renewable resources. That is why inflation exists.

Until 100% of the resources used to fuel society are renewable, inflation will exist. It's that simple.

Doubtlessly a new resource-based economy would be highly complex simply due to the nature of managing billions of human beings all across the world... but if we can get rid of awful shit like planned obsolescence, artificial scarcity, poverty, war, and the incredibly irrational trend that is globalization (why do we need to import food from the other side of the goddamn planet?!), it'll be well worth the effort.

A universal basic income would be a stepping stone on the road to the "utopia" as you call it. It's definitely one of the easiest ways to ensure people get their basic needs met, which is a large part of the goal of dropping the monetary system entirely (the other part, obviously, being our need to stop our infinite growth paradigm from destroying the human habitability of our planet).

Do you know why we import food from across the planet? Because those third world countries we import from can grow more food than they can possibly consume. It's the same reason some farms will grow tobacco and import food: The net gain from growing tobacco in a region where it grows easily, with little complications, is more than made up for by the additional expense of having to import food.

Okay, this is stupid. Stop it. You do not get to summarily dismiss my points by plugging your ears and screaming "utopianist! utopianist!"

We have so much evidence now that high inequality results in enormous social problems across the board. You do NOT get to ignore that. If you want me to take you even halfway seriously in this "debate" (and I am being charitable to you right now), you WILL address these points with more intellectual honesty.

This argument is the equivalent of plugging your ears and going "la-la-la-la-la everything is fine I can't hear yooouuu". It is the opposite of an argument. It is a childish dismissal and I won't stand for it.

Address the problems of our monetary system or bow out of the debate. If you cannot propose a solution to these many, quite frankly, terrifying issues that have arisen as a result of our continued dependence on this archaic system, then the real solution is obvious: we must drop it. Dropping it, of course, involves a long transitional period where we gradually work towards the end goal, but it's either we do that or billions of humans perish as a result of our catastrophic shortsightedness and inability to adapt to slowly changing conditions (to use an overly tortured analogy, as if we were sitting in an oven and too numb to realize that we needed to jump out before it cooked us to death).

These problems are real, and we deal with these problems on a daily basis, especially those of us who are unemployed or only part-time employed. Simply ignoring them solves nothing, and if anything, only allows the problems to continue to fester and get even worse over time. It is only when we, collectively, as a society, recognize these problems and begin to push for change that we can see anything truly get better.

Calling me a kettle, pot?

You're ignoring basic economics (which is not a study of money, per se, but a study of how the exchange of basic resources facilitates human development) in order to state that capitalism is bad, while ignoring all the good it demonstrably provides.

Is the world perfect? No.

Is capitalism perfect? No.

Do you have a better solution? Not a chance.

You're basically saying "Well, we drop capitalism, and then eventually things will work out."

That makes no sense.
 
I appreciate everyone who's concerned about my health. But I'm fine and healthy. But this thread is getting.. a little out of hand.

I'm happy. I accept myself for who I am and I love myself for who I am. I don't think that wanting to live in virtual reality means that you're unhappy. But I think if people are sad that if they want to live in virtual reality, that's okay too.

I don't really think so, no one who really accept and has no qualms whatsoever would do this:

Things are becoming too mean for me. I want to live in virtual reality to escape from things like this. This is hurting my feelings. I think I should leave the thread now...

I mean. That's just escaping reality.

Does anyone else imagine OP's posts as a squeaky-voiced, baby-talking anime character?

Yes. And is equally annoying as it sounds.

I don't think OP is coming back.

She will be be back. Maybe not today but surely.

OP, I was born with several crippling congenital heart and lung defects. My left diaphragm is paralyzed. My vascular system is all fucked up. As a result, I have spent a significant portion of my life in hospitals, fighting for my life. Once, I was pronounced dead only to start breathing again a few seconds later. To this day, my doctors haven't been able to figure out why I didn't sustain crippling brain damage. I have spent birthdays and christmases not in joyous celebration surrounded by my loved ones, but in a hospital bed, fighting for each and every breath.

Today, I still require a wheelchair when I leave the house and I'm hooked up to a ventilator, without which, I would surely die. But I'm alive. I have amazing friends and a wonderful family. I date women, I go to the movies, I eat out at restaurants and I have experiences. I met Bryan Cranston once! I talked to him for over half an hour! I have a great job as a reporter for a large magazine. The words I write are read by hundreds of thousands of people. I wouldn't trade any of this for anything.

I don't say this to brag or to invalidate your problems. You have body dysphoria. I don't know what that's like. I can't imagine. And I think everyone has their own problems that are significant to them. On some level, the option of living a VR life with no hardships or pain is understandable. But it would be incredibly unwise, if you ask me.

I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't have those struggles. I'm proud to have fought through those experiences. If today, a doctor came to me and said I could be perfectly normal and not have to use a wheelchair or a ventilator anymore and he could cure me 100% (and wasn't lying), I would probably not accept. Same with VR. Certainly VR, in the future, would allow me to escape my reality. But it would still be an escape. It would be running away. And it would invalidate my experiences and my struggles. Everything I've gone through would suddenly be for naught. Which isn't to say I wouldn't use VR. I'm psyched for the Oculus Rift, but only as a means to play different kinds of videogames. I'm not interested in a permanent VR life.

I used to think my medical defects were a curse and there was a time in my life where I became overcome with great and deep depression. But as I said before, the hardships I've gone through have molded me into the person I am today. I truly believe pain and struggle is a necessary evil.

Talking about grabbing life by the horns and make it your bitch. Thanks for this, is really inspirational.
 
I don't think there's a substitute for the touch of another human. Unless you like animals or weird hentai shit that I guess could work in virtual reality.

Because everyone needs another human's touch? And we're talking about VR, which I'm pretty sure could simulate human touch just fine if we're talking about it being theoretically advanced enough.
 
Like I said, I was trying. I'm not as good at expressing myself as others here so asking them to atleast consider a different outcome was my way of trying. I think we could all agree that some people would be better of in a virtual world, simply based on how different we all are. So entertaning the idea that OP could be one of those people shouldn't be that hard.

If you have an idea, especially a novel one, everyone who matters should regard it, especially if it's well formulated, but even just if it's sincere. I've seen posts here that amount to "honestly, life is hard and I don't have the social tools to feel included in my surroundings, so VR is really appealing on that level," and full stop, I think those are important posts for the discussion. That doesn't mean all ideas are created equal.

But at least try to explain your point. I hope you can get why you telling other people (but not actually responding to the ideas of those people) that they should have taken something into account (even when most already did) because you think they should (but you won't say why).
 
Well, that's a nice way to continue a conversation...

The irony, considering how you started it? You pretty much set the tone yourself. What world do you live in where accusing someone of crap and then expecting them to react how to it? Forget about me acting defensive, because that is not going to happen. As i know i did and said nothing wrong or insensitive.

The only thing i told HolyBakai to do is:

My amateur psychological analysis that you should just take curl up and throw in the trash can is that: you seem to want to live a normal life, but you need some kind of a shield that a virtual reality can provide, hence why you want it.

Thats right, the only thing i told the TC is to completely dismiss MY OPINION, because i dont know HolyBaikai. Therefore anything i say carries no weight.

Talk about irony, because you said i dismissed her opinion. but i dismissed my own. Since you enjoy irony, there you go.

The lesson is read the post you reply to, especially before you start throwing away accusations and made up fantasy arguments that nobody made. Read the post.
 
Because everyone needs another human's touch? And we're talking about VR, which I'm pretty sure could simulate human touch just fine if we're talking about it being theoretically advanced enough.
Psychologically, yes, human touch is essential to bodily and mental health. I too doubt that VR can ever truly simulate it properly.
 
Psychologically, yes, human touch is essential to bodily and mental health. I too doubt that VR can ever truly simulate it properly.

Um, and if I said I actively dislike human touch? Whether or not VR can simulate it properly, I do not believe that it's beneficial to everybody.
 
Because everyone needs another human's touch? And we're talking about VR, which I'm pretty sure could simulate human touch just fine if we're talking about it being theoretically advanced enough.

Sure I guess buds. I guess it's up to the I individual but I don't understand wanting to be away from people in the flesh and not some star trek holodeck wankfest.
 
Um, and if I said I actively dislike human touch? Whether or not VR can simulate it properly, I do not believe that it's beneficial to everybody.
You many not like it, but for the general population, it is normatively a benefit to human beings. Not only is it psychologically and physiologically beneficial for most people, the ability to interpret touch is an inherent part of our evolutionary history.
 
The irony, considering how you started it? You pretty much set the tone yourself. What world do you live in where accusing someone of crap and then expecting them to react how to it? Forget about me acting defensive, because that is not going to happen. As i know i did and said nothing wrong or insensitive.

The only thing i told HolyBakai to do is:
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Thats right, the only thing i told the TC is to completely dismiss MY OPINION, because i dont know HolyBaikai. Therefore anything i say carries no weight.

Talk about irony, because you said i dismissed her opinion. but i dismissed my own. Since you enjoy irony, there you go.

The lesson is read the post you reply to, especially before you start throwing away accusations and made up fantasy arguments that nobody made. Read the post.
I did read the post, and unfortunately you are ignoring my explanation of what about your post seemed insensitive to me.

Nonetheless, point taken. I will take care to avoid starting any posts in the future with inflammatory phrases or accusations. I should know better by now.

Talking about grabbing life by the horns and make it your bitch. Thanks for this, is really inspirational.
I just wanted to chime in and say this is an amazing post. Thank you for that little bit of inspiration we all need every now and then, Zane.
I only just read this post and I have to say - thank you for sharing this, Zane. Your attitude is extremely inspirational, in a good sense.
A very brilliant post. Thank you for inspiring for a lot of people who are suffering through the same thing.
Reading this, I feel like such a sad sack for not seizing the day often enough.

It sounds like you're living a rich life despite your illness. That's really great to hear.
This is a very inspirational post, you're truly admirable!
Thank you for sharing that.
I really don't want to diminish the story, because it is a very nice an positive story, but something a lot of people unfortunately do not realize is that even in the instance of such stories, they only end up positive because of an accumulation of events that worked in the protagonist's favor. For every story like this there are a dozen more that do not end so positively, and often for reasons outside of the person's control.

And while I'm at it, the notion of "control", or more specifically, "free will" is an illusory one. We are all biological machines bound by our own limitations, and it is something that we have to recognize when we try to work towards improving how we interact with each other and the world at large. Inspiration can do a lot to push someone beyond their boundaries, but at the same time, where those boundaries actually lie is completely different from person to person, and it is completely unfair to assume that every individual has the same potential to succeed as anyone else.
 
You many not like it, but for the general population, it is normatively a benefit to human beings. Not only is it psychologically and physiologically beneficial for most people, the ability to interpret touch is an inherent part of our evolutionary history.

I'm not talking about the general population; I'm talking about the exceptions. Those in the minority. Those like the OP, who do not befit all-encompassing claims like the one you originally stated. We're all different and, as it turns out, some people are different enough that they don't relate to what are meant to be common values.
 
OP, I was born with several crippling congenital heart and lung defects. My left diaphragm is paralyzed. My vascular system is all fucked up. As a result, I have spent a significant portion of my life in hospitals, fighting for my life. Once, I was pronounced dead only to start breathing again a few seconds later. To this day, my doctors haven't been able to figure out why I didn't sustain crippling brain damage. I have spent birthdays and christmases not in joyous celebration surrounded by my loved ones, but in a hospital bed, fighting for each and every breath.

Today, I still require a wheelchair when I leave the house and I'm hooked up to a ventilator, without which, I would surely die. But I'm alive. I have amazing friends and a wonderful family. I date women, I go to the movies, I eat out at restaurants and I have experiences. I met Bryan Cranston once! I talked to him for over half an hour! I have a great job as a reporter for a large magazine. The words I write are read by hundreds of thousands of people. I wouldn't trade any of this for anything.

I don't say this to brag or to invalidate your problems. You have body dysphoria. I don't know what that's like. I can't imagine. And I think everyone has their own problems that are significant to them. On some level, the option of living a VR life with no hardships or pain is understandable. But it would be incredibly unwise, if you ask me.

I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't have those struggles. I'm proud to have fought through those experiences. If today, a doctor came to me and said I could be perfectly normal and not have to use a wheelchair or a ventilator anymore and he could cure me 100% (and wasn't lying), I would probably not accept. Same with VR. Certainly VR, in the future, would allow me to escape my reality. But it would still be an escape. It would be running away. And it would invalidate my experiences and my struggles. Everything I've gone through would suddenly be for naught. Which isn't to say I wouldn't use VR. I'm psyched for the Oculus Rift, but only as a means to play different kinds of videogames. I'm not interested in a permanent VR life.

I used to think my medical defects were a curse and there was a time in my life where I became overcome with great and deep depression. But as I said before, the hardships I've gone through have molded me into the person I am today. I truly believe pain and struggle is a necessary evil.

post of the year
 
I'm not talking about the general population; I'm talking about the exceptions. Those in the minority. Those like the OP, who do not befit all-encompassing claims like the one you originally stated.
I agree with others in this thread who say that she doesn't benefit from certain "real world" experiences because she needs to obtain some psychological help. Not because she's somehow fundamentally "different" from the rest of us. Something so ingrained within our evolutionary history and physiology as the need and use for touch can't really be thrown out as a mere "difference," at least not with more rationale.
 
I agree with others in this thread who say that she doesn't benefit from certain "real world" experiences because she needs to obtain some psychological help. Not because she's somehow fundamentally "different" from the rest of us.

That's another issue/discussion that I haven't given an opinion on.

Something so ingrained within our evolutionary history and physiology as the need and use for touch can't really be thrown out as a mere "difference," at least not with more rationale.

Yes it can. The desire to reproduce is ingrained within our evolutionary history and physiology. So are homosexuals more than "different"? Is there some kind of underlying issue that needs to be addressed because they go against what it supposedly means to be "human"?
 
I obviously can't know what you mean as too much, but as someone struggling with social anxiety for years I can tell you one thing for sure: it is not a permanent state. It can be fought and if not entirely beaten, then at least controlled to allow you to function normally.

And believe me, the satisfaction of looking back at how you functioned a year ago, comparing it with today, and realizing you've made enormous progress with yourself - there's no virtual experience that can measure up.

So don't just give up on yourself like this.

True. I used to have a lot of social anxiety as a kid and teenager, thankfully it's much better now. I might not have a lot of friends, but i can have nice conversations with others, have a great relationship with my work colleagues and even got a girlfriend last year. Something that was literally impossible for me back then with fellow students.
 
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