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Which is fine, but there definitely are those out there that would never be able to exist on the same wavelength as other people.

People are not static. Nobody exists as just one thing - be it you or the people around you. The world is fluid. Statements like these make it sound like people are bricks - unchangeable. That may be true for some, but it's once again a simplification of the rest of the world, one that limits thinking and leads to faulty logic.

EDIT: And don't make me out as someone who doesn't understand people's difficulties. I do. I've experienced plenty myself, but not on the magnitude that others have. And yet, I can see self-defeating logic when it appears.
 
So, members of a virtual community that fully enjoy the "benefits" of its existence are against Virtual Reality so others cannot do what people in this thread already do?

I may not be able to see it but the benefits of VR will improve our lives rather than destroying it. Engineers will be able to construct airplanes inside a classroom, someone studying medicine will be able to practice for a surgery using just a headset, in history class we will go inside ancient buildings or we may witness important events that happened hundreds of years ago, people working in a nuclear plant may be able to do dangerous tasks without risking their lives... And when we are done with all that we will go home and enter a lobby where people will talk about movies, sports, videogames and whatnot.

It's sad that I may not be able to see any of that.

I touched on the practical applications of VR in my first post. I'd love to experience the practical VR of flying or visiting Ancient Rome. I think the technology with be life changing.

But the OP wants it as a vice and she will be inflicting more harm to her psyche than dealing with the meanies of NeoGAF.
 
I don't think OP is coming back.

Can I just point out how meta it is to try to confront a deeply personal issue by connecting to the largest convergence of other people there is to mull things over? I mean that in the best way possible.
 
We pretty much already do in the wastern world. The tv, the phone, the tablet, we spend more time looking through those windows then looking at the real world.

Whats wrong with it? It can show us everything except the truth. It can imitate it really well, it can show you hollow images of it, but thats all. It will always be reading a book of your life rather then living it.
 
For those thinking the OP might be trolling... if that's the case, she (or he, i'm not sure anymore) been doing this for a while : http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=113250181&postcount=133

Im not one to usually look at other members post history, but I was too curious with this particular one.

He's not trolling. He's been saying things like this for a long time, he appears to genuinely mean them, and I don't see the harm in his opinion. He's an adult AFAIK and it's not hurting anyone, so I think he's entitled to say these things without some of the kind of responses he's been getting.
 
The desire to "escape from the real world" is something I can understand, it's probably the reason why I dedicate most of my free time to videogames. However, I can't sympathise with the notion that some people would be better off completely abandonig their real lives in favour of living in a virtual world, even if that world was created according to their aspirations.
This world that we live in is the result of countless years of biological, social and cultural evolution. People have created societies, they have fought wars, they have spilled blood, they have exlored the scientific laws by which it is governed, they have saved lives and they have taken lives, they have loved and they have recreated. These actions have shaped the present world that we live in, wiht its positive and its negative traits. What gives us the right to give up on all that, just because there are some things we don't like and may cause us difficulty, instead of trying to ameliorate it?
I have no problem with the use of VR in order to benefit progress (like surgery simulations) or short VR gaming sessions. But the possibility of people losing themselves in a fake world frightens me to death.
OP, there's a lot to enjoy in the real world if you have the patience to look for it...
 
This is an awfully limited mindset rooted entirely in prejudices formed within the boundaries of the current system. Of course you've been raised within a capitalist regime that espouses all the positives of capitalism intrinsically as it works to mold you into a perfect consumer, so seeing these arguments regurgitated over and over again is quite unsurprising, but that also means I can address all of them.

No, I don't accept capitalism as a default "good", however I do recognize that commercialism is an easy way to provide for a workable society which doesn't run on wishes and pony farts. Every time someone says "Let's do away with capitalism, it sucks!" the entire basis of their argument is rooted in the world being a perfect utopia where nobody has to work unless they want to or it's based on the dysfunctional notion that "there has to be a better way".

Indeed, in a utopian vision of the future someone would have to be maintaining the robots and machines that keep things running. You can assume that there will be people volunteering to help, because helping with maintenance intrinsically benefits them, their families, their friends, and everyone else who depends on such machines to help them live.

There's that utopia. May as well crawl into a VR headset if you're expecting that level of technology being available to the public at an affordable rate to the masses any time soon, or that we'll even ever reach a perfect utopia.

Utopia, as a concept, is something everyone should strive towards. It should never be held up as proof that the current system is broken because it's a cheat. You're starting your argument with the deluded "In a perfect world..." qualifier without recognizing a simple fact: The world will never be perfect.

That's why we're talking about escaping the world into a VR headset, here.

This touches on the root of motivation, which you seem to believe CANNOT be intrinsic, but must instead be externally motivated. This isn't just false - this is straight up capitalist propaganda! The grand majority of the world's great scientists are all intrinsically motivated by a desire to better understand the world, and through that understanding, better the world itself. No scientist is in it for the money, which is no surprise when you consider that your funding as a scientist is extremely volatile and heavily dependent on how much you can game the system. It's the same thing with art - how many artists do you know who would say they are simply in it for the money?

Would those scientists still be motivated to learn if they had to devote their time and energy into sweeping up garbage and altruistically helping out with the harvest every fall? Would those scientists have the drive to push the boundaries of human knowledge and make things better if that didn't pay?

Some would. A fraction of what are currently researching, because if they had to do menial work to upkeep their own existence, they wouldn't have the time, energy, or motivation to do the research necessary to expand humanity's collective knowledge.

And no scientist, worldwide, has ever gone into that field because it pays well? Not one? I'd love to see some sort of proof behind that naive statement.

The only thing money does is get people to perform work they would otherwise have absolutely no interest in simply so that they can survive. Who gets a degree in finance because they simply love finance? Who works a factory job because they love repeating the same drudgery 8+ hours a day? This is, of course, useful in a society pre-automation as you need SOMEONE to work those jobs, but once automation becomes en vogue and those jobs are taken away, what then?

There's that utopia argument again. If your "better" society requires that nobody does any work they don't want to do, ever, the argument is a moot point. You're basically arguing with the same sort of logic a theist priest would argue: "God is right, because he's always right."

"Utopia is perfect, because Utopia is always perfect."

Of course it is, in concept. That's why it's called a utopia.

Then you have to consider that your frame of reference for a non-capitalist society... are all still capitalist societies at their core, because they still use money. The only way for us to truly know what a non-capitalist society actually looks like is to transition to a world that completely eschews the use of money, and that means the entire planet must do so, not just a state or country or two at a time. Furthermore, the system itself must be built with an eye towards natural law (a.k.a. SCIENCE) rather than simple ideology. Communism and socialism are quite flawed in that they only work off of social ideologies rather than using the scientific method to help guide policies towards actually fixing many of our societal problems at their core.

Man, it's almost like monetary value evolved from a system where people exchanged goods for labour, and came up with a simplified way to say "Fred will fix your fence if you give me six steaks, because I make Fred's hair look pretty."

At the core of every healthy human relationship is an equal exchange of some sort. That's what birthed the idea of barter and eventually money. It puts an easily tracked, expansive model towards those equal exchanges.

Money isn't just some nasty "thing" that holds society back, it's the thing that holds society together. Money is a necessary component of human interaction in a society as large as ours is, barring, of course, a magical utopia where nobody has to work or do anything they don't want to do and will still get food, shelter, and meaningful interaction in their lives regardless of what they contribute to the whole.

You also make the assertion that true equality wouldn't work by couching it in a monetary argument that has no bearing on reality. The system itself can be altered to work in such a way that inflation is no longer an issue.

Well this is a laughable simple statement. Inflation is a result of the ridiculously complex economic system which keeps the world running. We'd be back in the feudal ages at best without it.

For that matter, the money system itself should be getting phased out once we reach the point of a basic universal income.

Two points: One, you're talking about universal income the in the same sentence as you're talking about eliminating money. Two, this goes back to the utopia argument: You don't get to bring up an imaginary, perfect world to highlight why the imperfect world we have is bad.

Well, you can, but it doesn't really work as a cohesive argument.

Furthermore, just look at all the problems that are correlated with inequality, and consider just how much crime and social unrest goes away when you take away the problem of money. Having large swathes of the population no longer having to live with the anxiety of not knowing whether or not they'll have a roof over their heads and food on the table the next day massively improves everyone's lives, period.

*sigh* Utopia argument.

This is all tangential to the real issue at hand, mind you - the fact that our capitalist system is thrusting us headlong into actual global catastrophe. To wit:

1. The debt system creates such massive amounts of debt that no one can actually keep paying it off unless the global economy just keeps growing infinitely... and as we all know, nothing on planet Earth can grow infinitely. Economies all over WILL collapse inevitably as a part of the system itself.
2. Speaking of infinite growth, our capitalist paradigm requires us to consume ever-greater natural resources, resources that cause environmental havoc when consumed in great quantities. We must transition to a system that can survive with a steady-state economy as opposed to an infinite-growth one if we wish to survive as a species. No, that's not even hyperbole. We HAVE to do this.
3. Our technological reality is at odds with capitalism. As our technological capabilities grow, automation continues to take more and more jobs from the population. Technological unemployment is a part of our reality, and we have to recognize and work towards a future where that unemployment does not translate to negative effects on our society as a whole. It's paradoxical that our productivity increases, yet our lives as individuals suffer ever more simply because the system was not designed to account for it. Hell, you'd think planned obsolescene alone would have been enough to tell everyone 'this shit is fucked up', but apparently not.

Whether or not we SHOULD move away from a capitalist economy isn't even a question at this point. It's something we have to do as a species to continue coexisting on this tiny rock we call Earth. Failure to do so entails potentially catastrophic instability as our society strains at the seams to right itself as the system continues to suffer under the weight of its own malaise. One can only hope we collectively wake up soon enough to stop that constant spiral of madness from descending ever deeper.

Edit: I HIGHLY recommend watching the web series A Culture in Decline, as it helps greatly to illuminate these problems and just how many of them are intrinsic to the system itself.

Christ, utopia argument.

What you're basically saying is "The world will be perfect when it's perfect." Great! How do we get there in a way which won't involve a massive depopulation of the planet as the economic system collapses. Got nothing? Neither does anyone else.

Capitalism works the best of any method of global governance humanity has discovered thus far. Despite the massive amounts of wealth and privilege it confers to the ruling class, it also provides the lower-class members of society with more than any other system ever created.

I'd love it if the world were perfect. Everyone would. The world never will be, and expecting it to be and frowning at anyone who accepts that is no argument at all.
 
I understand the idea and the dream the OP has.

And I'm sure many other people will experience VR and think of the same things. " Wouldn't it be awesome if we could just somehow survive inside our VR worlds? Then we could have our own paradise! Magic! Watch planets collide in the distance and never get harmed! Fly through the stars! "

Not sure why the OP is getting shit about it. Pretty common thought. Not sure about all that fairy dust stuff and all that, thats not my thing, but I get where he is coming from.

Almost everyone in our society spends their money to create their own 'reality bubble' around them. You buy a house in the neighborhood you like most within your price range. You spend your money on furniture you like, entertainment you like, food you like. You spend your time with people you like.

You avoid people you dislike. You avoid areas you don't like.

For some reason, however, people think doing this in a virtual world is somehow different. All of a sudden all the flaws in the 'real world' we actively try to avoid become important and something to be cherished.

Life is what we do with it. If someone rather be virtual, so be it. It's not my gig, but everybody already lives in their own little universe anyway.

What's oddest to me is that the insulting and ostracism going on in this thread against people who do wish to exist in a 'virtual world' is exactly the kind of attitude that pushes people away from 'normal' interaction in the first place.

Live and let live. People are going to lose themselves in VR just like people lose themselves in everything else -- from work, to books, to drugs, to tv, to whatever.
 
Things are becoming too mean for me. I want to live in virtual reality to escape from things like this. This is hurting my feelings. I think I should leave the thread now...

Playing in a virtual world would definitely be fun and exciting, but I don't think it would be all happy and carefree as you hope it to be. Even in this thread, you have people being nice, and then others being condescending towards you. So, moving away from the real world to try and just live out a life online without problems wouldn't work. In VR, everything would be so much more personal, and judging by your reaction to some text on a gaming forum, it wouldn't be to your liking. What would you do if people were being mean to you in a virtual world?
 
I don't intend any disrespect at all when I say this, but based on previous posts by OP, I think part of their state of discontent stems from unhealthy (most likely irrational) body issues. In the sense of focusing on physical characteristics as the sources of unhappiness, and believing that "addressing" them will lead to happiness. I see parallels to people who believe that something like "being rich" will make them happy, even when their sources of unhappiness aren't money-related. This isn't to say pride in appearance isn't a reflection of our state of mind, and that self improvement often takes that form, but when someone conceives self-improvement as almost mystical effects from changing appearance, or a wholesale rejection of reality because of its challenges, it's simply an overreach of escapism.

Look at the words here:

And with nanotechnology I could have computer enhancements in my mind and all over my body. And I could enhance everything. It would be like having an SLI computer and always upgrading the graphics cards. I could have millions of little CPUs and GPUs and other types of computer things inside me making sure I'm always happy and healthy.

This is indistinguishable from magic. The person is unhappy, and they believe this fantasy change to themselves will stop that. They've never experienced it. There's no real-world medical analog. Their connection to the world is through their appreciation of technology. I totally relate to that, but placing hope for your happiness in something without substance won't help you. If you say "I can only be happy when what's currently impossible is possible," you're just contextualizing your ongoing despair.

I'd recommend anyone interested in this topic read The Terminal Man, an old-school pop-fiction novel by Crichton. Obviously there's better literature on the topic, but it goes into some of the implications of the idea of empty pleasure from technology, and throws in references to some old medical studies to boot. Wouldn't you know it? When you wire a rat's brain to a button that gives them a burst of happiness, and you give them control of that button, they press the button repeatedly, ceasing to socialize or care for themselves. They gradually acclimate to that new level of pleasure, and need more. They lose connection to their surroundings, fixated only on the neurological pleasure, and they die from starvation.
 
Well of course it is. Everything is appallingly, unimaginably, mind numbingly, extraordinary rude, insensitive and a blatant attack here. Merely suggesting that real life exists out there is the worst thing you can possibly do. You just threw that out there, despite not explaining at all why it is insensitive

Ill excuse my self.
Perhaps if you read the rest of my post you'd see that I already addressed this, but perhaps I was not clear enough.

You completely disregarded her concerns with a trite blanket statement that the real-world has what she wants. Which is particularly amusing considering we're on GAF specifically because we play video games that allow us to experience things that we never will in reality, which makes it doubly disconcerting how many people are so dismissive and judgemental within this very thread.

But the possibility of people losing themselves in a fake world frightens me to death.
Define "fake world".

And while we're at it, relevant XKCD:
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I am not proud of shaming-GAF in moments like this... really, really not proud.
It is irrelevant whether the OP is trolling or not. But I guess dreaming of fancy cars way outside most of our salaries's range is okay, cause it fits the box. Or fucking celebrities. Or whatever is the currently okay thing to do.

(And I do not even agree with the OP.)
 
I am not proud of shaming-GAF in moments like this... really, really not proud.
It is irrelevant whether the OP is trolling or not. But I guess dreaming of fancy cars way outside most of our salaries's range is okay, cause it fits the box. Or fucking celebrities. Or whatever is the currently okay thing to do.

(And I do not even agree with the OP.)
How is it irrelevant whether the OP is trolling or not?
 
There's another option. Growing up and stop trying to hide when your feelings get hurt. That's what makes one a well-developed, good-charactered, functioning adult.

I'm fairly certain Baikai just said exactly what his feelings are. He's not trying to hide them at all.

I think you're being mean for the sake of it and it's not entirely fair. Baikai who I happen to like has put their feelings out on the table in this thread and suddenly everyone is turning against him and calling them a troll. Now I'm not sure how long you've been here but I've been here a few years now and I know out of anyone here, the least likely person to be a troll is Baikai.

I think it'd be better to stop Baikai names as that's not very nice, but maybe that's just me.

dont enable him
if he really isnt a troll he needs professional help.

i dont know what happened to him but thats not healthy behavior

Nice of you to judge Baikai. I don't find saying things like that healthy behaviour, but if you wish to be mean, I guess I can't stop you.
 
On topic, VR is great when you do not use it to escape reality.

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I must apology beforehand because what I am about to say is not going to be nice.
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I read your other threads, all those post had suggest one thing of you, that anyone who experiences/views differently are denied by you because you are so content of your own mind. You expect everyone to side with you, and listen only to agreements. You can't take the slightest criticism from other about your problems which is, in my agnorant opinion, your biggest problem. You need to stop hiding in your own little shell.
 
I am not proud of shaming-GAF in moments like this... really, really not proud.
It is irrelevant whether the OP is trolling or not. But I guess dreaming of fancy cars way outside most of our salaries's range is okay, cause it fits the box. Or fucking celebrities. Or whatever is the currently okay thing to do.

(And I do not even agree with the OP.)

You could respond to (or report to moderators) the individual people you think are being cruel. In a situation like this, OP sounds like someone who's reaching out about something that's a serious challenge/hope in their life. I think people are fearful of just smiling and humoring someone who doesn't need to be further enabled for something that does trouble them.

The person has repeatedly reached out, professing ways they attempt to make themselves happier or to cope with the world. When no small part of that is the belief that this comes from looking more "cute," or surrounding themselves with "cute" things, I find it almost monstrous to not say "that won't make you happy," if you understand that to be true.
 
Nothing wrong with spending time in a virtual world, as long as you don't abuse it as escapism because you can't process your emotions. But that goes for any addiction too: food, drugs, porn. They're fine in a vacuum, but are often abused by people who can't handle their own emotions.


If you try to escape difficult emotions, you'll end up escaping happy emotions too, then you won't really feel anything. So I'm weary when someone says they want to "live in a virtual world". It's not necessarily implied, but it strongly suggests to me that they are trying to escape.

Also, a virtual tree isn't a tree, it's a raster image. In the same way a sideshow isn't a vacation or an album isn't a live concert. Nothing wrong with enjoying them or immersing yourself in them, but they are not the same as the real object. I get concerned if someone loses perspective of the difference.
 
Nothing wrong with spending time in a virtual world, as long as you don't abuse it as escapism because you can't process your emotions. But that goes for any addiction too: food, drugs, porn. They're fine in a vacuum, but are often abused by people who can't handle their own emotions.


If you try to escape difficult emotions, you'll end up escaping happy emotions too, then you won't really feel anything. So I'm weary when someone says they want to "live in a virtual world". It's not necessarily implied, but it strongly suggests to me that they are trying to escape.

Also, a virtual tree isn't a tree, it's a raster image. In the same way a sideshow isn't a vacation or an album isn't a live concert. Nothing wrong with enjoying them or immersing yourself in them, but they are not the same as the real object. I get concerned if someone loses perspective of the difference.
I don't actually have a problem with the concept of virtual reality being "unreal" on the level of perception, its theoretically possible that we might achieve the ability to stimulate the mind with complex sensations indistinguishable from reality.

What I take issue with is the broader implications of attitudes like those expressed in the OP, where the "fakeness" of the virtual reality isn't a result of its inability to render or simulate but a result of its existence as a tool for complacency, providing artificial challenge just sufficient enough to satiate while always being under control enough that one never has to undergo growth or change by confronting things outside of their comfort zone
 
providing artificial challenge just sufficient enough to satiate while always being under control enough that one never has to undergo growth or change by confronting things outside of their comfort zone

Do you believe that "growth" or "change" in regards to one's disposition necessarily implies a positive or beneficial one? The challenges one faces in life and the times they may have stepped outside of their comfort zone can very well cause one to regress instead of evolve, leading them to pursue such escapes like the one the OP suggests. Perpetually seeking these challenges that prove to only be harmful can be just as unhealthy as seeking a refuge from them.
 
I don't actually have a problem with the concept of virtual reality being "unreal" on the level of perception, its theoretically possible that we might achieve the ability to stimulate the mind with complex sensations indistinguishable from reality.

What I take issue with is the broader implications of attitudes like those expressed in the OP, where the "fakeness" of the virtual reality isn't a result of its inability to render or simulate but a result of its existence as a tool for complacency, providing artificial challenge just sufficient enough to satiate while always being under control enough that one never has to undergo growth or change by confronting things outside of their comfort zone

That's a good point too and another way virtual worlds can be abused: creating a control environment where the addict can allow certain things into their reality and dismiss others that might be too challenging. "Have issues with interacting in public? Don't get therapy or challenge yourself to improve; you can live in this particular virtual world where social interaction is not used. You're safe here!" That eliminates a fundamental part of the human experience: internal growth due to external challenges.
 
I don't actually have a problem with the concept of virtual reality being "unreal" on the level of perception, its theoretically possible that we might achieve the ability to stimulate the mind with complex sensations indistinguishable from reality.

What I take issue with is the broader implications of attitudes like those expressed in the OP, where the "fakeness" of the virtual reality isn't a result of its inability to render or simulate but a result of its existence as a tool for complacency, providing artificial challenge just sufficient enough to satiate while always being under control enough that one never has to undergo growth or change by confronting things outside of their comfort zone

Absolutely. Pain (of any kind) hurts. It's meant to, in the sense that it's the signals we're to act against. This is a simplistic example, but if I touch a hot pan, I feel pain. What I should take from that is don't touch hot metal. But if I emotionally focus on the physical pain, have an emotional reaction against the signal, that isn't a useful reaction. Using a drug to stop me from feeling that pain isn't the solution.

The fear I think many here are seeing with the premise from OP (and some of the personal context around it) is a wholesale reaction to life and people more in line with the latter. Not learning, not improving, not reacting to things as they are, but dismissing them as something to be done away with. We need pain as a signal. That doesn't mean pain is something we have to accept, but we need to react to the things it represents.
 
I knew that the OP would bail this thread at some point after reading about "mean people" and never wanting to deal with "pain".

The irony is that I believe the OP lives a more privileged and comfortable life than most of us in this thread (materially speaking).
 
Because for me, nothing can replace reality.

I want games to be exactly that. Games. Cute and fun distractions from the real world where I kill a bit of time in.

I never want to exist in a virtual world the way I do in a real one.
 
I don't know about that... technology is pretty nice.

I think that someday we'll have virtual reality that feels totally like the real world. We'll be able to have all the facial expressions and things like that like we do in the real world. And we'll be able to feel all the physical and romantic intimacy stuff, too. Like kissing and stuff.

It isn't there now, but I think it will be someday. I think it will get nicer every year.
The consumer version of the Oculus Rift isn't out yet. So I don't think it will feel totally real. But technology is amazing and I think that it will feel totally real someday.
I think we'll be able to have all of the fun feelings and senses. We'll be able to taste and smell and touch and do everything. The Oculus Rift is just going to be the beginning and it's going to be so amazing.

I don't think so. I'm pretty happy already. And when I'm doing things that I love, I'm always happier.

I've only read about halfway through the thread, but I don't really get what the OP wants.

So you want VR that's pretty much indistinguishable from the real world, to escape from the real world?

Here's the thing - whether you're interacting with them in a virtual environment or in real life, people will be people. People can still break your heart and bully you and abuse you virtually. I don't see how VR would change that. Even if you could choose to 'ignore' someone who's being abusive, the damage has already been done.

If you became really close with someone in VR in a way that was indistinguishable from the way they could become close with you in real life, what about VR would prevent the relationship from falling apart? What would you do then? Delete that person from a friends list? Whatever you do, you'd still have to cope with the loss in the same way you'd have to cope with it in the real world.

Here's the contradiction I see - you want VR that's indistinguishable from reality except for the fact that people can't hurt you. And I don't see how that's possible.

And if you're already happy, what do you want to live in a virtual environment for, anyway?

I apologize if any of this sounds accusatory or hostile or whatever, I'm just a little confused as to what you want, I guess.
 
I sneered a bit at the OP's fixation on getting away from "mean" people, but when it comes down to it, I don't exactly have a problem with what OP is saying. Yes, living most of your life in a virtual world is detrimental to your health. But I believe that you should be able to do whatever you want to do to yourself, as long as you don't hurt anybody else.

However, this begs the question: can you truly hurt yourself and only yourself? Even if you have no friends, you still (probably) have parents and family members who may be emotionally (if not financially) hurt by your lifestyle. Plus, by being a non-contributing member of society, you are effectively a net negative on the planet.

So it's a tricky issue, that becomes even harder to discuss because there are always people who say that alternate/non-mainstream lifestyles are wrong simply because they can't relate to those who choose to live that way. They judge others as unhappy for living differently, the irony being that, if those who have weird lifestyles are unhappy, it's usually due to the judgers, not the lifestyle itself.
 
OP, I was born with several crippling congenital heart and lung defects. My left diaphragm is paralyzed. My vascular system is all fucked up. As a result, I have spent a significant portion of my life in hospitals, fighting for my life. Once, I was pronounced dead only to start breathing again a few seconds later. To this day, my doctors haven't been able to figure out why I didn't sustain crippling brain damage. I have spent birthdays and christmases not in joyous celebration surrounded by my loved ones, but in a hospital bed, fighting for each and every breath.

Today, I still require a wheelchair when I leave the house and I'm hooked up to a ventilator, without which, I would surely die. But I'm alive. I have amazing friends and a wonderful family. I date women, I go to the movies, I eat out at restaurants and I have experiences. I met Bryan Cranston once! I talked to him for over half an hour! I have a great job as a reporter for a large magazine. The words I write are read by hundreds of thousands of people. I wouldn't trade any of this for anything.

I don't say this to brag or to invalidate your problems. You have body dysphoria. I don't know what that's like. I can't imagine. And I think everyone has their own problems that are significant to them. On some level, the option of living a VR life with no hardships or pain is understandable. But it would be incredibly unwise, if you ask me.

I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't have those struggles. I'm proud to have fought through those experiences. If today, a doctor came to me and said I could be perfectly normal and not have to use a wheelchair or a ventilator anymore and he could cure me 100% (and wasn't lying), I would probably not accept. Same with VR. Certainly VR, in the future, would allow me to escape my reality. But it would still be an escape. It would be running away. And it would invalidate my experiences and my struggles. Everything I've gone through would suddenly be for naught. Which isn't to say I wouldn't use VR. I'm psyched for the Oculus Rift, but only as a means to play different kinds of videogames. I'm not interested in a permanent VR life.

I used to think my medical defects were a curse and there was a time in my life where I became overcome with great and deep depression. But as I said before, the hardships I've gone through have molded me into the person I am today. I truly believe pain and struggle is a necessary evil.
 
People are not static. Nobody exists as just one thing - be it you or the people around you. The world is fluid. Statements like these make it sound like people are bricks - unchangeable. That may be true for some, but it's once again a simplification of the rest of the world, one that limits thinking and leads to faulty logic.

EDIT: And don't make me out as someone who doesn't understand people's difficulties. I do. I've experienced plenty myself, but not on the magnitude that others have. And yet, I can see self-defeating logic when it appears.

I wasn't referring to the majority of people there, but that doesn't mean that many don't exist. No, people are not static, but it's also idealistic to think every aspect of an individual's life is ripe for personal growth. Yes, there are many people out there like those with social anxiety and agoraphobia that should try to overcome their issues as they would probably find meaningful relationships more fulfilling than their current lifestyle.

However, there are also many people that are absolutely incapable of enjoying the company of others for whatever reason. That does not mean they aren't growing in other ways. We live in an era where we can be alone most of our lives and still have a happy existence. Being able to order groceries online, working without having to psychically interact with people, etc. For some (hell, for many) this is detrimental as far as realizing one's true potential goes. For others (whether it be based on certain disorders or some life experiences), this is a happier life than anything that would involve people in some great capacity. If they're happy and not hurting anyone, I can't really get worked up how they're choosing to live their lives. Working with both kids and adults at various points on the autism spectrum has given me some perspective on the whole thing.
 
OP, I was born with several crippling congenital heart and lung defects. My left diaphragm is paralyzed. My vascular system is all fucked up. As a result, I have spent a significant portion of my life in hospitals, fighting for my life. Once, I was pronounced dead only to start breathing again a few seconds later. To this day, my doctors haven't been able to figure out why I didn't sustain crippling brain damage. I have spent birthdays and christmases not in joyous celebration surrounded by my loved ones, but in a hospital bed, fighting for each and every breath.

Today, I still require a wheelchair when I leave the house and I'm hooked up to a ventilator, without which, I would surely die. But I'm alive. I have amazing friends and a wonderful family. I date women, I go to the movies, I eat out at restaurants and I have experiences. I met Bryan Cranston once! I talked to him for over half an hour! I have a great job as a reporter for a large magazine. The words I write are read by hundreds of thousands of people. I wouldn't trade any of this for anything.

I don't say this to brag or to invalidate your problems. You have body dysphoria. I don't know what that's like. I can't imagine.

But I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't have those struggles. I'm proud to have fought through those experiences. If today, a doctor came to me and said I could be perfectly normal and not have to use a wheelchair or a ventilator anymore and he could cure me 100% (and wasn't lying), I would probably not accept. Same with VR. Certainly VR, in the future, would allow me to escape my reality. But it would still be an escape. It would be running away. And it would invalidate my experiences and my struggles. Everything I've gone through would suddenly be for naught.

I used to think my medical defects were a curse and there was a time in my life where I became overcome with great and deep depression. But as I said before, the hardships I've gone through have molded me into the person I am today. I truly believe pain and struggle is a necessary evil.

Thank you for sharing that.
 
OP, I was born with several crippling congenital heart and lung defects. My left diaphragm is paralyzed. My vascular system is all fucked up. As a result, I have spent a significant portion of my life in hospitals, fighting for my life. Once, I was pronounced dead only to start breathing again a few seconds later. To this day, my doctors haven't been able to figure out why I didn't sustain crippling brain damage. I have spent birthdays and christmases not in joyous celebration surrounded by my loved ones, but in a hospital bed, fighting for each and every breath.

Today, I still require a wheelchair when I leave the house and I'm hooked up to a ventilator, without which, I would surely die. But I'm alive. I have amazing friends and a wonderful family. I date women, I go to the movies, I eat out at restaurants and I have experiences. I met Bryan Cranston once! I talked to him for over half an hour! I have a great job as a reporter for a large magazine. The words I write are read by hundreds of thousands of people. I wouldn't trade any of this for anything.

I don't say this to brag or to invalidate your problems. You have body dysphoria. I don't know what that's like. I can't imagine.

But I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't have those struggles. I'm proud to have fought through those experiences. If today, a doctor came to me and said I could be perfectly normal and not have to use a wheelchair or a ventilator anymore and he could cure me 100% (and wasn't lying), I would probably not accept. Same with VR. Certainly VR, in the future, would allow me to escape my reality. But it would still be an escape. It would be running away. And it would invalidate my experiences and my struggles. Everything I've gone through would suddenly be for naught.

I used to think my medical defects were a curse and there was a time in my life where I became overcome with great and deep depression. But as I said before, the hardships I've gone through have molded me into the person I am today. I truly believe pain and struggle is a necessary evil.

This is a very inspirational post, you're truly admirable!
 
OP, I was born with several crippling congenital heart and lung defects. My left diaphragm is paralyzed. My vascular system is all fucked up. As a result, I have spent a significant portion of my life in hospitals, fighting for my life. Once, I was pronounced dead only to start breathing again a few seconds later. To this day, my doctors haven't been able to figure out why I didn't sustain crippling brain damage. I have spent birthdays and christmases not in joyous celebration surrounded by my loved ones, but in a hospital bed, fighting for each and every breath.

Today, I still require a wheelchair when I leave the house and I'm hooked up to a ventilator, without which, I would surely die. But I'm alive. I have amazing friends and a wonderful family. I date women, I go to the movies, I eat out at restaurants and I have experiences. I met Bryan Cranston once! I talked to him for over half an hour! I have a great job as a reporter for a large magazine. The words I write are read by hundreds of thousands of people. I wouldn't trade any of this for anything.

I don't say this to brag or to invalidate your problems. You have body dysphoria. I don't know what that's like. I can't imagine.

But I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't have those struggles. I'm proud to have fought through those experiences. If today, a doctor came to me and said I could be perfectly normal and not have to use a wheelchair or a ventilator anymore and he could cure me 100% (and wasn't lying), I would probably not accept. Same with VR. Certainly VR, in the future, would allow me to escape my reality. But it would still be an escape. It would be running away. And it would invalidate my experiences and my struggles. Everything I've gone through would suddenly be for naught.

I used to think my medical defects were a curse and there was a time in my life where I became overcome with great and deep depression. But as I said before, the hardships I've gone through have molded me into the person I am today. I truly believe pain and struggle is a necessary evil.

Reading this, I feel like such a sad sack for not seizing the day often enough.

It sounds like you're living a rich life despite your illness. That's really great to hear.
 
OP, I was born with several crippling congenital heart and lung defects. My left diaphragm is paralyzed. My vascular system is all fucked up. As a result, I have spent a significant portion of my life in hospitals, fighting for my life. Once, I was pronounced dead only to start breathing again a few seconds later. To this day, my doctors haven't been able to figure out why I didn't sustain crippling brain damage. I have spent birthdays and christmases not in joyous celebration surrounded by my loved ones, but in a hospital bed, fighting for each and every breath.

Today, I still require a wheelchair when I leave the house and I'm hooked up to a ventilator, without which, I would surely die. But I'm alive. I have amazing friends and a wonderful family. I date women, I go to the movies, I eat out at restaurants and I have experiences. I met Bryan Cranston once! I talked to him for over half an hour! I have a great job as a reporter for a large magazine. The words I write are read by hundreds of thousands of people. I wouldn't trade any of this for anything.

I don't say this to brag or to invalidate your problems. You have body dysphoria. I don't know what that's like. I can't imagine.

But I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't have those struggles. I'm proud to have fought through those experiences. If today, a doctor came to me and said I could be perfectly normal and not have to use a wheelchair or a ventilator anymore and he could cure me 100% (and wasn't lying), I would probably not accept. Same with VR. Certainly VR, in the future, would allow me to escape my reality. But it would still be an escape. It would be running away. And it would invalidate my experiences and my struggles. Everything I've gone through would suddenly be for naught. Which isn't to say I wouldn't use VR. I'm psyched for the Oculus Rift, but only as a means to play different kinds of videogames. I'm not interested in a permanent VR life.

I used to think my medical defects were a curse and there was a time in my life where I became overcome with great and deep depression. But as I said before, the hardships I've gone through have molded me into the person I am today. I truly believe pain and struggle is a necessary evil.

A very brilliant post. Thank you for inspiring for a lot of people who are suffering through the same thing.
 
He's not trolling. He's been saying things like this for a long time, he appears to genuinely mean them, and I don't see the harm in his opinion. He's an adult AFAIK and it's not hurting anyone, so I think he's entitled to say these things without some of the kind of responses he's been getting.

It seems a lot of people are looking at things from their perspective and applying them to OP. I took this risk and enjoyed it so you should too, I struggled through this and it made me a better person so it'll make you a better person too.

If OP has thought this through and feels he would be better of living in his virtual world what's the problem?
 
If OP has thought this through and feels he would be better of living in his virtual world what's the problem?

People care enough to point out that it's regressive, potentially self-destructive, and won't make them happy in the long run. Being judgmental is different from giving what appears to be necessary perspective, particularly when OP asked for feedback on that topic.
 
It seems a lot of people are looking at things from their perspective and applying them to OP. I took this risk and enjoyed it so you should too, I struggled through this and it made me a better person so it'll make you a better person too.

If OP has thought this through and feels he would be better of living in his virtual world what's the problem?

From the OP alone I'm not confident he/she has thought this through.

He/she is relying on this VR world to solve their problems. A lot of people are arguing that it'll exasperate the already worrying issues the OP struggles with.

I'd go one step further to say that it'll create more problems for the OP than it'll solve.
 
Props to you for taking life by the horns and making it yours. Rock on.
However, this begs the question: can you truly hurt yourself and only yourself? Even if you have no friends, you still (probably) have parents and family members who may be emotionally (if not financially) hurt by your lifestyle. Plus, by being a non-contributing member of society, you are effectively a net negative on the planet.
An interesting question that I don't think we have any great answer for unfortunately.
That's a good point too and another way virtual worlds can be abused: creating a control environment where the addict can allow certain things into their reality and dismiss others that might be too challenging. "Have issues with interacting in public? Don't get therapy or challenge yourself to improve; you can live in this particular virtual world where social interaction is not used. You're safe here!" That eliminates a fundamental part of the human experience: internal growth due to external challenges.
This is one of my concerns about VR. People retreating into "their" bubbles and surrounding themselves with all kinds of self-confirming experiences and not truly experiencing all the things that make the human experience the human experience. Using VR to solve one's problems and to solve problems generally is not going to be a helpful situation for people.
 
People care enough to point out that it's regressive, potentially self-destructive, and won't make them happy in the long run. Being judgmental is different from giving what appears to be necessary perspective, particularly when OP asked for feedback on that precise topic.

Like most things it can be regressive and self destructive if misused, but has anyone in this thread considered that it might do the opposite for OP?
 
I really don't see virtual reality as the answer to escaping the harshness of the world if the problems can be in some way connected to the person in question.

Sure someone who could be overly sensitive may see a virtual world as an escape, because they get to be whoever they want to be, act the way they want. But if theirs a character trait or personality flaw with that person in real life, how long before it seeps into their online persona.

You may be shy and nervous around people in real life, but in this virtual world you're a confident social individual because it's an escape... That's until that virtual world takes priority, then you have the same worries about people, will these virtual friends like me for who I am, these virtual guys are really popular what if they don't like me, someone doesn't think my virtual avatar is attractive enough.

Living in your ideal virtual utopia may seem like a great idea, but do you really think you'd be a strong enough person to overcome your own flaws to make/live in it?
 
Okay. I probably shouldn't do this because it's so tangential to the topic of the thread but at the same time I am unwilling to simply let it go, so here goes:

No, I don't accept capitalism as a default "good", however I do recognize that commercialism is an easy way to provide for a workable society which doesn't run on wishes and pony farts. Every time someone says "Let's do away with capitalism, it sucks!" the entire basis of their argument is rooted in the world being a perfect utopia where nobody has to work unless they want to or it's based on the dysfunctional notion that "there has to be a better way".
On the flipside, it's extremely easy to argue for the status quo as you don't have to do anything at all to work to change it. It's also the most small-minded route to take as you don't have to even consider answering those difficult questions about fixing the problems of our world.

Needless to say, I refuse to accept that.

There's that utopia. May as well crawl into a VR headset if you're expecting that level of technology being available to the public at an affordable rate to the masses any time soon, or that we'll even ever reach a perfect utopia.

Utopia, as a concept, is something everyone should strive towards. It should never be held up as proof that the current system is broken because it's a cheat. You're starting your argument with the deluded "In a perfect world..." qualifier without recognizing a simple fact: The world will never be perfect.

That's why we're talking about escaping the world into a VR headset, here.
Obviously I am NOT arguing that it would happen all at once. Obviously there would have to be a transition period as we work towards the goal of making the world a better place to live for everyone instead of just those who are fortunate enough to be born in the right place at the right time, with the right circumstances to enable their success.

Allowing people the basic right to have shelter, electricity, food, and water (which, I should remind you, are essentially required if one is to continue their 'pursuit of happiness') would go a looooooong way to helping with this, and it's something we can do today.

Would those scientists still be motivated to learn if they had to devote their time and energy into sweeping up garbage and altruistically helping out with the harvest every fall? Would those scientists have the drive to push the boundaries of human knowledge and make things better if that didn't pay?

Some would. A fraction of what are currently researching, because if they had to do menial work to upkeep their own existence, they wouldn't have the time, energy, or motivation to do the research necessary to expand humanity's collective knowledge.
False premise. We already have technology that enables us to harvest food with a minimum of manpower, hence there is absolutely no need for people to volunteer themselves to help with that.

And before you (inevitably) bring it up, the same goes for construction and manufacturing. We can build houses out of prefabricated parts and assemble them on-site. A large part of the reason we don't do this is because those construction jobs are so important to the people who hold them, because without them they have no livelihood. That manual labour also drives up the price of the housing, which is of course desirable when your motive is profit.

And no scientist, worldwide, has ever gone into that field because it pays well? Not one? I'd love to see some sort of proof behind that naive statement.
I don't even need to go specifically into scientists as a collective. Just in society as a whole, money does a very poor job of motivating anyone.

I should also note that this is the same line of argument global warming liars (calling them "denialists" gives them too much credit) use when they try to argue that scientists are somehow being bribed into creating a global warming conspiracy. It's false. No way around it.
There's that utopia argument again. If your "better" society requires that nobody does any work they don't want to do, ever, the argument is a moot point. You're basically arguing with the same sort of logic a theist priest would argue: "God is right, because he's always right."

"Utopia is perfect, because Utopia is always perfect."

Of course it is, in concept. That's why it's called a utopia.
You're completely fixated on the concept of a utopia above all else, and ignore my underlying arguments.

Quite frankly, I am beginning to wonder if I have anything to gain from engaging with you, given that you are so far being rather disingenuous in your argumentation.

But let's try this again. We already know that money is a very poor motivator and only really works to get people to perform uninteresting tasks that they would otherwise have no interest in. Those same uninteresting tasks can be performed with automated machinery in place of people (which we already do for a lot of manufacturing tasks), which displaces a lot of long-standing jobs that people used to depend on for their livelihoods.

These jobs will continue to disappear over the long-haul due to technological unemployment. This creates a paradox wherein we are more capable of productivity than ever before within human history, yet, for whatever reason, we can't quite seem to work out how to distribute these goods in an equitable manner because we lack the jobs to pay people to buy these goods.

How do you plan to address this in the confines of the monetary system?

Man, it's almost like monetary value evolved from a system where people exchanged goods for labour, and came up with a simplified way to say "Fred will fix your fence if you give me six steaks, because I make Fred's hair look pretty."

At the core of every healthy human relationship is an equal exchange of some sort. That's what birthed the idea of barter and eventually money. It puts an easily tracked, expansive model towards those equal exchanges.

Money isn't just some nasty "thing" that holds society back, it's the thing that holds society together. Money is a necessary component of human interaction in a society as large as ours is, barring, of course, a magical utopia where nobody has to work or do anything they don't want to do and will still get food, shelter, and meaningful interaction in their lives regardless of what they contribute to the whole.
Yes, money worked for a long time. Its time is over. It has long since outlived its usefulness. About the time we started instating the use of planned obsolescence and creating an artificial consumer culture that breeds a desire for more, more, more when it was completely unnecessary to do so is about when money began to become a net negative for society instead of a net positive.

The funny thing is, after the industrial revolution, we could very easily have remodeled our society into something far more reasonable by, say, for example, cutting work hours in half across the board and accepting a new status quo where constant growth is not the norm. But instead we created the consumer culture, and look where it's got us now. Hardly something we can be proud of if we ever have to explain all of this to extraterrestrial visitors.

Well this is a laughable simple statement. Inflation is a result of the ridiculously complex economic system which keeps the world running. We'd be back in the feudal ages at best without it.
Now this is a laughable statement. Part of the reason why our economic system is so complex is because we've created this artificial need for more, more, more, and part of it is because we keep applying bandaids to it in an attempt to keep things running smoothly.

Doubtlessly a new resource-based economy would be highly complex simply due to the nature of managing billions of human beings all across the world... but if we can get rid of awful shit like planned obsolescence, artificial scarcity, poverty, war, and the incredibly irrational trend that is globalization (why do we need to import food from the other side of the goddamn planet?!), it'll be well worth the effort.

Two points: One, you're talking about universal income the in the same sentence as you're talking about eliminating money. Two, this goes back to the utopia argument: You don't get to bring up an imaginary, perfect world to highlight why the imperfect world we have is bad.

Well, you can, but it doesn't really work as a cohesive argument.
A universal basic income would be a stepping stone on the road to the "utopia" as you call it. It's definitely one of the easiest ways to ensure people get their basic needs met, which is a large part of the goal of dropping the monetary system entirely (the other part, obviously, being our need to stop our infinite growth paradigm from destroying the human habitability of our planet).

*sigh* Utopia argument.
Okay, this is stupid. Stop it. You do not get to summarily dismiss my points by plugging your ears and screaming "utopianist! utopianist!"

We have so much evidence now that high inequality results in enormous social problems across the board. You do NOT get to ignore that. If you want me to take you even halfway seriously in this "debate" (and I am being charitable to you right now), you WILL address these points with more intellectual honesty.

Christ, utopia argument.

What you're basically saying is "The world will be perfect when it's perfect." Great! How do we get there in a way which won't involve a massive depopulation of the planet as the economic system collapses. Got nothing? Neither does anyone else.

Capitalism works the best of any method of global governance humanity has discovered thus far. Despite the massive amounts of wealth and privilege it confers to the ruling class, it also provides the lower-class members of society with more than any other system ever created.

I'd love it if the world were perfect. Everyone would. The world never will be, and expecting it to be and frowning at anyone who accepts that is no argument at all.
This argument is the equivalent of plugging your ears and going "la-la-la-la-la everything is fine I can't hear yooouuu". It is the opposite of an argument. It is a childish dismissal and I won't stand for it.

Address the problems of our monetary system or bow out of the debate. If you cannot propose a solution to these many, quite frankly, terrifying issues that have arisen as a result of our continued dependence on this archaic system, then the real solution is obvious: we must drop it. Dropping it, of course, involves a long transitional period where we gradually work towards the end goal, but it's either we do that or billions of humans perish as a result of our catastrophic shortsightedness and inability to adapt to slowly changing conditions (to use an overly tortured analogy, as if we were sitting in an oven and too numb to realize that we needed to jump out before it cooked us to death).

These problems are real, and we deal with these problems on a daily basis, especially those of us who are unemployed or only part-time employed. Simply ignoring them solves nothing, and if anything, only allows the problems to continue to fester and get even worse over time. It is only when we, collectively, as a society, recognize these problems and begin to push for change that we can see anything truly get better.
 
Like most things it can be regressive and self destructive if misused, but has anyone in this thread considered that it might do the opposite for OP?

Yes, based on what they wrote and have written about themselves in the past, we did just that, then composed responses based on what we thought. What exactly are you arguing? If you do agree with the concept behind the OP, I'd say write up a response instead of telling others not to respond like they are.
 
OP, please understand that the following statements are being made from a place of concern and are honest and sincere.

I truly believe that you may want to speak to a psychiatric professional to help you deal with some deep-seeded trauma. It seems like you want to escape into a virtual world as a way to avoid the real world. You keep referring to people as "mean" and "terrible", and it seems like you are scared of the populace in general. I don't know what has happened to you to result in this mindset, but please, seek out some help. Reading through all of your posts in this thread really has me concerned about you. You seem like a really great person, but I think that being able to overcome what seems to be an overwhelming fear of humanity and reality will require the help of a professional. Please, please, please seek out this help. The real world will never go away, and avoidance of it will only make you more afraid to be part of it.

You may think that I'm being mean right now, but I am typing this with the most concern that I've ever felt for another human that I have never met.

I'm trying to keep up with the thread (jumped 7 pages forward while I was asleep), but in case HolyBaikal hasn't already responded to this I just want to say I really really hope you listen to this guy's advice, OP.
 
Like most things it can be regressive and self destructive if misused, but has anyone in this thread considered that it might do the opposite for OP?
That's precisely what has occurred. I think many people have considered the OP's mindset and situation and think that given the particulars of the individual, VR would not be helpful to them.
 
Yes, based on what they wrote and have written about themselves in the past, we did just that, then composed responses based on what we thought. What exactly are you arguing? If you do agree with the concept behind the OP, I'd say write up a response instead of telling others not to respond like they are.

I'm not telling others not to respond. Like I said before, people have looked at things form their perspective, I'm asking instead if people have considered OPs perspective.

That's precisely what has occurred. I think many people have considered the OP's mindset and situation and think that given the particulars of the individual, VR would not be helpful to them.

I haven't been able to he through the whole thread but this is what I was wondering. Most of what I'm reading is people dismissing OPs idea because they couldn't imagine doing it themselves or arguing that society would be worse of, but I'll continue reading.
 
The real world is plenty interesting, beautiful, fascinating, whatever. And its real

I enjoy virtual worlds from a perspective of artistic appreciation.
Exactly so.

Every time the topic of VR comes up I'm disappointed that Holodecks haven't been invented.

Probably good we don't have such tech. Our society is not mature enough to actually manage such powerful tech.

I think this topic best illustrates this.
 
I'm not telling other not to respond. Like I said before, people have looked at things form their perspective, I'm asking instead if people have considered OPs perspective.

Please read and respond to individual posts you believe are failing to do that, or stop derailing conversation.
 
I'm not telling other not to respond. Like I said before, people have looked at things form their perspective, I'm asking instead if people have considered OPs perspective.

OP's perspective on the matters in this thread, in addition to context gained from other posts from OP, is what has caused the outpouring of concern.
 
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